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Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jul 17, 2014
There is a certain
desperation that
propels someone who is single to want to mingle.


This is further assisted by some motivating elements such as a deep yearning for
emotional connection,
happiness, fulfillment and what nots. Remaining in a
state of singlehood,
temporarily, however, could actually be the most wisest and beneficial decision, all
things considered, one could yet make. Let’s take a look at some benefits that could
be derived staying single.

SUFFICIENT TIME


There are twenty four hours
in a day. And a lot could be
achieved within that time
frame. In a relationship, time
is devoted to call your
partner, think about your
partner and be with your
partner. The sum total of the
time you spent on your
partner could well be
personally utilised
productively. Aside the fact
that you get to do other
things when single, you are
rid of distractions, and that
can only enable you to
maintain focus.

COMMITMENT

Relationship, for it to
survive, requires
commitment. Commitment, for
it to thrive, demands efforts.
Efforts that could be difficult,
at times, to muster up. A lot
of pressure could be eased
when one isn’t responsible
to anyone or has to always
make plans for two either
conveniently or
inconveniently.


LESS WORRY


Perhaps a healthy benefit
that comes from singlehood
is having to worry less. The
thought of having to avoid
all sorts of disagreements
does seem awesome, doesn’t
it? Throw in the fact that you
won’t have to go on hunger
strike for a month or get
admitted to a hospital for a
year after a heartbreak or
become disillusioned with life
because you got cheated on.

LESS SPENDING


Building wealth with one’s
finances while single could
ensure a swifter rate to
success than when
emotionally attached to
someone. Plus, you get a
good feeling when you know
you won’t anymore be
financially responsible to a
relationship that is more or
less a savings account. Only
an inaccessible one.



So, did i cover the main
aspects, or some more
crucial points are missing?
Let’s know what you think on
this by dropping a comment!

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Re: Benefits Of Being Single by anselm791(m): 2:20pm On Jul 17, 2014
Nice points there, it's funny I had those exact same ideas until I started growing up and becoming responsible.

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Re: Benefits Of Being Single by ebamma(m): 2:58pm On Jul 17, 2014
You spend less on recharge cards

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Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nastydroid(m): 3:04pm On Jul 17, 2014
No need to memorize birthday date.
nobody is flashing you at the middle of the night.
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jul 17, 2014
ebamma: You spend less on recharge cards

lol
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by GoodFaith: 3:40pm On Jul 17, 2014
@Shegsky
"So, did i cover the main
aspects, or some more
crucial points are missing?

Yes

You play with ur hand or ur toys
I will take woman over my hands
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jul 17, 2014
GoodFaith:
@Shegsky
"So, did i cover the main
aspects, or some more
crucial points are missing?

Yes

You play with ur hand or ur toys
I will take woman over my hands

You've made your point. Bro .
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by winiwini: 4:06pm On Jul 17, 2014
Whao! i had this thinking not until when i saw my colleague stop complaining about women after getting married. Marriage will be a great thing
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 17, 2014
Op..God bless u cheesy
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jul 17, 2014
You don't get heart attacks when she flirts with another guy

You sleep well

You spend more time doing reasonable things

No bis

No going with Al her friends and entire extended family

No late night calls

Spend as much time as u want, I love late night coming!

No...

No....

No.............

And NO SEX!! And dats so bad...

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Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jul 17, 2014
Op the benefits you listed are true on some people and not all. Some people spend more when they're single. But one of the benefits of being single is loneliness.
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 4:40pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: Op..God bless u cheesy
you look pretty miss
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jul 17, 2014
Liamm: you look pretty miss
tnx cheesy
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 4:48pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: tnx cheesy
i'm william.nd you?
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 17, 2014
Liamm: i'm william.nd you?
winifred
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: winifred
lol.but winifred sounds masculine
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jul 17, 2014
Liamm: lol.but winifred sounds masculine
dats ma name
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 4:59pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: dats ma name
i have a second name,esther
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jul 17, 2014
Liamm: i have a second name,esther
k!
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 5:05pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: k!
hw does it sound?
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jul 17, 2014
Liamm: hw does it sound?
dunno
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Liamm(m): 5:12pm On Jul 17, 2014
Xtarxhyne: dunno
you're supposed to know.
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 17, 2014
hmmm.....learning....
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by adebasket97: 6:01pm On Jul 17, 2014
FWB rocks, plus I can smoke my shisha without any disturbance
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by mencade5(m): 6:07pm On Jul 17, 2014
you use all your credit to buy megabytes and browse to your satisfaction. Advantage
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by mencade5(m): 6:08pm On Jul 17, 2014
temigracie: hmmm.....learning....
tongue
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by datedoboi: 6:09pm On Jul 17, 2014
and you will save money die, dats if ur not a drunker
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 17, 2014
mencade5: tongue
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by mencade5(m): 6:15pm On Jul 17, 2014
temigracie:
ever since i called u the other day u refuse to reciprocate my call...na wa for you ooo.
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jul 17, 2014
mencade5: ever since i called u the other day u refuse to reciprocate my call...na wa for you ooo.
abeg no vex jare...na condition make crayfish bend...
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by mencade5(m): 6:21pm On Jul 17, 2014
temigracie: abeg no vex jare...na condition make crayfish bend...
hmmm....you try.
Re: Benefits Of Being Single by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 17, 2014
mencade5: hmmm....you try.
lol....u r funny oo

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