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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Prymestrr(m): 7:40pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: so u did nt see my reason above too. Why do people like u always think negative? Who is seeking ur glorification? At least i want u to know that everybody are nt the same. There are people still holding on.
Whatever ur reason 4 holding on 2 ur virginity @29 may be, it's squarely ur biz n not dt of the general public. I can't even imagine myself being a virgin @ ur age but as u very well stated, WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. If u think ur reason is cogent enough 2 justify ur stand then by all means stick 2 it. However, never make d unforgivable mistake of using Urself as a yardstick 2 judge us unrepentant non-virgins.

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 7:47pm On Jul 10, 2014
"Unrepentant non-Virgins" hahaha

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by hueyReckless: 9:30pm On Jul 10, 2014
missdebs: but d koko is u've finally had it, so whats d difference btw u n non-virgins
Pardon me, your very preety ma'am.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by xtervaganza(m): 10:21pm On Jul 10, 2014
jayyungg: lol still waiting 4 dat day
shey agro no go winsh u like this? grin grin
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 11:53pm On Jul 10, 2014
kestolove95: The guy is just consolln himself...u luck so ugly and dirty,no gurl will open her legs for u..dats y u'v not had sex.
u want to tempt me to upload my pix but i wont. Anyway, post ur pix and let me see hw handsome u are. If i want any girl right now, i would get it. But i wont do that. U cant lure me into such things.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 12:07am On Jul 11, 2014
Spotless180: u want to tempt me to upload my pix but i wont. Anyway, post ur pix and let me see hw handsome u are. If i want any girl right now, i would get it. But i wont do that. U cant lure me into such things.

Then why did you put up this post? To mock we non-virgins? well, I think you got mocked
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by DocAdray(f): 1:13am On Jul 11, 2014
Why una just dey beef dis OP nah?


OP, kudos to you jare!...
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jayyungg(m): 12:54pm On Jul 11, 2014
xtervaganza: shey agro no go winsh u like this? grin grin
dnt get it...
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Frenchkiss564: 6:08pm On Jul 11, 2014
Whats the aim of this right up, you are a virgin and so what You are just seeking self glorification and maybe some likes, this is the 21st century bro and not the medieval age no one gives a Bleep about male virgins
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by bioduneberry(m): 8:38pm On Jul 11, 2014
StPete: Forget all this preaching OP. Just because u don't have a high sex drive doesn't mean everyone should be like or act like u.

Some people eat heavy bowls of eba and would still crave for more while some others would take tea and be satisfied. That's the way life is fashioned.

succinct!!!

GOD BLESS YOU.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by bioduneberry(m): 8:46pm On Jul 11, 2014
Spotless180: then continue. It is a free world. But it is nt good considering the risk involved.

Story for the Gods undecided
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by lifehacker: 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2014
tpia5: its silly to catch feelings over something as trivial as sex or non-sex.

if he logs on tomorrow and types the opposite of what he wrote here, should another group start castigating him?

abeg.

so wise,
I don't think your Topic is "Topic worthy", op- sex or non-sex at your age is very trivial ([29] wtf?) like so many trivial, inconsequential, topics on nairaland- you are to see comments as insignificant, not valuable; diminutive, not worthwhile; evanescent, not binding.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by chuckvinz(m): 10:17pm On Jul 11, 2014
tpia5: its silly to catch feelings over something as trivial as sex or non-sex.

if he logs on tomorrow and types the opposite of what he wrote here, should another group start castigating him?

abeg.

the devil himself is talking.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by chuckvinz(m): 10:18pm On Jul 11, 2014
holusormi:

Bla,bla,bla.... yada. yada,yada.... yacka,yacka,yacka
You are a wussy!!!!,,nigger probably can't even talk to a girl n he here claiming goodman for us

'opportunity makes the thief, a thief that has not had an opportunity to steal considers himself an honest man'

The quote above aptly describes you

Go to ashewo house and 'dekonjify' yousrelf, it's just 500 naira....... #Bitchasnigger
. devil himself is talking.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by chuckvinz(m): 10:19pm On Jul 11, 2014
chuckvinz: the devil himself is talking.
mistake
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 10:33pm On Jul 11, 2014
DocAdray: Why una just dey beef dis OP nah?


