Elantracey:

hmmmm I pray that you marriage continues to be filled with love, understanding , peace , happiness and all the good this of life

snazzylove: @Godmystrength. Happy anniv. May you continue to experience peace, love, unity and understanding in your marriage. Wishing you many happy and fruitful anniv in yrs to come.
Cheers!

Abeg PM my own cake and ice cream oo

Godmystrength: Abeg commot make i see road jare.........

@house - I pray that this week and the remaining weeks in this year will be exciting/wonderful/fulfilling beyond our expectation and imagination in Jesus' name.. Amen

Meanwhile, today is my wedding anniversary officially. cake and ice cream in my office. you are all invited

beeevan:



I wish you many more years of marital fulfillment, happy anniversary.

bodashee: @Godismystrength, happy anniversary. May the good Lord continue to strengthen and uplift you.

Meanwhile, I'd prefer peppersoup in place of my own ice cream ma

[/quote] Dear Colleagues

Please join me in thanking God for delivering me from HIV infection inspite of the fact that I have been committing fornication and self-service.

I was engaged to a girl whom I was planning to marry later this year.Contrary to the churche's and biblical teachings we had already consumated the union even before wedlock.I took her to my parents early this year and my dad found her worthy but only insisted we carry out HIV screening before going ahead.By April I went and had a negative result.She told me she will do her's later.since we were having unprotected sex and I wasn't infected,I just assumed she will also be negative and didn't really bother.

Last month I told my dad I wanted the introduction to be in August but he bluntly told me,he is not going anywhere unless he sees our HIV result.I came back to her and impressed it upon her to carru out the test so that our marriage plans can proceed.

It was finally that she confessed to me that she was HIV positive and has known since December.

Bewildered I quickly went back for another HI test wich also came out negative.Today been the 12 week after we had sex,I have gone for another HIV test which is still negative.In all itz been between 19-12 weeks since I was exposed to the virus yet I am still negative.

I want you all to help me in thhanking God and praying for more of his mercies and blessings[quote]

cktheluckyman: my own contribution will be to advise all intending couples to conduct HIV test before una begin do raw.I was almost a victim of a deadly HIV deception.but for providence,i should have been HIV positive today.This is my story here

Dear Colleagues

Please join me in thanking God for delivering me from HIV infection inspite of the fact that I have been committing fornication and self-service.

I was engaged to a girl whom I was planning to marry later this year.Contrary to the churche's and biblical teachings we had already consumated the union even before wedlock.I took her to my parents early this year and my dad found her worthy but only insisted we carry out HIV screening before going ahead.By April I went and had a negative result.She told me she will do her's later.since we were having unprotected sex and I wasn't infected,I just assumed she will also be negative and didn't really bother.

Last month I told my dad I wanted the introduction to be in August but he bluntly told me,he is not going anywhere unless he sees our HIV result.I came back to her and impressed it upon her to carru out the test so that our marriage plans can proceed.

It was finally that she confessed to me that she was HIV positive and has known since December.

Bewildered I quickly went back for another HI test wich also came out negative.Today been the 12 week after we had sex,I have gone for another HIV test which is still negative.In all itz been between 19-12 weeks since I was exposed to the virus yet I am still negative.

I want you all to help me in thhanking God and praying for more of his mercies and blessings

https://www.nairaland.com/1800142/miraculous-protection-hiv

This thread was in July, i have done further tests on Aug 5 and sep 6 2014 which is still negative

cktheluckyman: my own contribution will be to advise all intending couples to conduct HIV test before una begin do raw.I was almost a victim of a deadly HIV deception.but for providence,i should have been HIV positive today.This is my story here

Dear Colleagues

Please join me in thanking God for delivering me from HIV infection inspite of the fact that I have been committing fornication and self-service.

Godmystrength: Abeg commot make i see road jare.........

@house - I pray that this week and the remaining weeks in this year will be exciting/wonderful/fulfilling beyond our expectation and imagination in Jesus' name.. Amen

Meanwhile, today is my wedding anniversary officially. cake and ice cream in my office. you are all invited

Icherishu:
Thank God for your life. Next time before you fire unprotected, make sure it is with your wife not a girlfriend.

cktheluckyman:

Tanx a lot.I will keep to that!!

Givemejoy: Please I need you to tell me why men are
allowed to get away with everything and we the
women are always the victim. In my 4 years of
marriage with my husband I never used to go
through his phone, but out of curiosity I
checked his phone on the 6th of this month
and I saw text messages between him and
another woman. From what I read in the
messages he is clearly having an affair and
sleeping with this woman. I confronted him and
he denied it, he has deleted the messages but
from then till now we have not been on
speaking terms. My anger is that we have taken
the matter to his parents and my parents and
they are all blaming me for going through his
phone and asking me to apologise to him. I am
so angry and hurt. Why is nobody blaming him
for having an affair. Please what should I do,
did I do anything wrong, why is everybody
supporting him.

Floodgater: i am saying it as it is. Your hubby is most likely not going to come for you if you leave now cos that ex has a strong hold now thus your 'temporay' exit will be the perfect chance they need. Have you thought of what you or your sister(remember she said a while to see if he will come begging) will do if he doesnt come begging as you seriously hope? I had to come in cos i know you are confuse now. If your heart is not settled about leaving now or latter take your time to know what you really want so that you wont blame yourself or anyone for hasty decision. If you must leave, i want you to leave with no regret whether he comes begging or not. Thats why i said try once more till December... THERE'S POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS TO BREAK EVERY CHAINS...pls forgive your hubby and the ex especially, its necessary for answers to your prayers.

conyema12:

thanks. Aluta
Sure I have no doubt about the love she has 4 me...
The ego smashing part is what pains more, and it even hurts more cos I have swallow it after all she is my woman.

