MizMyColi: Fortunately for the posters above, they have not jam. I e--arnestly pray you don't That's btw. Good morning all

krall: jam what?

That's the much I can say

Douglasdale: I find it rather bemusing and crazy that I can't seem to spend time wooing a particular lady for too long. I tend to lose interest in any lady that wants to play hard-to-get with me. For example I collected a fly chicks number inna bank and after calling her 2,3 times and she. Gave me those I-cant-see-you or I-am-busy excuses... I jejely deleted her number.
I am a busy person with too many things running thru my mind that I even forget to call some numbers too. I have a steady friend-with-benefit but can't seem to play that dog chase cat game. Am I the only one and is it a normal situation?

Tallesty1: A lot of girls think playing hard to get will get a guy to like them. Most of them play hard-to-get when they interested otherwise she will just play never gonna happen. I know its gets to a point where it becomes boring, annoying and frustrating but deleting her number just because she gave you excuses doesn't seem cool to me. Reason being that she may not even know/like, In other words she doesn't care if you are alive or not. You have to make her like you atleast before she would be able to make out time for you. Some ladies are really busy and sometimes they are worth the chase, but that is if you have seen in their attitude that they are interested. Some are so good at it that even when they are playing hard to get they wouldt still be encouraging you to continue the chase. Sometimes it is cool to give her the "ultimatum" to accept to be your girl or sitdown so that you can see the girl behind her.

Raymondenyi: if this is ur definition of wooing a lady; thenn I must say; U are either a Kid (obviously a teenager or a young skool boi) or u still psychologically immmature;

Raymondenyi: And who says after he deletes d lady's number he 'll wanna know if she's still alive or not? ...(No insult meant)

Raymondenyi: Anyway; experience is d best teacher they say (buh I'll say, oda people experience is d better teacher)
Wen u grow older U'll understand every lady knows what they want, n wen dey see it; they go 4 it without resisitance albeit; d shy once myt refrain; buh 1ce u mek d move; u see dem all smiling n receptive...

Raymondenyi: My broda; ask questions n learn 4rm men far ahead of u...

andromida: What if she is actually busy? Your decision to delete her number was based on assumption not facts you should have made clear efforts to keep a date with her not expect her to fall at your feet just because you said HI 3 times.

JesDivine: Op, re you the person on your profile? If yes, then I think I know why she's always giving you the 'am busy' excuse. #NoOffence

Oahray: It's normal. But don't rejoice yet, maturity isn't always the reason. The reason isn't always a healthy self - esteem either (you opened this thread to receive validation or even praise, from the public, remember). At times, the reason could even be self-defeatism.

That said, the reason for yours, I think, is you have not learnt to look beyond the superficial. To you, looking 'fly' is the real basis for attraction. But your subconscious yearns for something different, something better, and that's why you get disappointed.

When you meet someone with qualities you subconsciously want, you'd play the chasing game, and wonder what has come over you.

Mavor: You ladies are jokers. Always wanting to eat your cake and have it at the same time.

Oahray: where's your own picture, miss 'I'm-so-fly-I-look-down-on-birds'?

Tannie: Op if you meet someone like me, u will delete my number after calling twice.

JesDivine: Not even if I was not so fly would I waste my time caring about what you think or say. I have real headaches to handle, adding social network headache to it is just sheer stupidity on my part. So if you want someone to throw your teen age tantrums with, check the next door.

zeb04: There is every possiblity she is not even intrested.

I can imagine those guys deleting my number.....I don't even know if they are alive or not orishirishi.

When a lady is intrested,she wil let you know. Simple as that

Tallesty1: I know

Tannie:

Lollzzz what do you know.

Good morning

Tallesty1: A lot of girls think playing hard to get will get a guy to like them. Most of them play hard-to-get when they are interested otherwise she will just play never gonna happen. I know it gets to a point where it becomes boring, annoying and frustrating but deleting her number just because she gave you excuses doesn't seem cool to me. Reason being that she may not even know/like, In other words she doesn't care if you are alive or not. You have to make her like you atleast before she would be able to make out time for you. Some ladies are really busy and sometimes they are worth the chase, but that is if you have seen in their attitude that they are interested. Some are so good at it that even when they are playing hard to get they wouldt still be encouraging you to continue the chase. Sometimes it is cool to give her the "ultimatum" to accept to be your girl or sitdown so that you can see the girl behind her.

JesDivine: Op, re you the person on your profile? If yes, then I think I know why she's always giving you the 'am busy' excuse. #NoOffence

Douglasdale: I find it rather bemusing and crazy that I can't seem to spend time wooing a particular lady for too long. I tend to lose interest in any lady that wants to play hard-to-get with me. For example I collected a fly chicks number inna bank and after calling her 2,3 times and she. Gave me those I-cant-see-you or I-am-busy excuses... I jejely deleted her number.
I am a busy person with too many things running thru my mind that I even forget to call some numbers too. I have a steady friend-with-benefit but can't seem to play that dog chase cat game. Am I the only one and is it a normal situation?