i am really opened minded to allowing my husband to have a second wife

don't get me wrong i love him with everything from head to toe but to be honest i always discuss this same issue!!

in my Deen is very a beautiful thing!

i accept the jealousy, but my heat fears one thing only would the other woman change towards me in future will she do something bad to me to destroy my relationship that i already share with my husband.

( this is really something i think about for the future) if my husband was to think about having a second wife! to be honest for as long as the woman is a good person i would think about it!!

no problem

Nothing wrong with your accepting another wife for your hubby.
But come to think of it, don't you think another husband might just be ideal for you?

Lovetinz: Nothing wrong with your accepting another wife for your hubby.
But come to think of it, don't you think another husband might just be ideal for you?

i not sure about that part

Wish I undastood dis! Why would you be thinking about a second wife? Marriage issues, Childlessness, Polygamous family background? Explain abeg!

Tell me sometin....
Am sure ur husby has being nursing that for along time.....
U just coming with terms with his demand

Oooshey threesomee thingzz

no issue at all

my hubby said over his dead body no way will he ever take two wife

he ain't got time for non of that wahala in future

it's me who actually don't have a problem with me

it has nothing to do with me not been able to be a mother of any other issues( wallahi)

i just think its a good thing that's y ia m saying ima crazy or maybe just dreaming!! i actually find it cool

HotieTima: no issue at all

my hubby said over his dead body no way will he ever take two wife

he ain't got time for non of that wahala in future

it's me who actually don't have a problem with me

it has nothing to do with me not been able to be a mother of any other issues( wallahi)

i just think its a good thing that's y ia m saying ima crazy or maybe just dreaming!! i actually find it cool

With all that beauty
U look like my twin sister

*reads thread and starts to sing Sound Sultan's na craze world we dey"*

Op you are doing the best for yourself. You are a muslim so you need to program yourself for polygamy cos it can happen anytime. I see you are arranging some shock absorbers for yourself. Good luck.

LaurelP:

With all that beauty
U look like my twin sister

who knows!!

laplace12: Op you are doing the best for yourself. You are a muslim so you need to program yourself for polygamy cos it can happen anytime. I see you are arranging some shock absorbers for yourself. Good luck.

no stress i have try for a very long time my hubby said no his not marrying another wife

HotieTima:


who knows!!

Where u @? Make I check whether na she

I wish women are Mass produced from same company that manufactured the @Op.

I think other women should learn from the @Op.


Wonders is just Beginning!

Attention seeker

laplace12: Op you are doing the best for yourself. You are a muslim so you need to program yourself for polygamy cos it can happen anytime. I see you are arranging some shock absorbers for yourself. Good luck.

HotieTima: i am really opened minded to allowing my husband to have a second wife

don't get me wrong i love him with everything from head to toe but to be honest i always discuss this same issue!!

in my Deen is very a beautiful thing!

i accept the jealousy, but my heat fears one thing only would the other woman change towards me in future will she do something bad to me to destroy my relationship that i already share with my husband.

( this is really something i think about for the future) if my husband was to think about having a second wife! to be honest for as long as the woman is a good person i would think about it!!

yeah its indeed a beautiful thing if your husband is able to handle it. And wait oo! How else do u want him to explain to you that he's not physical fit in handling GIDIGBO..plss stop pushing the gentleman to the wall..RAMADAN KAREEM!

ERTHAENIGMA: Attention seeker

i wish i had your time

it's obvious whose the attention seeker here

hadizadeezy: yeah its indeed a beautiful thing if your husband is able to handle it. And wait oo! How else do u want him to explain to you that he's not physical fit in handling GIDIGBO..plss stop pushing the gentleman to the wall..RAMADAN KAREEM!

u too


but Alhumdulilah my hubby said over his dead body anyways

that he ain't got the heart to do soo. ( but if he did it wouldn't hurt me)

190theclown: tima u nor dey tire

why now!!

my middle name is trouble maker and ur the BOSS!!

abeg. i wont be taken a second wife wen i marry. my wife beta not suggest it either. i dey craze?

HotieTima:


i wish i had your time

it's obvious whose the attention seeker here

lionelrobben: abeg. i wont be taken a second wife wen i marry. my wife beta not suggest it either. i dey craze?

trust me when i was growing up i hated every men that had two to three wives

but growing up has change my view to life and since i put in soo much effort to study my Deen

i don't mind , i discuss it with my partner but his a really good guy to be honest his against it completely

some people think i am crazy when i am talking about it!! but oo well it's Allah swt that has to final to say to ones life.

Trust me gurl friend this is just a phase your going thru now,i mean ur emotion right nw,but when this emotion/phase wipes...this same you will never pray for ur hubby to marry another wife...you don't always feel that hot passion every day in marriage u knw..

U not crazy
As a matter of fact, I don't care
So long I will be safe

With religion aside, it's not sensible. As a guy, I won't dare it. It's total nonesense! I'm not married yet but I know the family oneness would just vanish. You shouldn't bother your man again o, he knows why he's insisting.

Why? Why? Why?

HotieTima: no issue at all

my hubby said over his dead body no way will he ever take two wife

he ain't got time for non of that wahala in future

it's me who actually don't have a problem with me

it has nothing to do with me not been able to be a mother of any other issues( wallahi)

i just think its a good thing that's y ia m saying ima crazy or maybe just dreaming!! i actually find it cool

maybe u're actually dreamimg babe,but sleep well to have a better sleep,one love!

HotieTima:


no stress i have try for a very long time my hubby said no his not marrying another wife

oh she's a muslim,no wonder. My dear u're not dreaming neither u're crazy its rather a normal thing from ur upbringing and belief so oga ahead with ur life plans.