I conveniently decided to in include the intimacy part to bring in the whole picture else some guys will start saying that might be one of the problems.

lamps011:
I think your husband doesn't respect you or he's the old school type. but our mothers experienced worse in those days... those that endure among dem were the good women on the long run... be more tolerant as a good housewife

Agrika: Been following silently, mehn these women are the real deal as in the real Warrior Queens, omo una don begin dey make me fear oo as per this cheating and HIV tinz cos us na every 3-4 months we dey see our hubby.

beeevan:



To some, its really till death do them part, stay married or be dead, chose one .

hispinkolo: Godmystrength,
Happy Anniversary,sorry it's coming late...

Icherishu:
Happy wedding anniversary. May God continue to keep u.

Godmystrength: thanks dear. Amen...

DBestDoc:

It's really pathetic

hoynlorlar: @op,u ar doing a great job here.I read frm page1-5 buh I nid to write moi story too.Am frm a nuclear family and d only girl.I got married just last year december.lemme cut the long story short.my inlaws ar great..dey ar gud to do call.Even my mil is d best 4 now cos changes is d most constant tin in life.
My husband on d oda side is moi problem...wen we were dating,he was d best buh just four month after our marriage he started dis temper tin which I dont undastd...any small tin he flares up..to the point dt he beat me up just four month afta d wedding(I was 7 month pregnant wen I married)I called his mother n my mother and told dem abt wat appened..dey adviced us and talk to him..I hate wat he dd to me buh I ddnt av choice dan to forgive(marriage is far diff frm relationshp).To wat happened.
Just last week,he was off duty...in d nite i cooked beans..d beans was done buh I wanted it to b more thick buh he insisted dt I serve him like dt...so I dd n took d food to him witout putting tray so immediately I saw dt nepa av brought lite plus d beans is still on fire and I av to off d gen too.i was stretching d food to him(d dish was hot too..it was burning moi hand)he ddnt collect it said I shud put tray..i was so pissed so I shouted take den put it on d floor..immediately(moi cousin which is wit us just for visiting o) she ran to take d tray n I went to switch off d gen n change to nepa..afta all dis moi wahala he ddnt eat d food dt nite o..i was so embarrased in frnt of moi cousin.Days afta,it was in d evening,i sent moi cousin to buy tinx 4 me..I was asking im abt our money allowance n he flared up..i flared up too den he said I shud shut up n nt talk..den I talked..he just came near me n started hitting me.i now said I wee call his mother n report him.immediately he collected moi BlackBerry forcefully n said he wee smash it on d floor..i begged n den he took my small nokia and smashed it on d floor..immediately I arranged d scattered fone n on it but d fone ddnt on..den I kept quiet.The next day,i gave im d fone to repair..he was still moody,he ddnt collect it n ddnt repair...to cut moi long story short..i cooked dt same day he ddnt eat.
I know dt all dis is nt normal...wat do u tink I shud do?wu do u tink I shud report to?am so tired of everytin amd I dnt want dis to continue.Candid advice frm nt only married buh matured pple pls.

hoynlorlar: @op,u ar doing a great job here.I read frm page1-5 buh I nid to write moi story too.Am frm a nuclear family and d only girl.I got married just last year december.lemme cut the long story short.my inlaws ar great..dey ar gud to do call.Even my mil is d best 4 now cos changes is d most constant tin in life.
My husband on d oda side is moi problem...wen we were dating,he was d best buh just four month after our marriage he started dis temper tin which I dont undastd...any small tin he flares up..to the point dt he beat me up just four month afta d wedding(I was 7 month pregnant wen I married)I called his mother n my mother and told dem abt wat appened..dey adviced us and talk to him..I hate wat he dd to me buh I ddnt av choice dan to forgive(marriage is far diff frm relationshp).To wat happened.
Just last week,he was off duty...in d nite i cooked beans..d beans was done buh I wanted it to b more thick buh he insisted dt I serve him like dt...so I dd n took d food to him witout putting tray so immediately I saw dt nepa av brought lite plus d beans is still on fire and I av to off d gen too.i was stretching d food to him(d dish was hot too..it was burning moi hand)he ddnt collect it said I shud put tray..i was so pissed so I shouted take den put it on d floor..immediately(moi cousin which is wit us just for visiting o) she ran to take d tray n I went to switch off d gen n change to nepa..afta all dis moi wahala he ddnt eat d food dt nite o..i was so embarrased in frnt of moi cousin.Days afta,it was in d evening,i sent moi cousin to buy tinx 4 me..I was asking im abt our money allowance n he flared up..i flared up too den he said I shud shut up n nt talk..den I talked..he just came near me n started hitting me.i now said I wee call his mother n report him.immediately he collected moi BlackBerry forcefully n said he wee smash it on d floor..i begged n den he took my small nokia and smashed it on d floor..immediately I arranged d scattered fone n on it but d fone ddnt on..den I kept quiet.The next day,i gave im d fone to repair..he was still moody,he ddnt collect it n ddnt repair...to cut moi long story short..i cooked dt same day he ddnt eat.
I know dt all dis is nt normal...wat do u tink I shud do?wu do u tink I shud report to?am so tired of everytin amd I dnt want dis to continue.Candid advice frm nt only married buh matured pple pls.