A guy meets a lady - they both knew it is a fling - based on either the circumstances or based on how the relationship commenced - probably - the guy is even married - they started sleeping together - no protection - also - no commitment to marriage or a long term relationship from the guy - you both keep sleeping together - no protection - suddenly the lady gets pregnant - goes to the guy and the guy denies or even when he doesnt deny - cries wolf and blames the lady for getting pregnant - obviously he doesnt want a commitment talkless of a baby with you - woman. So man tells woman - go and abort - and when woman says no - man abandons her - abandons the pregnacy - ultimately - abandons the child - and the woman becomes forever bitter towards the man for impregnating her and abandoning her.

Now who is to balme - is it the man or the woman who opens her legs wide and up to the roof for a man who hasnt made any commitment to her - without any protection. Are men who does this simply hertless or are the women simply stupid and gullible - because you know you will get pregnant without any protection.

Never underestimate women. Even when they act 'stupid in love', they know exactly what they're doing.

the woman is stupid for open her leg without condom, and the guy is a fool for having sex without condom and for abandoning her,  the woman and the man is to blame.

both of them are acting stupid

if both of them are stupid - it cant be with the same degree - one should still be wiser - and i think it is the lady - because she knows - if she gets pregnant - she will carry the pregnancy for 9 months - while the man goes about sleeping with other women - the woman should be less stupid because she shld know that if she gets pregnant - she will forever cary the scare and the evidence in her life - so - me think the woman is more stupid for allowing it.

@poster,i rily dnt knw,i gues its just one of life's big mysteries,like:why is d sky blue?why does d sun come up evriday? Why is richieblack such a jobless idiot?
LOL.mor seriously,i tink d woman is mor stupid;she was stupid enough 2 get involved wit a married man,she was stupid enof 2 sleep wit him,she was stupid enof 2 do so witout protection & get herself preg,so she's definitly at fault.

The both of them. Simple as that. They got what they deserved.

onyinye2:

The both of them. Simple as that. They got what they deserved.

I dont think it is both of them - the man wants some enjoyment - got it but got it from a stupid woman who doesnt think that the enjoyment can carry a scar for life - remember - men dont carry any scar as a result of sex - the woman carries it - so the woman should have been smarter.

tombola:

I don't think it is both of them - the man wants some enjoyment - got it but got it from a stupid woman who doesnt think that the enjoyment can carry a scar for life - remember - men don't carry any scar as a result of sex - the woman carries it - so the woman should have been smarter.

He will be carrying a scar when i drag his behind to court and get my child support.

They are both to blame. But the girl shouldn't have opened her legs in the first place

Abeg, i am always for the course of the women, the woman is to be blamed, tthey should know better by now that u aint suppose to sleep with someone ure not married to, huh, WE Men will continue to be men except some of US, saved by grace.

They are both to blame. Just plain stupid on both their parts.

Any woman who sleeps with a married man is already stupid, now add pregnancy to it? I doubt there will ever be a word to express the heights of her stupidity.


Wait a sec, wasn't it Kobojunkie who started this topic? I was just gonna say how nice to see her outside the politics section. Who is Tunfulu?

Sisikill:

Any woman who sleeps with a married man is already stupid, now add pregnancy to it? I doubt there will ever be a word to express the heights of her stupidity.
 

A  married man that sleep with a woman is EVEN more stupid. What if he told her he was single? He is the one in a committed relationship.

Pregnancy
Plus A failed Marriage.

@ topic

How can one be blamed more than the other? They both consented to it therefore they are both to blame.

Stupid thing she did was not having sex without a condom but having sex with someone not her husband, QED

who says d girl is more stupid, i think d guy is as stupid as she, 4 exposing his wife n unborn children to d dangers of unprotected sex n distrupting d peace of his home.4 all we know d gir culd b a carrier of 1 of dem deadly std's. they both equally foolish.

It takes two to make it happen.

The guys will say its the lady and the ladies will naturally say it s the guy or both of them. But I'm a realist.
What does the guy stand to loose? Tell me? OK he may pick up an STD and have an unwanted child abi?Thats the max.
But the girl could get an STD, get pregnant, get dumped, carry the pregnancy for nine months, labour pains, shame and embarrassment for her and her family, narrow chance of getting married,single parenthood etc.

