somebody please tell that am crazy before i do something wrong again. The story started some few years ago when fell in love wit a colleague of mine, who happens to be like 4 years older than myself, yet that did not stop me loving (quite sincerely), she never really accepted our relationship other than we were friends, but at a point i mounted serious pressure on her, she had to consider long and hard. But after so many years of trying i had to give her up. I felt empty, terrible and bitter. Sometime later she told me God has directed to a very old friend of hers, that the guy was the one God has always been leading her to. Again i felt so bitter and i decided enough was enough, if it was going to kill me i had to let her go, this i did for some mths. But this days i hv started having the same affections that i used to hv for her back. Though i dont know the position wit her Lords sayeth, , Forum can i ever get over this lady. Pls help me before i make a fool of myself again

Stop pressuring her. If someone has said no, leave them. Move on with your life. It's not by force. If it's tough to see her with someone else, withdraw from her a bit. Your relationship will never be the same again anyway.

Stop focusing on someone who isn't interested in you. You can't force her. Respect yourself and start looking elsewhere for someone who will return your feelings.

@ poster , just move on and let her go or you'll have a hard time loving someone else

get ova it. i dont like pity parties

My guy, find love in another woman, there are plenty out there unloved looking for peeps like you.

God has given the human mind the ability to get over anything. So get over it and move on with your life.

You have to look for a way to get over her. It'll be difficult but you've got no choice because she doesn't think you're the right man for her. I suggest you find love in another woman, their are many out there. If you're not ready for a relationship, look for other ways to keep yourself busy, like developing a hobby, etc.

i refuse be d one to tell sumbodi dat he's 'crazy, stupid, silly, mad etal' b4 he realises wat is good/not good for him.

You simply have to let go. She's not meant for you. Dnt let that cause you heartache cos if you keep troubling yourself over her I'm sorry you cud do something really silly all in the name of love. So simply get hr off ur mind and move on with ur life. I knw its nt as easy as said bt u can't just tie ur life around someone dat doesnt give a damn abt you. Also remember that there many golden fishes in the river . So move on.

Thx 4 all ya concern, i think am coming back to reality, its was really worth while sharing this experience with u guyz. I know i did it before (getting over her) at least for some few mths, i know i will do it again. Thx y'all

Thx, wish it was easy as u said. but am a forward looking person, and i know i cannot spend the rest of life in self pity over a babe who does not love me, am too wise to marry a babe who only thinks she doing me a favour by getting hitched to me, am wiser than that. But anyways time will tell.

Dude, is t by FORCE ? ? ?she don't what you . . .she's with someone else. . .simple . . .GET OVER IT . . .haba

Dude, is t by FORCE ? ? ?she don't what you . . .she's with someone elsesimple . . .GET OVER IT . . .haba


when i seeked opinion from forum, i actually was seeking from matured people, pls if u dont hv anything to contribute to this, just keep ur silence or shut the f, d up.

Is very easy to say, not easy to get over  unless there was no love. Bros just mixup with friends and get ur self busy,  The Lord is your strength

Poster, You Are Crazy.

@poster,
You are crazy.

Pally, look beyond her and get yourself a nice and pretty chic.

You are Crazy!!!!

You are crazy

the poster is crazy (Re: Somebody Please Tell That Am Crazy )

@ poster
u want me to tell u that u are crazy , no be me go tell nairalanders say u dey craze, na them go see am with dia korokoro eye.

you are crazy

get over her!!!

did u not know that u are crazy b/4?

U r bloody Crazy (Im sorry)

this guy is not crazy now, Men but he is a first class munmun

First and Foremost you are crazy

Dry your eyes mate i know you want to make her see how much this thing hurt but there is plenty more fish in the sea.Get a grip nigga

yes you are crazy, i did not even read your post, can't bother with name of niggaman, what is that

ur damn crazy

Which part of no do you not understand?

Raina80:
Which part of no do you not understand?

you you went back 8years ago to bring back this thread

slimthugchimee:


you you went back 8years ago to bring back this thread

Yes and so?