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4 Lies Women Tell Men by SaintAlbert53: 6:14am On Jul 18, 2014
Though a recent study claims
that a woman’s face is like an
open book that reveals her state
of mind, but men need to
beware!
Better not take it as the last
verdict, for irrespective of how
much you trust and adore your
little angel, women do lie to their
significant others at times.
Sometimes to carry off a
situation without hurting his
feelings or to save herself from
trouble, while on occasions to
contain her emotions and pose
as Ms.Goody…At times, she might
fib to make her man feel better,
to avoid a fight, or an
embarrassing situation.

SaintAlbert is here to lend a
helping hand so that men can
figure out when their adorable
darling is not speaking her heart
out so as to handle the situation
with care…


Lie No. 1: “Oh! It’s fine. I’m OK”
Guards on guys! You must know
that she’s not fine at all and
nothing is OK. And sooner or
later, you will have to bear the
brunt of her pent up emotions
that she has somehow managed
to hold back until now. You’ll find
her taking this emotional
defence on occasions when you
may have forgotten her birthday,
taken her for granted or have
done anything that hurts her.
Whenever your woman lets go
off your not so fatal error with a
cool ‘it’s fine’, know it’s nothing
but the calm before a cyclone
that you are fated to face in the
time to come.
To portray that she doesn’t care,
the emotional lady prefers taking
a refuge in this lie.
Well, an experienced lover would
know of the crime that he has
committed, but the amateurs
should look out for her reactions.
She might not get vocal, but will
do everything to make you feel
guilty about the fact that you
have hurt her. From being tight-
lipped to giving the briefest
responses that don’t go beyond
‘hmms, huhs or yes and no’, to
mean tones and loads of sarcasm
– are a few hints that you can
look out for. “Women have a
tendency of expecting their man
to understand the said, as well as
the unsaid, and that leaves men
in a dicey situation. And even
here, by keeping quiet or going
away with a small ‘I’m fine’, she
expects him to know that she’s
hurt.


Lie No. 2: You can stare, I don’t
care!
Either you are too lucky to have
the coolest woman by your side,
or you are getting an inflated
ego without any reason if you
believe her on this. No matter
how hard she tries to look cool
and composed, but the fact
remains that no woman loves it
when her man ogles at another
woman. “After all, who wants to
feel like second best? And the ‘I
don’t care attitude’ is usually to
hide the vulnerability and a
pretence. Most women hate their
man staring at another woman,
it makes her think you fancy the
other woman more.
She doesn’t want to show you
how she’s feeling and is no less
desperate to tell you that you are
torturing her to the core. Well,
easy indications to know she’s
lying can be the trail of questions
she’ll end up asking you. Casually
and candidly, she’ll ask you
things like ‘Isn’t she hot?’ ‘What
makes her so hot? ‘Did you like
her?’ She might appear to be
your best buddy, but actually, she
wants to ask you, ‘Do I score less
than the chic you are ogling at?’
And your answer will decide your
fate not immediately, but
definitely in future, so better
beware of what you say!


Lie No 3: Money is not important
to me
humongous lie! Money is so
important to every woman.
Although it isn’t true that all
women care about is the size of
a man’s bank account, most
women want a guy who is
financially stable and
independent.
Yes, if she really loves you, she
will manage to cope with you for
some time but brother, you
better don’t be broke for too
long. Every woman loves to be
pampered and showered with
gifts, every woman wants to look
good, buy a beautiful dress,
taken out for lunch or dinner,
and wants to flaunt the nice
things you bought for her to her
friends but you sure need money
to do all that. To get the very best
out of her, you’ve got to work
harder to gain that extra cash. If
she tells you money is not
important, then be a broke ass
for more than a year (especially if
she is a student or doesn’t have a
job yet) and come back to testify.

Lie No. 4: I wouldn’t change a
thing about you!”
Awwwww, no you are perfectly
okay, I love you just the way you
are and I wouldn’t change a
thing about you. Honest!”
This is normally followed by the
thought “apart from…” but they
never say it. Although this can be
said sincerely most of the time,
there will always be one thing,
even a tiny thing that your
partner would love to change
about you!

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