OP, kudos to you jare!...
thank u. I know it will be hard 4 some people 2 believe.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 10:36pm On Jul 11, 2014
bioduneberry:

Story for the Gods undecided
story until u are caught in the web.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by PrincessB1(f): 10:37pm On Jul 11, 2014
[quote
author=Spotless180]I am running 29 now and i have not had sex with any
lady till now.
I have kissed a girl before but it did not result to sex eventually.

My reason is that:
1. I don't see sex as the most important thing in life than pursuing ur
goals in life.

2. People behave as if sex is food that you cannot live without. And it
pisses me off. Sex is not everything.

3. Am so so scared of the dreaded hiv/AIDS and other sexually
transmitted diseases. I dont want to be a victim.

4. I dont believe in the use of condom. As there are people saying is
not hundred percent safe for use. And i cant spend my money on that.

5. They also preach it in church that pre-marital sex is a sin.

6. I don't want to father any child now as i am not ready for it now. So
i had to stay away from sex.
If u are not ready to be a father, why impregnate a girl and later ask
her to commit abortion.

These are some reason i have not engaged in sexual activities for now.

Do you think it will affect my married life later?[/quote] Capital NO.......God bless you
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 10:39pm On Jul 11, 2014
Frenchkiss564: Whats the aim of this right up, you are a virgin and so what You are just seeking self glorification and maybe some likes, this is the 21st century bro and not the medieval age no one gives a Bleep about male virgins
what is good is good and what is bad is bad whether in d past or present.

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 10:40pm On Jul 11, 2014
Frenchkiss564: Whats the aim of this right up, you are a virgin and so what You are just seeking self glorification and maybe some likes, this is the 21st century bro and not the medieval age no one gives a Bleep about male virgins
you don't give a Bleep about male virgins but, God does.

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 10:41pm On Jul 11, 2014
Frenchkiss564: Whats the aim of this right up, you are a virgin and so what You are just seeking self glorification and maybe some likes, this is the 21st century bro and not the medieval age no one gives a Bleep about male virgins
what is good is good and what is bad is bad whether in d past or present. I am nt seeking vain glory at all but just try and emulate what is good 4 once.

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 10:50pm On Jul 11, 2014
Churchill96:

Then why did you put up this post? To mock we non-virgins? well, I think you got mocked
so that people can read it and also make that resolution to keep themselves from sex till marriage no matter hw far they have gone into it. They can stop such act and keep themselves until marriage. It is very possible or is it not?

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 11:06pm On Jul 11, 2014
Sometimes, I do think that they are no longer male virgins.
Other times, I think that they are no longer true children of God on this earth. But, @OP, You proved me wrong.
Most times, I weep for the people of this world because the reasons why many souls perish in hell is because of the sins of the flesh.
@OP, I want you to remember this; never you be discouraged. Not with what the people here or anywhere may say.
Rather than backsliding, keep on perfecting your ways so that you may be upright before God!
The devil as the bible told us, came to steal, kill and devour. He has come to tempt us and to lure us into evil.
He also can work through anybody. Through the people here and those you may meet on your way.
You should know that everyone is doing this doesn't make it right.
Christ said in the book of corinthians: Happy are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake. Happy are you when people persecute you and speak all manners of evil against you, rejoice for your reward is great in heaven. For even the prophets that came before you, passed through the same in their hands.
So my dear, rather than being discouraged, be more encouraged. For it is a great priviledge for christ to find you worthy to pass through the same persecution he passed through in the hands of the people of this world.
One more thing bro, pls never you be discouraged, rather, perfect your ways the more. Because it will be a great shame for us if after we have professed our faith as lovers of christ, end up same place that the non-believers will end up (hell). It will be a very big shame!!!
That's why you don't have to relent now, rather, accelerate more.
It's never over till it's over.
I pray that the crown be our reward!
I pray that the world seek God's greater glory in all things.
I pray that your faith never go down!
#REMAIN BLESSED DEAR#

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by BaaleofMontreal: 12:03am On Jul 12, 2014
Ngseralph:
you don't give a Bleep about male virgins but, God does.


