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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 9:25am On Jul 18, 2014
Lovexme: 100% agree with the OP.

Number one has always been on my mind. I've lost enough close people to forget how short life can be.

I'd never forget that.

Hmmmm..... Life is really damn short!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by UjSizzle(f): 9:25am On Jul 18, 2014
Great write up!
I find number 3 to be very true, and the 80-20 principle works just fine. Do less, achieve more. No need to end your life just because you're trying to make ends meet.

I particularly like how all the points here are very interrelated smiley In summary just Live, and live as best as you can.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Godfullsam(m): 9:32am On Jul 18, 2014
Number 2, 3 and 4 are very interesting and insightful. @OP well done. god bless you.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 9:32am On Jul 18, 2014
ElNur1: One Word: Educative


Brilliant Thread by OP

U're so brilliant for reading that too!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Godfullsam(m): 9:35am On Jul 18, 2014
@op well done o... God bless you wela. This write up is interresting

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 9:36am On Jul 18, 2014
Godfullsam: Number 2, 3 and 4 are very interesting and insightful. @OP well done. god bless you.

May God bless u for reading it too!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by stanley99a(m): 9:36am On Jul 18, 2014
Thanks op. Great words. I need to read through this again and again till it sink in.

O boy see very few comment on this insightful write up. If it were story like how a lizard slept with chicken, it would attracted a thousand and one comments.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by proudlyme(m): 9:40am On Jul 18, 2014
Nice thread
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Inioluwa01(m): 9:41am On Jul 18, 2014
Tinkybabe: Great write up!

No 5 is what differentiates Dreamers from Achievers



I guess he decided to merge two words without including the prefix and suffix ,ie insightful and impressive.

Just like fantabulous
Fantastic and fabulous..

I beg to disagree ma'am...insightive cld actually be in d guy's dictionary..seriously nw,he might av tot it's correct.
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 9:43am On Jul 18, 2014
UjSizzle: Great write up!
I find number 3 to be very true, and the 80-20 principle works just fine. Do less, achieve more. No need to end your life just because you're trying to make ends meet.

I particularly like how all the points here are very interrelated smiley In summary just Live, and live as best as you can.

Great summary, u really did made d thread well pointed out. Thanks!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 9:45am On Jul 18, 2014
HEAVEN AND HELL ARE REAL

Most people dont want to believe this yet it is so real. Heaven is real, Hell is real.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 9:46am On Jul 18, 2014
stanley99a: Thanks op. Great words. I need to read through this again and again till it sink in.

O boy see very few comment on this insightful write up. If it were story like how a lizard slept with chicken, it would attracted a thousand and one comments.

Imagine? All Nairalanders needs to read this. And don't know wat the mods are busy doing?

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by ifycent2: 9:50am On Jul 18, 2014
No.1 nice point...

Death is not
the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies
inside you while you’re still alive. Be bold. Be
courageous.

Gud point !!!

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 9:52am On Jul 18, 2014
This thread is so fantastic!!! I have learnt so much.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by ifycent2: 9:53am On Jul 18, 2014
No.1 nice point...

Death is not
the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies
inside you while you’re still alive. Be bold. Be
courageous.

Gud point.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by HawtMummie(f): 9:53am On Jul 18, 2014
I have to print this write up. In capital letters, paste on my kitchen and bedroom wall. Read everyday. Till it becomes my mantra. Thanks op.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 18, 2014
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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 10:00am On Jul 18, 2014
HawtMummie: I have to print this write up. In capital letters, paste on my kitchen and bedroom wall. Read everyday. Till it becomes my mantra. Thanks op.

Shey dat won't be too outrageous? Just asking though?
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by jumzzy448: 10:00am On Jul 18, 2014
It's as if the write up was made for me.

Thank you op.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Harmvirus(f): 10:07am On Jul 18, 2014
Nice write up.
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by yuzjet(m): 10:11am On Jul 18, 2014
jumzzy448: It's as if the write up was made for me.

Thank you op.

U're always welcome!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by chukwuinya: 10:20am On Jul 18, 2014
will lik 2 go tru dis writeup everyday of my life,God bless u op 4 being a blessing to me dis morning

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by HawtMummie(f): 10:21am On Jul 18, 2014
yuzjet:

Shey dat won't be too outrageous? Just asking though?


Being "outrageous" is a small price to pay.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by fijiano202(m): 10:25am On Jul 18, 2014
Wow...Thanks alot..i think i need to quit my job,although its paying my bills but its not moving me closer to my dream
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by winiwini: 10:28am On Jul 18, 2014
11. Do good and Reap Better.

