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How To Handle Extra Marital/pre Marital Pressures by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jul 17, 2014
Let me tell you what happens when a man is seduced, attracted by a woman or rather falls in love; it all started in the garden; the first time Adam saw a woman, “He goes Whoa!” – that was the first time he would behold the face, shapes, eyes, hair, lips and the breasts of a woman.
This is what goes on in every man upon meeting his desired kind of woman. Every part of a woman is amazingly remarkable, and God intentionally made it so. I have stumbled at many with my sight either by error, mistake, coincidence and other forces that are, and so have you as well.
Nothing seduces a man than the breast with the exceptions of other official part, a woman’s breast is the most pronounced and marketed commodity of her body part. It is now almost an officially endorsed dress trend, such that you are not even complete until you flaunt some cleavages.
Some men are blessed to quickly spot the prettiest girl in a group, office, class, choir, airport etc and while some lack such inherent talent, of which I am not the least. There’s nothing wrong having beautiful women around, but a whole lot can be wrong with our minds wondering around.
“THE MYSTERY”
Revelation 17 tells us about a woman, she has sold every nation by her whoredom. That same woman was described in the ‘Book of Proverbs’ as one who haunts for the precious life (semen). Almost everybody in all nations have been made to partake in the wrath of her harlotry and Immorality, both great and small, the rich and the poor, man and women, adults and teenagers.
This woman is called ‘Babylon the Great’, the mother of all harlots. She is the habitation of all devils. Watch this! EVERY SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS SACRIFCED TO BABYLON. She haunts for the precious life (semen) and this is her raw material.
With this ‘precious life’, Babylon is empowered. ‘Babylon the great’ enlarges her borders with immoral sex. The more reason she is using all available means of the media, audios, videos, and pornography to further strengthen her network and penetrate to making many become subjects of her utmost will.
A man can have sex with all the categories of females; from a mother, sister, a friend, wife, niece, a strange woman and even his daughter. I don’t want to begin to mention all kinds of sexual immorality. Whatever brings you outside a wedded platform is immoral. God’s desire for us is to have sex with His presence, with no sense of guilt, condemnation and inferiority.
“THE PRINCIPLE”
You Can Overcome Pre-Marital/ Extra Marital Sexual Pressures Today:
1. Privacy is the strength of every immoral sin; you need to be in an exponential degree of lunatics to do it in public. Don’t determine to stop, simply flee. Don’t pray about it, run from it. One of my friend just concluded a long fasting period, he opened the door upon hearing the sound of the knocks, he allow the lady (a next door neighbor) who asked to make use of his utensils to prepare her dinner, but they both had the other dinner.
Nothing is wrong when you allow a lady enteryour room, but a whole lot can go wrong when you allow a lady you’re vulnerable to, come into your room without a measure of restrictions. Don’t pass a night in a female friend’s apartment, you can’t sleep on the same bed with a woman all night and tell me you were practicing the faith-life.
2. Trace the source: It always start in the mind, the number one issue you must deal with is Pornography. A woman is more beautiful when half naked than fully naked. A woman’s shape is more amplified and enhanced with half unclothedness. Train your eyes to see different things, while ladies should also not dress to kill. There’s a big difference between attraction and seduction.
3. Don’t touch that which is covered. Don’t kiss every lip, this is the progression. If you are vulnerable to hugs, stop it. Know your limit, set your boundaries. You may not have the rod to cross that red sea.
4. Whenever I see or meet an attractive lady, I have made up my mind to see the potentials, treasures and the gifts on the inside of her. I have something better than sex to offer any lady that comes my way. With this principle, you will not pre-meditate pre-marital or extra- marital sex.
5. Renew and fill your mind with God’s word. Read especially the epistles, Romans, Ephesians, Colossians etc. You cannot spend time with these scriptures and still struggle with sin. Spend time to pray in other tongues (if you have been baptized with Holy Spirit). It does help to mortify and put to death the workings of the flesh a great deal. If you’re not yet baptized in the Holy Spirit, I can send you a manual via e-mail on how you can receive this special gift within 15minutes.
6. This is my scripture; it has worked severally for me and it still does, and it will work for you too. Check it out. JOHN 15:3. But do not stop there, read and study and allow the Holy Spirit to grant you the revelation knowledge behind that scripture.
Dear friend, be encouraged. Of writing many words, there is no end. Grace to your heart.

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Re: How To Handle Extra Marital/pre Marital Pressures by onome710(m): 3:07am On Jul 18, 2014
Good write-up!
Re: How To Handle Extra Marital/pre Marital Pressures by Tedpgrass: 7:08am On Jul 18, 2014
Succinct

Thanks.

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