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I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Dunno where or how to start, but I feel sad nd unhappy anytime my boyfriend is with his sister, she is the only girl and she is based in calabar, he travles there once in a while to visit her and each time he spends close to one month which is annoying to me, I dnt know why but it get me really angry tho I dnt show it. He doesn't always have my time anytime he is with his sister, its either she takes him to swim or they both go for dinner party, she is the type that harbor many ladies so my BF will be practically the only guy in the room with the girls! It drives me nut! I for once thought she is actually his gf until I saw her late last year during her last visit and to say the truth, she looks pretty well like their last born and she is also the first born too. Is this jealousy normal? Cos I feel the same thing each time he uses her pics as his DP, I wonder why he won't use mine but his sister's own not until I realize that my younger brother has also been using my own pics has his DP for a long time now, does this mean that guys love their sisters very much? Her birthday is in a week's time and he is already plannig on how to be there for the party, I have been sad since because he will go there to be among girls, I want him only for myself, maybe am feeling insecure. He as been busy with his final year project so no time for me lately cos we dnt school in same place. My sweetheart is a handsome guy, an upcoming music artist that will become popular in less than 2years, I wonder if this is how I will feel by the time he starts going for shows and everything. Pls help |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Bebe pls hold on let me ask Google 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
It is quite normal to for girls to feel this way, but gurl u have to get over this jealousy and insecurity fast, afterall, he definitely can't stop loving and trying to be there for his sis because of u. U might want to 'jokingly' call his attention to ur concerns of him be around gurls too much but if he assures u its not a prob then leave it at that and don't bother him no more. Guys don't like girls that complain a lot. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by fijiano202(m): 7:14pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Darling just because u dont have a close relationship with ur brother doesnt mean its like that in every family..all u have to do is try to become close friend with his sister and see what happens,am sure with time u will be included in their pack cos i see nothing wrong in u going for his sis bday with him..dont let jealousy ruin ur good relationship..if hes a honest guy like me then u have nothing to worry abt concerning all those ladies around him but my advice is try to learn how to cope now before he becomes a superstar cos that would be alot harder than now 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by KAYCEEJUNIOR(m): 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Girls self, why should you be jealous, you ain't his wife neither are you his fiance.....that dude is just a mere boyfriend....so? becareful with this your attitude before it ruins you, maybe in the nearest future you jealous your hubbys secretary and his mother join 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Adaeze003(f): 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by kokoA(m): 7:20pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Of course he loves his sister morethan you.. When you break his heart who do you think he will run to for consolation? I even love my cousins morethan my gf. Your family will always accept you no matter what. You have to accept this and live with it. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? LolSeriously come to think of it, spending a whole month with his sis. Na wa o. I don't want to start putting ideas in the Op's mind 1 Like |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by fijiano202(m): 7:29pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? Lolada ada from all she wrote,its only spending a month in calabar that caught ur attention..smh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by dytbabe: 8:05pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? Lol No mind her na And when he's with her, he doesn't have ur time and the only thing was the resemblance Lovers don't look alike? Eishhhh |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Missjargo:I know he doesn't go anywhere aside from his sister's place, she is a kind of celebrity and he parties a lot while there. |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
dytbabe:Please I dnt get Ɣ☺u |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
KAYCEEJUNIOR: Girls self, why should you be jealous, you ain't his wife neither are you his fiance.....that dude is just a mere boyfriend....so? becareful with this your attitude before it ruins you, maybe in the nearest future you jealous your hubbys secretary and his mother joinSo? Because am his gf I shouldn't love him enough to get jealous? Ok o 1 Like |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? LolI didn't say MONTHS, I said close to one month and thay was due to ASUU strike, I guess he like the place due to the fun and everything else |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Adaeze003(f): 8:20pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Missjargo:My dear o... That's y I didn't say anytn too just shining my 32 like farano. Lol! |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003:Please tell me what's on your mind like a good sister |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by dytbabe: 8:23pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
OlamiB:t hats gf and nt his sister |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by remsonik(f): 8:46pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
I love calabar girls!! Don't worry Op his sister is only assisting u in helping to take good care of him. |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by rudepen(m): 8:51pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
#chuckles.....GIRL..jst tel him u gon attnd his sis birth annivesary....his reactions ll potray wts poppin...if really she's hz sister... Th0 i lv ma kid sis so much 2...bt den nt hvn tym 4 ma GIRL wn m wt ma sis... Wld she tell me nat 2 tlk 2 ma Girl...thats pathetic |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by rudepen(m): 8:52pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
#chuckles.....GIRL..jst tel him u gon attnd his sis birth annivesary....his reactions ll potray wts poppin...if really she's hz sister... Th0 i lv ma kid sis so much 2...bt den nt hvn tym 4 ma GIRL wn m wt ma sis z jast nat possible... Wld she tell me nat 2 tlk 2 ma Girl?...thats pathetic |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
OlamiB:Ok o but u shld start getting comfortable with his kind of lifetyle. U shld even go with him to these outings or parties |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Missjargo:I wish I could, but I just resumed for the semester and work have really started, dnt have time for that. Although I will go there for his birthday. Hour celebrates it there |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Missjargo:I wish I could, but I just resumed for the semester and work have really started, dnt have time for that. Although I will go there for his birthday. He celebrates it there |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Advise is that you find new boyfriend that don't have sister. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by teeboo: 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? Lol U brought all my teeth out,@ op I ave a question 4 u ,dat ur boyfriend's sister no get her own boyfriend ? Abi hw will her own bf cope with her brother bin around his gf 4 a whole month, I smell somtin |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Abbey2sam(m): 11:05pm On Jul 17, 2014 |
Adaeze003: He goes to calabar you say? And spends months at a time seeing his sister?? Lol I thought of that too but I don't want to start imagining things a whole month |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by moneybag100: 12:32am On Jul 18, 2014 |
OlamiB: Dunno where or how to start, but I feel sad nd unhappy anytime my boyfriend is with his sister, she is the only girl and she is based in calabar, he travles there once in a while to visit her and each time he spends close to one month which is annoying to me, I dnt know why but it get me really angry tho I dnt show it.who gives a f.uc.k if he's handsome or u.gly...and what's our business even if he's already popular artist....some greedy girls self...("That will popular in less than 2years"...lmao!! like she's the one that distribute popularity) 1 Like |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 12:42am On Jul 18, 2014 |
moneybag100: who gives a f.uc.k if he's handsome or u.gly...and what's our business even if he's already popular artist....some greedy girls self...("That will popular in less than 2years"...lmao!! like she's the one that distribute popularity)Ɣ☺u are obviously pained |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 12:43am On Jul 18, 2014 |
teeboo:I dnt know how they live their lives there. |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by ThankGodEdeh(m): 1:15am On Jul 18, 2014 |
You are not Jealous. You are having a feeling of inferiority complex. Shikena |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by moneybag100: 1:52am On Jul 18, 2014 |
OlamiB:pained for what Pathetic!!! |
Re: I Am Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Sister, Is It Normal? by Nobody: 2:41am On Jul 18, 2014 |
OP, there's nothin wrong if he goes to his sisters place in calabar and stays for a month, cos my female cousins do come over to my place and stay longer during the semester break and I see nothin wrong there. They just love coming over cos of the lively environment n how nicely I treat them. Ur BF might just love travellin to Calabar, n the only place he likes stayin is his sisters house. And BTW u said he only stayed there close to a month, n it was courtesy of the ASUU strike. If my GF is like u, thinkin I have somethin to do with my sister, I would have booted her out of my life for conceiving such thoughts. U really need help, n pls grow up |
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