I've been dating dis girl more than a year ago and she has all i desire in a woman except her religious view. She happens to be a jehovah witness while i belong to a pentecostal church.Ever since we met,she told me d conditn to hav her in marriage which basically lies on her dad willingness to approve our union which i vowed to do but wit an assurance of joining me in my church after marriage. Of recent,I deduced her father is nt d main obstacle but it seems she doesnt lik my religion as she usually jokes wit me. The prob now is dt eventhough i acknowledge she loves as i do mayb due to d fact dt i disflowered her some mths ago, she doesnt accept my religion and i cant allow my wife to do smth else in my home. I am now confused to know if dt is how jehovah witness are stubborn and what else can i do to keep this girl eventhough av shown her dt i dont care if she goes away yet i care to retain her?

The fact that she alowed you to date her in the first place is a miracle. JW will never date let alone marry anyone apart frm another JW. What if she agrees to marry you and be a pentecostal but later change and become adamant?
I will suggest you two really talk things out. And if its not gonna work out,you better split.
A failed 'dating' or relationship is far better than a failed marriage.
Btw, i hope you know that she maybe disfellowshiped if she do not marry a JW!?

Mintayo: The fact that she alowed you to date her in the first place is a miracle. JW will never date let alone marry anyone apart frm another JW. What if she agrees to marry you and be a pentecostal but later change and become adamant?
I will suggest you two really talk things out. And if its not gonna work out,you better split.
A failed 'dating' or relationship is far better than a failed marriage.
Btw, i hope you know that she maybe disfellowshiped if she do not marry a JW!?

thanks for ur advice. She aliso confirmed when we started dt am d 1st non-jw person to date in her life at d expense of many 'knocking' jw brothers. Mayb av been deceived by her commitment for sometimes in d past but i neva knew dey are lik dis stubborn.

realbomax:
thanks for ur advice. She aliso confirmed when we started dt am d 1st non-jw person to date in her life at d expense of many 'knocking' jw brothers. Mayb av been deceived by her commitment for sometimes in d past but i neva knew dey are lik dis stubborn.

the decision is yours. Mayb she just want to have 'fun' with you,nothing serious. But i doubt if her parents will allow it.

Mintayo: The fact that she alowed you to date her in the first place is a miracle. JW will never date let alone marry anyone apart frm another JW. What if she agrees to marry you and be a pentecostal but later change and become adamant?
I will suggest you two really talk things out. And if its not gonna work out,you better split.
A failed 'dating' or relationship is far better than a failed marriage.
Btw, i hope you know that she maybe disfellowshiped if she do not marry a JW!?

Story. Leave that thing. I have mingled with them. Aren't they humans ?

I know it wouldnt have worked for me maybe I didnt love her as much as she loved me.

Some JW girls nah experienced players way jam love outside JW.

I wonder why humans love creating differences for themselves..

You don bang her?

okpara ugo:

Story. Leave that thing. I have mingled with them. Aren't they humans ?

I know it wouldnt have worked for me maybe I didnt love her as much as she loved me.

Some JW girls nah experienced players way jam love outside JW.

I wonder why humans love creating differences for themselves..

Experience players? Yes, agree. But when it comes to marriage,its a no no. Except the stubborn ones or those who are nt really JW.
But if her parents or maybe her father is a Leader,forget it.

hmmm...u deflowered her? and she's a jw lady...if she ain't feeling you, I would advise u ball out, religion shouldn't be an issue to be given a serious concern before marriage

You both should talk things over.

If the both of you can come to a compromise, fine. If not, you better part ways!

i wont advice you on how to handle her. but here is my advice to you as a person: the worst thing to happen to a man is build his home/family on a religiously divided background. you will leave to suffer the aftermath.

thanks y'all for ur contribution esp now i understand more d behaviour of jw. Although the love is there as she has always been showing that but Her dad is an elder there and eventhough she had once hinted me on how to outsmart her dad b4 now but in an event that she is reluctant to part with that congregation then i may need to reconsider my game plan now.

@op. You just said u disfowered her right? Am just laughing! Both of you are not even faithful to ur respective religion at first.... If her religion is agains getting married outside jw, and she respects it. Is urs or her religion not against furnication? Why didn't she respect it. People 'll be deceiving theirselves. Pls both of u shud repent! Thank you.