I read with sheer amazement, a topic "What's wrong with our men'? and I the comments made are baffling...
Anyways, before a lady should ask us What's wrong with us she needs to answer the following questions.
1. do you believe in gender equality? if yes, that means you have to do things equally with your man e.g. making decisions together, catering for the family together(paying bills). Many Nigeria ladies like gender equality but are buy ready for it. When it comes to the issue of spending, the say men are the head. When it comes to respecting the man's decision, they preach equality.
2. many of you want a hardworking man. if this man works a lot and provide for the needs of the house and he doesn't have enough time.... why do you cheat on him? and later come out with "he has no time for us".
3. Can you allow him to really be the head by not working (being a full-time housewife)? Because my wife cannot be working and make me suffer sometimes and won't agree to share financial responsibilities with me. Sometimes, you have to eat junks because you understand your wife has no much time owing to work and her self gratification.
Are we ready for gender equality in Nigeria? if Yes, do we understand it or do we need learn from those who invented it?

lamps011:
Are we ready for gender equality in Nigeria?

Okay. Are you a feminist?

A woman that doesn't work is not entittle to eat

Counter threads are boring

Are there still women who doesn't work with her man to support the family's growth?

Observing sha.

MzMariah: Are there still women who doesn't work with her man to support the family's growth?

Observing sha.

Ask him o

lamps011: I read with sheer amazement, a topic "What's wrong with our men'? and I the comments made are baffling...
Anyways, before a lady should ask us What's wrong with us she needs to answer the following questions.
1. do you believe in gender equality? if yes, that means you have to do things equally with your man e.g. making decisions together, catering for the family together(paying bills). Many Nigeria ladies like gender equality but are buy ready for it. When it comes to the issue of spending, the say men are the head. When it comes to respecting the man's decision, they preach equality.
2. many of you want a hardworking man. if this man works a lot and provide for the needs of the house and he doesn't have enough time.... why do you cheat on him? and later come out with "he has no time for us".
3. Can you allow him to really be the head by not working (being a full-time housewife)? Because my wife cannot be working and make me suffer sometimes and won't agree to share financial responsibilities with me. Sometimes, you have to eat junks because you understand your wife has no much time owing to work and her self gratification.
Are we ready for gender equality in Nigeria? if Yes, do we understand it or do we need learn from those who invented it?

You have a point there, There is this woman that comes home sometimes around 10pm. The husband closes around 8pm so he is always the one that bath and take care of the kids, cooks dinner and do some other chores. They have a maid but the maid stays with the woman at her shop. So when the kids started going to school the woman refused help pay for their fees and I was like what does she do with her money. It didn't take long sha before the man closed her shop.

shelter4luving: Ask him o

Yes, there are a lot who work but will not use their money for the family needs. they leave all to the men, calling them the head of the family... they use their money to buy aso ebi and attend all the parties in Nigeria.

Am not married yet, so I'll talk from the perspective of a single guy.

I think the problem has to do with the mentality. Most Nigerian ladies do not have any idea what being in a relationship entails.

Now I am one of those who believe that a guy should spend on his lady, at least within his means. But the fact is, most of our ladies have taken that to another level hence the reason you find most guys, even here, complaining loads.

I have dated a lot of ladies, but its just two of them that always insisted on sharing the bills anytime we were out on a date or even knew that buying really cool stuffs is not just the exclusive preserve of the guys.

Unless most of these ladies really understand the true meaning of 'gender equality', our Naija guys would always continue to ask these questions, and you wouldnt blame them.

lamps011:
Yes, there are a lot who work but will not use their money for the family needs. they leave all to the men, calling them the head of the family... they use their money to buy aso ebi and attend all the parties in Nigeria.

Lol.

zicoraads: Am not married yet, so I'll talk from the perspective of a single guy.

I think the problem has to do with the mentality. Most Nigerian ladies do not have any idea what being in a relationship entails.

Now I am one of those who believe that a guy should spend on his lady, at least within his means. But the fact is, most of our ladies have taken that to another level hence the reason you find most guys, even here, complaining loads.

I have dated a lot of ladies, but its just two of them that always insisted on sharing the bills anytime we were out on a date or even knew that buying really cool stuffs is not Justin then exclusive preserve of the guys.

Unless most of these ladies really understand the true meaning of 'gender equality', our Naija guys would always continue to ask these questions, and you wouldnt blame them.

Don't worry zic, I will treat you right.

MzMariah: Don't worry zic, I will treat you right.

zicoraads:

You won't regret ever marrying me

So this thread is supposed to be a reply to what's wrong with our men



interesting


am still waiting for what's wrong with our boys and girls since there is already what's wrong with our men and women

kulyie: So this thread is supposed to be a reply to what's wrong with our men



interesting


am still waiting for what's wrong with our boys and girls since there is already what's wrong with our men and women

laff wan restore my virginity

lamps011:
laff wan restore my virginity

Pele o

MzMariah: You won't regret ever marrying me

kulyie: So this thread is supposed to be a reply to what's wrong with our men



interesting


am still waiting for what's wrong with our boys and girls since there is already what's wrong with our men and women

question is; Op, what is wrong with you?

...Hian!..is it a must to have counter-threads sef?..

..@op this topic is way off your league with the way you sounded..sorry.