12. Pay your tithes and enjoy cancer-worm-free pocket
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:31am On Jul 18, 2014
I HATE DEATH! I FORBID DEATH! I REBUKE DEATH! INFACT, I DON'T WANNA DIE! #period!
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 18, 2014
Hmmmmmm....... I comment my reserve
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 18, 2014
whoawa: mark my words, if continue in this ur way, u will die very soon!
tell me something cry
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by Nobody: 10:35am On Jul 18, 2014
Lovely..This is one real good piece..It was worth my MB..Had to transfer the write-up 2 my E-Library

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by biomedixexcel(m): 10:36am On Jul 18, 2014
It's true.....
Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by bennyzer(m): 10:41am On Jul 18, 2014
yuzjet: “The truth does not cease to exist when it is ignored.”. You know how you can hear something a hundred times in a hundred different ways before it finally gets through
to you? The ten truths listed below fall firmly into that category – life lessons that many of us likely learned years ago, and have been reminded of ever since, but for whatever reason, haven’t fully grasped.

This, my friends, is my attempt at helping all of us, myself included, “get it” and “remember it” once and for all…

1. THE AVERAGE HUMAN LIFE IS RELATIVELY SHORT.
We know deep down that life is short, and that death will happen to all of us eventually, and yet we are infinitely surprised when it happens to someone we know. It’s like walking up a flight of stairs with a distracted mind, and misjudging the final step. You
expected there to be one more stair than there is, and so you find yourself off balance for a moment, before your mind shifts back to the present moment and how the world really is.

LIVE your life TODAY! Don’t ignore death, but don’t be afraid of it either. Be afraid of a life you never lived because you were too afraid to take action. Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside you while you’re still alive. Be bold. Be
courageous. Be scared to death, and then take the next step anyway.

2. YOU WILL ONLY EVER LIVE THE LIFE YOU CREATE FOR YOURSELF.
Your life is yours alone. Others can try to persuade you, but they can’t decide for you. They can walk with you, but not in your shoes. So make sure the path you decide to walk aligns with your own intuition and
desires, and don’t be scared to switch paths or pave a new one when it makes sense.
Remember, it’s always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than the top of the one you don’t. Be productive and patient. And realize that patience is not about waiting, but the ability to keep a
good attitude while working hard for what you believe in. This is your life, and it is made up entirely of your choices. May your actions speak louder than your words. May your life preach louder than your lips. May your success be your noise in the end. And if life only teaches you one thing, let it be that
taking a passionate leap is always worth it. Even if you have no idea where you’re going to land, be brave enough to step up to the edge of the unknown, and listen to your heart.
Painful truth indeed.

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Re: 10 Painfully Obvious Truths Everyone Forgets Too Soon by bennyzer(m): 10:51am On Jul 18, 2014
yuzjet: 3. BEING BUSY DOES NOT MEAN BEING
PRODUCTIVE.

Busyness isn’t a virtue, nor is it something to respect. Though we all have seasons of crazy schedules, very few of us have a legitimate need to be busy ALL the time. We simply don’t know how to live within our means,
prioritize properly, and say no when we should. Being busy rarely equates to productivity these days. Just take a quick look around. Busy people outnumber productive people by a wide margin. Busy people are
rushing all over the place, and running late half of the time. They’re heading to work, conferences, meetings, social engagements, etc. They barely have enough free
time for family get-togethers and they rarely get enough sleep. Yet, emails are shooting out of their smart phones like machine gun bullets, and their day planners are jammed to the brim with obligations. Their busy schedule gives them an elevated sense of
importance. But it’s all an illusion. They’re like hamsters running on a wheel.

Though being busy can make us feel more alive than anything else for a moment, the sensation is not sustainable long term. We will inevitably, whether tomorrow or on our deathbed, come to wish that we spent less time in the buzz of busyness and more time
actually living a purposeful life.

4. SOME KIND OF FAILURE ALWAYS OCCURS BEFORE SUCCESS.
Most mistakes are unavoidable. Learn to forgive yourself. It’s not a problem to make them. It’s only a problem if you never learn from them. If you’re too afraid of failure, you can’t possibly do what needs to be done to be successful. The solution to this problem is making friends with failure. You want to
know the difference between a master and a beginner?

The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried. Behind every great piece of art is a thousand failed attempts to make it, but these attempts are simply never shown to us.

Bottom line: Just because it’s not happening now, doesn’t mean it never will. Sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right.
U r blessing me guy. Cos I just made a silly mistake dat has thrown me off balance for now. Take solace in ur advice dat it will pass.

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