1000 likes

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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Frenchkiss564: 1:50am On Jul 12, 2014
Ngseralph:
you don't give a Bleep about male virgins but, God does.
its not by coming to a public forum and bragging about it. God doesnt like arrogant people too
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Frenchkiss564: 1:52am On Jul 12, 2014
Spotless180: what is good is good and what is bad is bad whether in d past or present. I am nt seeking vain glory at all but just try and emulate what is good 4 once.
but comming to a public forum to brag about it is bad, you could have put it up succintly in form of advice thats understandable
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jayyungg(m): 8:52am On Jul 12, 2014
Ngseralph: Sometimes, I do think that they are no longer male virgins.
Other times, I think that they are no longer true children of God on this earth. But, @OP, You proved me wrong.
Most times, I weep for the people of this world because the reasons why many souls perish in hell is because of the sins of the flesh.
@OP, I want you to remember this; never you be discouraged. Not with what the people here or anywhere may say.
Rather than backsliding, keep on perfecting your ways so that you may be upright before God!
The devil as the bible told us, came to steal, kill and devour. He has come to tempt us and to lure us into evil.
He also can work through anybody. Through the people here and those you may meet on your way.
You should know that everyone is doing this doesn't make it right.
Christ said in the book of corinthians: Happy are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake. Happy are you when people persecute you and speak all manners of evil against you, rejoice for your reward is great in heaven. For even the prophets that came before you, passed through the same in their hands.
So my dear, rather than being discouraged, be more encouraged. For it is a great priviledge for christ to find you worthy to pass through the same persecution he passed through in the hands of the people of this world.
One more thing bro, pls never you be discouraged, rather, perfect your ways the more. Because it will be a great shame for us if after we have professed our faith as lovers of christ, end up same place that the non-believers will end up (hell). It will be a very big shame!!!
That's why you don't have to relent now, rather, accelerate more.
It's never over till it's over.
I pray that the crown be our reward!
I pray that the world seek God's greater glory in all things.
I pray that your faith never go down!
#REMAIN BLESSED DEAR#
Remember, not only being a male virgin is what it takes to get to Heaven. But being a genuine christian.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jayyungg(m): 8:55am On Jul 12, 2014
Frenchkiss564: but comming to a public forum to brag about it is bad, you could have put it up succintly in form of advice thats understandable
Well said Bro!!
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 11:22am On Jul 12, 2014
jayyungg: Remember, not only being a male virgin is what it takes to get to Heaven. But being a genuine christian.
I clearly stated that in my post dear.
The moment one has made a resolution to follow christ, he/she should do away with any kind of sinful activities.
Not all virgins will inherit God's kingdom and not all non-virgins will go to hell.
The best thing one can do to oneself is to please God and do his will always.
Be you a virgin or a non-virgin. The moment you realise the truth, make a resolution never to go back to your old ways.
JESUS IS COMING SOON AND TIME WAITS FOR NO ONE.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 11:47am On Jul 12, 2014
Frenchkiss564: its not by coming to a public forum and bragging about it. God doesnt like arrogant people too
You think God loves someone that judges the other?
Tell me how I have been arrogant here?
By professing my faith and correcting a wrong saying?
If I had kept quiet after reading all those deceptive posts here, then, Iam no christian at all.
Then, my believe in christ is in vain.
Our lord said in the bible, He who proclaimed my name before the people, I will proclaim his name before my father in heaven.
My dear if I wronged you anyway, forgive me.
But you can never stop me from proclaiming the word of he who sent me.
You may not care if there's anyone on earth still doing the will of God but our heavenly father cares a lot.
