Here is a lady approached by a married man (without her prior knowledge of the marital status). He trips her, spends money on her, and promises her marriage to sleep with her. She caves in and becomes deeply emotionally involved. Then comes the bombshell, she finds out. She becomes distress and seems justified to curse and rain abuses on him but she remains emotionally messed up. She becomes skeptical about men that come her way and resolves in her heart not to allow such happen to her again. No matter the shade of men that comes her way, her perspective is never to go through the same emotional pain again, so she tries not to get involve emotionally until she is sure.

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i think this just depends on how sensitive a woman is and how badly affected she is.
But as the saying goes 'it's love not time that cures a wounded heart'. She should either gain a hobby or get to meeting people, she shouldn't let the dude get to her.

Guy, sorry, but can i ask a question?? When she was collecting all the gifts she no no say she must give back also.

This is a simpe logic, the man gave so it could be given unto him, full measure!!

So this one u just xplained now is a Fair play

hmmm.

edygirl:

Did you really speak from your head or your *****. You sounded like a *****.

was dat really necessary?

Boy meets Girl,
Boy to Girl ----------  I love you and would like to be your friend.
Girl to Boy ----------I would only be your friend if you promise to marry me.
Boy to Girl------------I'll marry you,Walahi talahi,True to God,if I lie make I naked baff.

Later,hold me tight,faster,faster,you are the best,am cumming,jesus is lord

Later later,
Girl to Boy ----------When are you going to see my popsie
Boy to Girl-----------Which kind popsie?I don marry jo!

My question is this,

How did they meet,that they had an affair that could possibly lead to marriage and she never suspected anything?She must have been to his place at least once,because as a sucessful man he must have a place of his own,they must have mutual friends that would have told her something about this man,how much time did they spend together?
Where did this man say he was when they weren't together?When they are together did he guard his phone?Questions Questions

I believe that this woman was in denial about the whole situation,she was just too happy to recieve his Greek Gifts

I actually agree with MrMayor, because women always blame men but fail to realise that it actually take two to tango. Dont be fooled by just talks and gifts, it actually should take more to get in a relationship, especially one that you intend to end up in marriage.

Men
i dont know what to say about them

Really? How bad den.

Very Very Bas

i mean BAD

iice:

Men are men, don't see how she could not have figured that something was fishy. She probably was in love with the idea of being love that she was blinded to certain things.

certain things like money

Come o which kind babe be ? she just dey colect, collect, collect, she no even think say one day na pay back time.Aniwayi wonder y d guy took too long to o the chopping.Whats was so special in her aniway

srry for her anyway.but she cause everytin,,she go luv cos of money.well once beating twice shine.so make she shine her eye weller b4 jumping into any guy

yeah true, then again that doesnt stop me, as a SAGG, we dont like commitment anyways, so soon as i found out the guy is a DOG which always happens, i jus move on, to the next DOG, its not like i dont get mine anyway!~~!

Women attract who they are not what they pray for or wish for; this goes for men too,

All guys are bad. All girls are pathetic.
What beautiful generalizations.

Yes all men are bad when woman had foolishly gave away her "treasure" for irrational promises only to be disappointed by a cunning guy.

All men are bad when a woman stupidly fall in love for a married man, only for the madam to truncate her joy by showimg up when the fun had just started;

All men are bad when a lady, dump a visionary poor man for a man of questionable wealth and dented character who nevertheless possess infectous charming personality only for  the chap to turn out a player;

so, to ladies with defective reasoning, all men are bad when one man commits an atrocity against a lady, rightly or wrongly. It is a free world.

@DAMMYGLOW, just sey thank god 4 man

Its a dual situation

Men r bad
Women r bad

but make it, some men r bad & some women r bad

one funny thing is that, posts like this is usually an avenue for the unmarried guys to vent their anger towards the married. Today they will be the ones to speak against extra-maritals but when they are finally married, they indulge in the same act they earlier kicked against. What a jealous world!

jkpretty:

Its a dual situation

Men r bad
Women r bad

but make it, some men r bad & some women r bad

As rare as they are, people like you help shape the world with truth. You are damned right, baby.

I think the real problem has to do with people who had been hurt in the past, rightly or wrongly, and had consequently decided to generalise. One rough encounter with a bad boy, they starts singing "all men are bad" anthem.

olanajim:

I think the real problem has to do with people who had been hurt in the past, rightly or wrongly, and had consequently decided to generalise. One rough encounter with a bad boy, they starts singing "all men are bad" anthem.

My brother, I agreed with you totally.

some women make very bad choices with men and then they run around trying to spread their paranoia. I'd suggest, she learns not to get attracted to the wrong guys or for the wrong reasons and save our ears the trouble.

@ DAMMYGLOW,

what about the female folk?you guys are the baddest^{if that english dey exist sef}

when the guy dey spend,she no complain,when she find out say she be away match,she begin halla,

what kain setup be dat?

as men,we are one of the best things God made oooooooooo

^{i speak for all guys mostly for myself}

i don't believe all men are bad, give the good ones a chance at least! we can't do without them!

I will have to come back to this later , because i think i know , what it takes.

Hilariously, girls love bad boys.

@Phoomie, well spoken!!!!

We need each other