Are men really scarce? or could it just be the ones ladies think are responsible enough for marriage (I mean husband materials as they are referred to in local parlance) that are difficult to come by? Otherwise why would it be so much of an achievement for a lady to be hooked these days.

Guys, are you really scarce?

Thanx, the signature inspires me in a way. (Dont mind how)

Back to the issue. It kinda strange that someone would get into a relationship without knowing what to get from it, or where the relationship should head.

So, it's the choice ones that are really scarce? I dont think it's peculiar to men then, it's both ways, because choice ladies are difficult to come by too, it's just that it's difficult to tell who's fake from the real ones at first blush.

I think it depends on who you mix with and where you go, socially i mean

Nope, guys are not scarce, but good rich ones are.

topup:

Nah, it's just a lot of women, like myself, end up in the wrong relationships because they didn't know what they were looking for before the heartbreak, after the heartbreak, they realise it, and all the flaws in the guy and the relationship.

I believe with every break up, I refine my search criteria, and it's good knowing that I'm getting closer to him.

I know there are plenty good men, I surround myself with them, however, sometimes I fall into the habit of thinking my good guys have good friends, but that isn't always the case.

I know so many great guys, maybe it's because they are also Christian, but I know so many focused guys, and I know all I'm looking for a the specifics, e.g. physical attraction, and interests in common, otherwise, if I wanted a basic good guy, I have several to choose from.

P.s. I love your signature!

u wil be seriously misled by this funny philosophy of urs. Real Men r scarce. Beware of that Mr nice Guy. He is a wolf in Lamb clothing. We r scarce. Only prayers can open your eyes to this truth. No amount of xperience can xpose u 2 dix.

they're not scarce,
just dat we want to make the whole money before settling down

Yes,
fine, mature, responsible, honest, etc men are very scarce.

Don't know why the previous generation bothered to have boys, knowing they'll have no time to teach them properly.

@ruby saw ur profile re u really 48

Ruby_Pearl:

Yes,
fine, mature, responsible, honest, etc men are very scarce.

Don't know why the previous generation bothered to have boys, knowing they'll have no time to teach them properly.

whatever!
na person sey make dem born u a woman

dudu19:

@ruby saw your profile re u really 48

No, double that number

studio43:

whatever!
na person sey make them born u a woman

which one is biting you on ya ass?

Good men are actually not scarce. the problem is ladies who spend their time drawing up bizzare and almost unachievable qualifications for the type of man they want. These qualifications automatically disqualify the few good men around thereby increasing the number of husbandless and boyfriendless ladies in our society.

topup:

Real men are scarce if we're looking at boys, I'm ~ 20, so these are still boys, when I get to the age ~25 - 30, they will become more plenty. Life makes boys into men (well most).

I now know better what I want, because I'm getting better at seeing what I don't want.

A kiss for that

Are Men Really Scarce?

Men are not scarce but responsible MEN are!!!

Guys are scarce o!!
Infact, very soon ladies will only be able to find husbands only on the black market.
By 2015, it will no longer be bride price but rather groom price.
All ladies are hereby warned.


_{Grab your copy} ^(MAN) _now

Ladies, you have been warned. Grab your copy today. Tomorrow might be too late.

As for me , i'm very scarce .

I just think scarcity of Men means they are just too expensive to have.

dyabman:

I just think scarcity of Men means they are just too expensive to have.

nope.

It simply means "the demand is greater than the supply" - Economics _{(Demand and Supply)}

Okija_juju:

nope.

It simply means "the demand is greater than the supply" - Economics _{(Demand and Supply)}

Yep, high demands of responsible, mature, sensible men are in, but they're out of stock.
Hard to find nowadays

men are not scarce, all ready made men are scarce n thats what most women are looking for, they want to reap where they did not sow.

@post

You see, you got it all wrong. We have alot of men. . . . . physically. But we have very very very very very very very few men mentally. What we have is an infestation of Men with a Boy's mentality.

All hail Onyinye

Nairalands resident "Man-Slayer".

Okija_juju:

All hail Onyinye

Nairalands resident "Man-Slayer".

Shaarup dia. Onye ara
You know i speak the truth.

onyinye2:

Shaarup dia. Onye ara
You know i speak the truth.

"The truth" according to Onyinye.

Okija_juju:

"The truth" according to Onyinye.

CORRECTION. "The Truth" according to all the people who have sense.

onyinye2:

CORRECTION. "The Truth" according to all the people who have sense.

Whatever fuels your "Man-eating urge".

Good men are actually not scarce. the problem is ladies who spend their time drawing up bizzare and almost unachievable qualifications for the type of man they want. These qualifications automatically disqualify the few good men around thereby increasing the number of husbandless and boyfriendless ladies in our society.

Qualifications like what?

stillwater:

Qualifications like what?

Tall
Handsome
Rich
Confident
Responsible
Honest
Non drinker
Non smoker
Non womanizer
Great sex

to name a few. If you dont meet the minimum requirements, you won't even be invited for the interview