And my dear, it's never too late for you.
One's virginity is not a criteria for heaven, so, even if you are no longer a virgin, you can still make a resolution today never to go back to your old ways. Not just fornication/ adultery, but other sinful acts.
Seek God's greater glory in all things dear.
Do it for your own salvation.
I pray that our lord will grant you the necessary grace you will need to overcome these earthly temptations.
But you need to 1st approach him and ask him for that grace.
Iam sure he loves you a lot and will be waiting for that day you will come back to him to say, IAM SORRY LORD.
I assure you, just like the prodigal son's father, he will take you in his hands, kiss you and cherish you!
Have you ever tried putting your hand in a burning fire for a minute?
Does it hurt?
You can imagine the pains one will get to experience in hell.
Not just one's hand will get to be burnt here but the whole body as well. It does not happen for just a day or two but forever!
Remember dear, HEAVEN IS REAL AND HELL IS REAL. They are both everlasting.
Would you prefer spending eternity in paradise (heaven) or perpetual suffering and torment in hell?
It's your choice to make dear!
It's both our choices to make.
#REMAIN BLESSED#
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Frenchkiss564: 1:45pm On Jul 12, 2014
Ngseralph:
You think God loves someone that judges the other?
Tell me how I have been arrogant here?
By professing my faith and correcting a wrong saying?
If I had kept quiet after reading all those deceptive posts here, then, Iam no christian at all.
Then, my believe in christ is in vain.
Our lord said in the bible, He who proclaimed my name before the people, I will proclaim his name before my father in heaven.
My dear if I wronged you anyway, forgive me.
But you can never stop me from proclaiming the word of he who sent me.
You may not care if there's anyone on earth still doing the will of God but our heavenly father cares a lot.
And my dear, it's never too late for you.
One's virginity is not a criteria for heaven, so, even if you are no longer a virgin, you can still make a resolution today never to go back to your old ways. Not just fornication/ adultery, but other sinful acts.
Seek God's greater glory in all things dear.
Do it for your own salvation.
I pray that our lord will grant you the necessary grace you will need to overcome these earthly temptations.
But you need to 1st approach him and ask him for that grace.
Iam sure he loves you a lot and will be waiting for that day you will come back to him to say, IAM SORRY LORD.
I assure you, just like the prodigal son's father, he will take you in his hands, kiss you and cherish you!
Have you ever tried putting your hand in a burning fire for a minute?
Does it hurt?
You can imagine the pains one will get to experience in hell.
Not just one's hand will get to be burnt here but the whole body as well. It does not happen for just a day or two but forever!
Remember dear, HEAVEN IS REAL AND HELL IS REAL. They are both everlasting.
Would you prefer spending eternity in paradise (heaven) or perpetual suffering and torment in hell?
It's your choice to make dear!
It's both our choices to make.
#REMAIN BLESSED#
well said bro, maybe i misunderstood your motive
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by seankafor(m): 6:04pm On Jul 13, 2014
Ngseralph:
As you are licking your gals, don't forget that this world and all its pleasures are ephemeral.
They can never last long.
Safeguard your soul now that you still have the chance to.
We have a place we are going to which is heaven!
Will your soul be ready when our lord comes or would you rather choose to spend eternity in hell?
Our lord Jesus christ condemns sexual immoralities and all other sinful activities.
Remember bro, hell is a place of torment and grief. A place of perpetual punishment and suffering. It is eternal and everlasting.
Have you ever tried putting your hands in a fire?
How does it feel?
Good or bad?
You can imagine how much more one will get to suffer in a place like hell where the fire will not only burn your hands but your whole body as well. One won't get to pass through this for just a day or two but forever.
Think about it bro.
*GOD HELP YOU*
ALL I CAN SAY IS TANKS VERY MUCH....WELL I JUST POSTED DAT TIN FOR D SAKE OF POSTING..I DONT DO THAY

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