coogar: it's one of the biggest frauds perpetrated by feminism in the 21st century. women don't demand child support when they go to spërm banks, why should men who have clearly stated they don't want a child be forced to pay child support for 18 years?

fresh_dude: No, they shouldn't. Whoever chose to have the baby should be responsible for its upkeep. Why even wait for an abortion, there are all sorts of birth control techniques available to man. As early as day1, the need for an abortion should be ruled out.

Ezeed: Understand that he's asked to provide upkeep/support for the child, not as a gratutious favour to the woman, but simply cos the innocent party-- the child-- should not be made to pay for their indiscretion.

Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.

pickabeau1:
While you have some merits... men too should ensure the have iron clad protection
Too many kids born out of wedlock
Abortion is not childs play
Birth control has hormonal impacts on women

Ezeed: Understand that he's asked to provide upkeep/support for the child, not as a gratutious favour to the woman, but simply cos the innocent party-- the child-- should not be made to pay for their indiscretion.

Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.

Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.

pickabeau1:




While you have some merits... men too should ensure the have iron clad protection

Too many kids born out of wedlock

Abortion is not childs play

Birth control has hormonal impacts on women

coogar:

what iron clad protection?
do condoms not leak? what other choice does a man have if his condom leaks? feminism have long held that women should not be punished for being sëxually active by taking away their options when an accidental pregnancy occurs. why then do our policies now aim to punish and shame men for their sexuäl promïscuity?

fresh_dude: That's besides the point hombre. Should I be forced to cater for a child I don't/didn't want, especially if I expressly made my desires known?

Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.

fresh_dude: That's besides the point hombre. Should I be forced to cater for a child I don't/didn't want, especially if I expressly made my desires known?

njokusboy: It doesn't have to get to abortion, if a man doesn't want a child, he should use protection or do coitus interruptus.. If as e be, something come lead to something, him come do without protection, there are several birth control pills availaible, the woman should use them... If she talk say she no dey use birth control pill and pikin com come nd she insists on carrying the baby... She should take care of it herself by herself for herself... Note: the woman also owe it as a duty to herself not to allow the man sleep with her without a condom, she can also use female condoms too, I have heard of those... Have you ever seen real prostitutes get pregnant?

alutacontinua:

here!
I mean, it's simple logic.
you cannot make me do abortion if I don't want to, that is a decision I have to make on my own. The decision we both made, which is have consensual sex is what we should both deal with.

Sophyrocks:

The only sensible comment in this thread. For every action there is a result. Be prepared for the result. If you are wise, stay away from the action. You know fully well you aint ready for responsibilities, why put yourself into it?

njokusboy: It doesn't have to get to abortion, if a man doesn't want a child, he should use protection or do coitus interruptus.. If as e be, something come lead to something, him come do without protection, there are several birth control pills availaible, the woman should use them... If she talk say she no dey use birth control pill and pikin com come nd she insists on carrying the baby... She should take care of it herself by herself for herself... Note: the woman also owe it as a duty to herself not to allow the man sleep with her without a condom, she can also use female condoms too, I have heard of those... Have you ever seen real prostitutes get pregnant?

alutacontinua:


was this made known before the sex? If yes, you should have done everything on your own end to prevent it from happening. Unfortunately, that is not 100% possible, which means it's not even as simple as expressly making your desires known.

fresh_dude: That's besides the point hombre. Should I be forced to cater for a child I don't/didn't want, especially if I expressly made my desires known?

njokusboy: . Isn't this akin to saying we should expect to get drowned anytime we go fishing even if we take all precautions.... I see how sensible ur opinion is?

fresh_dude: you need to read the OP 17 more times before your next comment.

njokusboy: . Isn't this akin to saying we should expect to get drowned anytime we go fishing even if we take all precautions.... I see how sensible ur opinion is?

fresh_dude: Which is why there are pills to take when accidents like condom breaks occur. Or a diaphragm or the million other ways with which a conception/pregnancy can be prevented.
Again, OP is actually about a woman who has "chosen" to go ahead and have a baby despite protests from her lover. It would be very unfair to mandate such a man to be responsible for the child's upkeep.

How are you btw.