So what are we talking about here? The rule is simple,don't sleep with him.Your boyfriend,fiance,man friend,lover warreva.
Your destiny is in Gods hands and your hands too. I mean what did he say or do that made you open your legs? Must you listen to his mushy talk.
KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED.I MEAN HOW HARD/DIFFICULT IS THAT? WHAT IS SO HARD IN THAT?YOU FELL FOR HIM AND LET HIM HAVE YOU AND THEN YOU SAID HE IS A DEVIL.I MEAN MUST IT HAPPEN TO YOU BEFORE YOU LEARN?CANT YOU LEARN FROM OTHERS?

dabriggs:

The guys will say its the lady and the ladies will naturally say it s the guy or both of them. But I'm a realist.
What does the guy stand to loose? Tell me? OK he may pick up an STD and have an unwanted child abi?Thats the max.
But the girl could get an STD, get pregnant, get dumped, carry the pregnancy for nine months, labour pains, shame and embarrassment for her and her family, narrow chance of getting married,single parenthood etc.

So what are we talking about here? The rule is simple,don't sleep with him.Your boyfriend,fiance,man friend,lover warreva.
Your destiny is in Gods hands and your hands too. I mean what did he say or do that made you open your legs? Must you listen to his mushy talk.
KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED.I MEAN HOW HARD/DIFFICULT IS THAT? WHAT IS SO HARD IN THAT?YOU FELL FOR HIM AND LET HIM HAVE YOU AND THEN YOU SAID HE IS A DEVIL.I MEAN MUST IT HAPPEN TO YOU BEFORE YOU LEARN?CANT YOU LEARN FROM OTHERS?

Are you married?
If you are, weren't you sexually active as a bachelor?
If you aren't, aren't you sexually active?
Did you get married as a virgin?
Are all the girls you had sex with previous to your marriage, or you are having sex with at the moment, stupid?

Men are simply heartless

@ Ruby
Any problem?

michelin89:

Are you married?
If you are, weren't you sexually active as a bachelor?
If you aren't, aren't you sexually active?
Did you get married as a virgin?
Are all the girls you had sex with previous to your marriage, or you are having sex with at the moment, stupid?

WELL DONT BLAME ANYONE THEN.AFTERALL YOU WERE NOT FORCED TO HAVE SEX. WHATS MY POINT?
MY POINT IS THAT I FEEL THE GIRLS/LADIES SHOULD BE CAREFULL COS THEYLL BEAR THE BRUNT AND THEY SHOULD BE SMARTER.
''A man that the gods have shown his enemy the enemy can no longer kill that man''. So our elders say.
And please im not stupid.

dabriggs:

WELL DONT BLAME ANYONE THEN.AFTERALL YOU WERE NOT FORCED TO HAVE SEX. WHATS MY POINT?
MY POINT IS THAT I FEEL THE GIRLS/LADIES SHOULD BE CAREFULL COS THEYLL BEAR THE BRUNT AND THEY SHOULD BE SMARTER.
''A man that the gods have shown his enemy the enemy can no longer kill that man''. So our elders say.
And please im not stupid.

Stop barking like a dog and answer my questions.

The woman is a slowpoke. Guys are dogs (no offense) so it's up to the woman to take care of herself and her body. If you are dumb enough to have unprotected sex with someone who is not commited to you then whatever happens thereafter is your problem. Women need to stop blaming men and take responsiblity for their actions. It's not like this is new in the world. Women should know the drill by now. Meet guy, throw caution to the wind, sleep with guy sans protection, get knocked up, have a pretty much messed up life. If you can't use your brain and use protection then[b] keep your legs closed[/b]. End of story.

michelin89:

@ Ruby
Any problem?

Yes, I'm in need of a new car, you willing to help?

michelin89:

Stop barking like a dog and answer my questions.

hehehehehe

syren:

@ topic

How can one be blamed more than the other? They both consented to it therefore they are both to blame.

Very well stated. How you doing?

Got a new contract for you now.

Pataki:

Very well stated. How you doing?

Got a new contract for you now.

HI Pataki

Contract eh? My lawyer has advised me against such but I can be swayed. So, whatchu got for me?

dabriggs:

WELL DONT BLAME ANYONE THEN.AFTERALL YOU WERE NOT FORCED TO HAVE SEX. WHATS MY POINT?
MY POINT IS THAT I FEEL THE GIRLS/LADIES SHOULD BE CAREFULL COS THEYLL BEAR THE BRUNT AND THEY SHOULD BE SMARTER.
''A man that the gods have shown his enemy the enemy can no longer kill that man''. So our elders say.
And please im not stupid.

just as you are barking like the Italian bitch that you are?

The african cow that strut into the ship heading for overseas and little did it know it would become corned beef.

syren:

HI Pataki  

Contract eh? My lawyer has advised me against such but I can be swayed. So, whatchu got for me?  

Your lawyer is wack. I ain't heartless, and I know you ain't stupid either. But my offer is grand.

So whatchu say dread?