Law prince:

Don't derail. The thread here is more about the morality of the act, and stop quoting some feminist theories.
From my moral perspective, Only a moral bankrupt person hugs an opposite sex who isn't a relation, Coz hugging is a form of intimacy. What happens to a respectful handshake? The world has really gone skoin skoin... Abnormalities now norms.

Law prince:

Don't derail. The thread here is more about the morality of the act, and stop quoting some feminist theories.
From my moral perspective, Only a moral bankrupt person hugs an opposite sex who isn't a relation, Coz hugging is a form of intimacy. What happens to a respectful handshake? The world has really gone skoin skoin... Abnormalities now norms.

greatgod2012:


talk about your own!

As for him, he is matured and secured!

claremont:
Really?! You really need to travel the world.

greatgod2012: An insecured man is is an insecured man, they find questions for every of your action, e.g ....why did you greet him too much?.....how did you know his house?....what were you two discussing?........how did he know your name and did you know his?.......why did the greeting get long like that?...........i saw your looks when you were exchanging greeting, why was he looking at you like that and why did you smile when he was looking at you........why did you hug him?.......why did you give him our address?.........who was there when you two were discussing?...........how did you meet him?....... and all other naughty and brainless questions.
They are very dangerous to get along with.....so because i'm married now, i can't hug my male friends, who automatically becomes my hubby's friends once we are pronounced husband and wife, i can't hug my brothers, my colleagues, na wa, thank you Lord for the type of my hubby.
Some women are in prison thinking they are in marriage......ish....each to his own o.......if your man says you should not hug even your mum, please, do not o.
Abegi!

greatgod2012:


talk about your own!

As for him, he is matured and secured!

haulagehandlers:
Thank the gods for your marriage,but i beg to differ on that your line of reasoning.
I would rather state cultural difference as the issue with some as insecurity,I have been married for 16 years and my wife has not hugged a man in my present not that i asked her not to but she has been brought up in a home where such are frowned at,so its not in our ways to do such. Insecurity ko immaturity ni.

greatgod2012:



which truth, if i may ask?
Is it the truth you don't know anything about that you're saying?
unfortunately, you don't know me too well, i know what you're up to, a hot argument with you No way! I'm above that, i don't get involved in online and even offline arguement or face-off, if that is how you think or believe it is.......goodluck with your opinion.
Thank you.

cbrass: Why hug in the first place Isn't greetings enough? Make my wife no try that one with me o...else na Cossy I go go hug sharp sharp

sanandreas: It is not wrong. Its just that our minds are filthy.

abdulkeks: Islamically, u can't touch a woman that s not ur wife or relation not to talk of a married woman hugging a guy, haram

flyca:

Madam, easy o. No dey too brag. Every marriage is different. Because he hasn't told you yet, doesn't mean he is OK with it.

captcochrane:

i like u jare {no homo}

no mind those women, na their husband give them too much space; why'll in this whole wide world my gf {not to talk of my wife} just hug a guy, in my presence, because they're friends, mi ni take e lightly

i'm sure those guys'll be comparing and imagining how soft and succulent each of them will be, awon omo oro

biafran soul: Hug another man's wife? Oh Lord, lead us not into temptation. Thank God, I have my wife and kids to hug anytime

greatgod2012:


unfortunately, many of you don't really know how an insecured people behaves, even an handshake is a threat to an insecured man/woman.

sanandreas: It is not wrong. Its just that our minds are filthy.

freecocoa: Na wa o, hug sef don turn immoral.

Thank you NL for all these eye openers.

cbrass: Why hug in the first place Isn't greetings enough? Make my wife no try that one with me o...else na Cossy I go go hug sharp sharp

Giftedgreen: this is fine

vicchi12:
Seriously! These people have been in their comfort zone. Don't think they been outside their father's balcony. Very sad. It's really important to be well-travelled. Jeez! The ignorance and self righteousness just makes me sick to my stomach. Like I can't believe these are my people .... Just can't