Vikky014: face front abeg,stp quotn me,good adviser,so i shld nt express my own view?

ur view is a crazy view woman. Go and sit down 4 one place and don't quote me again.

laykhorn: why dont you just mind your f*cking business?
Its his life and every decision is his and only his to make.
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Cant a man just Fall in love again. I think you're either obsessed about their love life OR you lack such. Lemme ask this, Have you ever been in Love?

mr/mrs lunatic abeg go sidon!!!men are talking

ifyalways: OP mind your business for now.

Your brother is an adult and would live with the consequences of his decisions.

see de girl type

freecocoa: I don't understand most people saying "leave him alone, mind your business".

I mean I get leaving an adult to his business and decisions but not when it will prolly mar his life, especially when the said person is family.

I'm telling you, nairalanders are always quick to say such....leave him/her, he's an adult, like when the consequences come knocking, the whole family members wouldn't be involved??


For those saying love, bla bla bla, any relationship that keeps you away from family isn't worth it and has no iota of love in it...

MarvellousGod: I'm telling you, nairalanders are always quick to say such....leave him/her, he's an adult, like when the consequences come knocking, the whole family members wouldn't be involved??


For those saying love, bla bla bla, any relationship that keeps you away from family isn't worth it and has no iota of love in it...

so on point

Your brother is 30 years old and must decide for himself. You had the opportunity to tell him what you think of his relationship with the girl and there is nothing more you can or should do.

It
seems your brother is bewitched,there is no future guarantee for him
and this supposed spouse of his. Both are AS like you said,does he want
to birth sicklers? Your parents should take fast actions before it gets
too late.

Onlinebizexpert: Op afta God d next strongest power is dat of pew.see , try & taste d gal tin if u stil have ur sense afta d event den ur broda can be saved....if d tin sweet die den no say ur bro don go kpatakpata ......interested in online importation biz quote me

ur comment shows u have sense...only in short supply.

lawa18: My fellow nairalanders, am writing this bc I want to lessen the load that has been pressing down my heart for long now by pouring out to its entirety wt has been transpiring between me and my only brother and I earnestly wish u help me out on wt to do.

I am a fresh graduate hoping to serve come Nov and .mmy brother came back from service in 2011, luckily for him, he got a job with WAEC, immediately after serving. He rented a one room apartment n I visited him in 2012 when I did my industrial training. During my stay, I noticed he doesn't allow our relatives n friends to visit us which became more pronounced when he got a girl friend called Ada. Ada started to visit us gradually till she now visits on daily basis. It became serious dt from daily visiting she started sleeping over and later started living with us. Landlord and the wife complained and quarrelled wt my brother over her sleeping with us but nothing changed. The landlord even slapped my brother amidst a quarrel and the wife once abused the girl but she wouldn't learn her lessons. My brother later relocated to a new apartment ( a room and parlour) abandoning a remaining 6months in the old apartment. The girl moved in with him.

Before I now visit, I v to write an application letter giving him like two weeks notice talk more of any other relative or friend visiting. My Dad only visited once and it was an uphill task bc he has to keep postponing it to avoid Dad knowing about the girl he is harbouring likewise when my mum once visited. Each time I visited from sch, the gal must be there with her clothes and shoes all over the wardrobe. All these gave me little worry until he started talking about marrying the girl.

Though l didn't like d idea, I kept silent over the issue. When I thought God has answered my prayers was the day he to told me that their genotype did not match after they did a genotype test not knowing dt things will become worse. The intimacy started like never before despite d test. I had to confront him one day concerning d girl, giving him several reasons why he should let go of the girl like:

1. Risk of pregnancy and abortion.

2. D girl will prevent him from finding a wife since he said he wants to marry.

3. His reputation n dt of the family will be dragged to the mud.

4. His spiritual life is in jeopardy as he no longer prays since the girl came into his life unlike before

5. Dt the gal has alienated him from our relatives and friends.

6. He is spending on the wrong person and so many other reasons.

After, he insisted that he knows wt he is doing, in fact I should stop telling him dt he is ready to bear the consequences if anything goes wrong. He celebrated his 30th birthday last month, he is not too financially buoyant, he has many family responsibilities but is wasting his future with a stranger.

They have lived for over two years now, they now bath together, he helps the girl in cooking and atimes cooks for her, he accepts anything she says and live his life to please the girl only (she recommends the movie to be watched), she takes call from her other suitors in his presence but my brother cannot. What a world!

I happen to be the only person that knows wt is happening, not even my parents are aware. Am confused. Could it be that they want to take the risk and get married or my brother is just wasting his time waiting for her to get married before he starts looking for a wife.

My parents r hoping dt soonest their son will marry. I don't knw wt to do n whom to seek advice from. I love my brother so much and wouldn't want anything to go wrong in his life. I don't even want people to knw wt he is doing so as not to v problem wt him or taint his image. I solicit for ur help pls

My advice for you is to stay the fck out of what is not your business. Get your own life!

3rdeye1: ur comment shows u have sense...only in short supply.

thanks man..........

chimoz: Onlinebizexpert is viewing ...he will now start stalking op....i givvup on this thread

bros what have i DO u naaaaaaa

I don't want to say something now, So my e-warriors at the top won't say another.

3rdeye1: ur comment shows u have sense...only in short supply.

No be lie bro, no be lie. Onlinebizexpert brain no dey get full bar

chimoz:
No be lie bro, no be lie. Onlinebizexpert brain no dey get full bar

nepa no bring lyt for my area naaaaa

chimoz: many things oooo.....including receiving mouth job from lynpetra and lydia

who be lydia?

as for lynpetra, i wan put am for my prayer point wey i go give pastor tomorrow

Sorry 2 say op, but Nija families indeed know how 2 ruin thru love in relationships. Always pointing fingers that , its a spell from hell.. Op, relax, go get yurself true love and stop the. Resentment and whinning.. And mind u, if u don't support him in a docile way. U and d family , may loose him for many yrs 2 come, if he's as strong headed as I am, when it comes 2 matters of d heart.. So be wise and face yur own life.

Onlinebizexpert:



nepa no bring lyt for my area naaaaa

Lol........mtn nko? them never install mast for your area?

chimoz:
Lol........mtn nko? them never install mast for your area?

we still dey use nitel for my area

Onlinebizexpert:



who be lydia?

as for lynpetra, i wan put am for my prayer point wey i go give pastor tomorrow

Lynpetra no need your prayer, the girl sin don dey overwhelm God. Lydia na that girl wey you dey stalk.

I don't like commenting wen a thread has gone dis long but I hope u find my comment. Ur brother don't accept warning in time, d bible say a prudent man see evil ahead and withdraw but a fool ges ahead. Like d Yoruba parable dat says a dog dat will go lost don't pay attention to d hunters whistle. You will have to leave your brother alone and let witness d consequence of his action otherwise he will never appreciate ur concern. Beside his will may have been subjected to influence of witchcraft, I have witness a similar case, I don't trust dat gal.

chimoz:
Lynpetra no need your prayer, the girl sin don dey overwhelm God. Lydia na that girl wey you dey stalk.

who be lydia wetin be her username

Onlinebizexpert:


we still dey use nitel for my area

That must be that waterfront wey dey lag.

Onlinebizexpert:



who be lydia wetin be her username

nadia nah.....i no dey see her again...you don stalk am comot Nairaland abi?

chimoz:
That must be that waterfront wey dey lag.

water no even front for my side

chimoz:
Abeg go sleep joor!!! No dey beg lynpetra for BJ abeg!

am just having fun nothing serious