i was in the gym ,and couldnt help listening to what the mothers around me were saying
about what thier domestics had been doing to thier children ,and i mean really horrible stuffs

and i thought God help the creature that does this to my own child/children.

so everyone take note .have a relative/cousin around your kids your can trust.
otherwise this is what the househelp will do to them,


1. they will drop you baby to the floor and seal thier lips with thier palm so you dont hear the baby cry.hence causing choking

2. they will use unhygienic kitchen utensils for your kids/baby,

3. they will never treat your kids like theirs,rather they will take out the anger they have for you on your kids
especially when you're not there.

4. they will starve your kids/baby/toddler.and feed themselves more.

5. dont ever send your driver to pick up a toddler/baby from school or wherever without a second party
(he or she may be a pervert and could do really disgusting things to your daughter/son in the car)

6. finally,dont let your kids out of your site for toolong ,teach them to free with you and tell you things ,especially things that happen around them when
you weren't there.remember kids like to talk alot.

Yeah, i do the last one most of the times. Though my kid is jst 2yrs but she talks to me a whole lot and i don't allow her go out of my sight at all !

@bigfather

thats good ,once you engage them they never stop talking.

@Poster,

U r very right.

I don't trust ANYONE around my kids.

Even with helps, I pick my kids from school myself. I ask them questions about the aupairs or househelp. Did she slap, shout or do anything to them? What happened d day b/4? Do dy like her? If no, d househelp is out of my house.

I taught them about what they should do if anyone tries to touch them sexually. Including Uncles. Most sexual abuse on children was committed by people we know & trust.

I cannot leave my baby with an househelp.

A baby that cannot tell me what has happened.

If I go out, my baby comes with me with d househelp.

I agree with not letting just anyone around your children. I have already discussed it with my husband. Not even uncles are allowed in my childrens bedrooms. They have no business there.