I was just wondering what small girls of 11, 12, 13, 14 years are really looking for in guys at their early ages. Honestly, I really don't know.

Even the spontaneous rate of their maturity is alarming!!!

What are the causes of these occurences? Are these signs of the end time or what?

Comments please!!!!!!!!!!!

tenage life..life is changing

well my brother no small girl for nija now.

Frankly speaking, it's really alarming to see such things but some of the reasons include
-a change in body structure which gets into their heads as they believe they are becoming mature.
-Encouragement by the wider society thru adverts.
-Lack of adequate teenage education by parents and Guardians.

Well said DeKing.

To add to your points, methinks the guys nowadays are becoming more irresponsible (toasting small girls)
*runs for cover*

Thats funny layi,
The fact that these guys go after small girls does not mean they force them.

Why tempt d lil girl? They prey on them. Its almost like forcing jare (agbayas) .

It's parts of civilization

Funny hahahaha, no be only civilization na devlopment.

It's due to lack of proper training by their parents.

what has home training gotta do with their physique?... it seems our farmers use more fertilizers than they used to...

No. I think its the men that now inject their wives with spermitizer.

Small girlz hookin up with guys,Let us guys check our midsts cos that's one of our dubious works u know how decietful some bro's can be...So it's not about the girls.iT'S about the MEN

As a parent, if you are close to your little girl and you have always given her the chance to express her mind, by the time she's contemplating having a boyfriend or sex with an older man, she'll ask for your blessing one way or the other. But if you're a terror at home, a rigid and parocial parent hiding under the guise of being a "disciplinarian", then the only way you'll find out about what she's up to is when your little baby-girl becomes pregnant.

FOD:

what has home training gotta do with their physique?... it seems our farmers use more fertilizers than they used to...

Nice one there bro

hey y'all FOD is my elder brother so u all gotta treat him with some level of respect............understood?

_{Now back to the topic..........More comments pls! I'm really enjoying you guys' comments......ride on guys!}

googuy, it seems that you're here to talk about fertiliser and not the issue of small girls having boyfriends. I hereby declare my intention to retire this thread.

okie dokie.

Small gals having boyfriends,na today?
It didn't start now so y confussed about it.I think its influence,friends and peer groups,at the same time greed.
y wont u wait for your time  to come?what can the boys afford that your parents can't give u? what do u discuss with them that  u can't discuss with mum,i dont buy that idea from that it is civilistion.its far from that.little gals messing around with themselves in the name of life and civilisation is absolute rubbish.
as for boobs enlargement at that age,is just normal.they r turning into teens and the hormones are more active in that age of puberty.but after a while they get to the normal or final size which they stop growing.so don't be amazed at their boobs it has nothing to do with the guys they r with.

All i know is there is no small girl this days.

Civilization is blowing across the world.

Gp i repeat Civilisation should not be the the right word to use in this issue

ehen, ehen ride on


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Seun:

googuy, it seems that you're here to talk about fertiliser and not the issue of small girls having boyfriends. I hereby declare my intention to retire this thread.

Scroll up and read well. Was it me who mentioned fertilizer or FOD?

_{Guys ride on with ur comments}

first of all, when i saw this topic. I laughed a gallon of laughter. Wen i began to read replies, i started crying because of laughter. Okay oooo.. Una welldone.

To answer your question goodguy, Everyone has the right to date at whatever age he/she wants.. as long as you do it right. Don't do it because you see people do it.

And to those that say it's lack of home/parental training, ha.. i laugh at you ooo. What if your parents approve of it. When you train/teach your child in the right way, he/she will know what to do at the right time. having a bf/girlfriend doesn't neccassarily mean what most people think (SEX). When you parents know about the guy/girl, i see nuttin wrong with it.. Infact even if they don't know the guy, bt they know u have one.. It's alright. Lack of parental training is not the reason as to why "young girls" have boyfriend's. 

taaaa... who is opposing?

Hmmm...if a parent knows about his/her 11-year old child having a boyfriend and still approves of it...I reserve my comments for such a parent. By the way, well said Latoya.

@HA
What justifiable motive could an 11/12/13yr old have for keeping a Boyfriend (lover) ?

@layi............I wonder oooo my brother. As IAH said, any parent who approves of their 11, 12 or even 13 yr old girl having a boy friend; I reserve my comments for such also
And for your info. hot angel, I dont think there's any relationship that the three-letter word isnt involved. Even if the gurl doesnt want it, the guy sure will and vice versa.

goodguy:

@layi............I wonder oooo my brother. As IAH said, any parent who approves of their 11, 12 or even 13 yr old girl having a boy friend; I reserve my comments for such also
And for your info. hot angel, I don't think there's any relationship that the three-letter word isnt involved. Even if the girl doesnt want it, the guy sure will and vice versa.

Ohh c'mon you guys!!!!!!!! 11, 12, 13 year old is okay. Ohh puh-lease.

And uhmmm Mr goodguy, Not all relationship has the "three letter words in it". Don't go out with a guy that'll force sex on you. That's why you should be carefull earlier on. Besides why are we concentrating on girls here?

Why Not Ask Why are small guys of nowadays having girlfriends? *scoffs*.

And uhmmm Mr goodguy, Not all relationship has the "three letter words in it".

that's why i said "I dont think" I didnt say all have

Why Not Ask Why are small guys of nowadays having girlfriends? *scoffs*.

It's rare compared to the girls having bf's

HA I have never disagreed with you on any of your post before, but <snip>.

You know the truth girl.

Relationship with these guys and small gals isn't just being friends, but emotionally attached; feelings and all.  Sex isn't all about a relationship but you know there is more to it.  It affects their emotions, education, relationship with friends and family.  They become very secretive, don't want to tell mum anything.

No African mother will see or advice her daughter on having a relationship at the age of 11 or 12.  Haba, what is this world turning into?  Well all I am going to say is that it is very immoral for 11 to 12 years old gals having relationships.  You can be friends with boys of your age group at that age, [but] I do not buy that idea of relationship. 

What does she want? What type of attention is she after?  I don tire for una o.

Well said Latoya, well said.

Hmmmph.. Me sef i tire!! I ain't supporting "small girls" anymore. Everyone should do whatever they like, all i know is, BE careful!!