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How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 11:48am On Jul 18, 2014
I'm barely two weeks into this amazing long awaited relationship but we are quite miles apart and am getting confused on how to keep it sparkling like when we started,I'm beginning to just notice some changes that are inner but inexpressible and it's not making me so happy. It started really awesome but I just feel something is wrong. I don't know if it's normal or if anything is at fault. I need some candid opinions and advice on how to keep my loving distant relationship sparkling. I love her,I really do.......

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Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Okuda(m): 11:49am On Jul 18, 2014
[size=15pt]Skype everyday[/size]. Gbam!!!
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by pasqal09: 11:52am On Jul 18, 2014
Do people still believe in Long distance relationships? undecided
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 11:56am On Jul 18, 2014
Skype?? Like seriously?? We chat everyday on BBM and we make calls but it tends to get boring sometimes and I don't like it.......@pasqal09 of cause,people still do
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by ERTHAENIGMA(m): 11:58am On Jul 18, 2014
That's the problem. Don't do it everyday unless the flame would eventually die out
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by pasqal09: 11:58am On Jul 18, 2014
Sicozone: Skype?? Like seriously?? We chat everyday on BBM and we make calls but it tends to get boring sometimes and I don't like it.......@pasqal09 of cause,people still do

Well I'm not trying to discourage you but I don't think it exists
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 12:16pm On Jul 18, 2014
ERTHAENIGMA: That's the problem. Don't do it everyday unless the flame would eventually die out
. Hmmmm......I see a lot of sense in what you're saying,but we all know girls now,soon she'll start claiming I don't care but sincerely am gonna dare to try dat out.
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by ERTHAENIGMA(m): 12:24pm On Jul 18, 2014
Sicozone: . Hmmmm......I see a lot of sense in what you're saying,but we all know girls now,soon she'll start claiming I don't care but sincerely am gonna dare to try dat out.
do it. Worked for me. It might seem hard at first but trust me,it works
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by enibal(f): 12:32pm On Jul 18, 2014
@sicozone chat nd call everyday.......skype wen very necessary....... den mke ur presence felt even tho u are far frm each oda.........
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 12:52pm On Jul 18, 2014
enibal: @sicozone chat nd call everyday.......skype wen very necessary....... den mke ur presence felt even tho u are far frm each oda.........
. Tanx a lot sweetheart but,how else could I make my presence felt?
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by dyttt: 12:56pm On Jul 18, 2014
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by farano(f): 1:08pm On Jul 18, 2014
Sicozone: I'm barely two weeks into this amazing long awaited relationship but we are quite miles apart and am getting confused on how to keep it sparkling like when we started,I'm beginning to just notice some changes that are inner but inexpressible and it's not making me so happy. It started really awesome but I just feel something is wrong. I don't know if it's normal or if anything is at fault. I need some candid opinions and advice on how to keep my loving distant relationship sparkling. I love her,I really do.......
U mean sparkling lyk my 32? grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Creamish(f): 1:11pm On Jul 18, 2014
Sicozone: . Tanx a lot sweetheart but,how else could I make my presence felt?

Try visiting... undecided

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Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Nobody: 1:18pm On Jul 18, 2014
Creamish:

Try visiting... undecided
are you the one in that dp? shocked
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 1:24pm On Jul 18, 2014
Creamish:

Try visiting... undecided
. Well I'll try dat.......
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sunkyphil(m): 1:31pm On Jul 18, 2014
u wan c her face to face or do u want to go down low grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jul 18, 2014
Distance makes the heart grow fonder.....Visit,visit,visit and visit and vist cheesy
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Creamish(f): 1:55pm On Jul 18, 2014
frankben: are you the one in that dp? shocked

lolz....dont we all wish? grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jul 18, 2014
Creamish:

lolz....dont we all wish? grin
I don't know.... But um.... The pics is nice grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Creamish(f): 2:00pm On Jul 18, 2014
frankben: I don't know.... But um.... The pics is nice grin

Thanks..il let her know...i don book appointment for gym. grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jul 18, 2014
Creamish:

Thanks..il let her know...i don book appointment for gym. grin
hahaha.... You gym?
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 18, 2014
i had a lng distance relatnship once and i'll give u sum tips.
dnt do the 3tyms a day call routine. U can call her to tell her a new joke u heard,or how u tried making jollof rice but added too much water.
call to tell her someting nasty or sexual and hang up,dat wld k3ep her smiling the rest of d day.
ask her about her day as well.
phone intimacy is good,it might help erase awkard or embarassing feelings when u two meet again.
trust her
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Creamish(f): 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2014
frankben: hahaha.... You gym?

let's not derail d thread further na.. tongue
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 2:23pm On Jul 18, 2014
ahsekeena: i had a lng distance relatnship once and i'll give u sum tips.
dnt do the 3tyms a day call routine. U can call her to tell her a new joke u heard,or how u tried making jollof rice but added too much water.
call to tell her someting nasty or sexual and hang up,dat wld k3ep her smiling the rest of d day.
ask her about her day as well.
phone intimacy is good,it might help erase awkard or embarassing feelings when u two meet again.
trust her
. Tanx a lot bro,I really appreciate you!
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by xp17(m): 2:45pm On Jul 18, 2014
op, I don't recommend long distance relationship, especially when you don't have prior physical contacts . I'm not against it either, but I believe you only get to love/like what you see and feel because they are very real and constitute our physical environment. what you hear may go either ways, most times the stories are altered to sound appealing.

I have seen some kinda situations where a lady ll be on phone with her long distance love bird whilst being in bed with another Allen fella simultaneously, same goes to some guys. in other word, it called "monkey they work, bamboo they chop" lol

in this scenario , since you are in already, I'd advise you to be like 55-65% involved, let her be at least 35% involved. you could tell if she's fully in with her level of involvement, not in all cases though.

the advancement in tech has made it kinda easier for long distance relationship. my question is : are the folks involved really loyal and trusted enough? you do not give trust to the dogs, the given person must earn it, otherwise you are heading to a disaster that is about to happen.


op, I wise you good luck. but make sure you try all you could to make it work and if things goes otherwise, let heaven bear you witness that you did tried all your best, maybe you weren't destined to be together.


life itself is a risk, take it , you might be the lucky one.



my little donation.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by enibal(f): 3:11pm On Jul 18, 2014
@ sicozone surprise Visiting wen necessary..... gifts nd nd mke comments abt her looks even if you cant see her physically..... like hair or outfit.
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by cpapa: 3:25pm On Jul 18, 2014
ERTHAENIGMA ur right am in to one bros e no easy it hurt most times I feel like ending it we talk for a long time I vist but there is nothing like presence.
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by obiscolly(m): 5:41pm On Jul 18, 2014
I've never been in one. Something I'd love to try out though. Sounds interesting wink @op even though I don't have the LDR experience, I'll advise you set time out to pay her a visit and make the experience one she will not forget in a long while. Skype and IM are also cool. Just try to keep track of the important things in her life on daily basis and make sure you have a great sense of humor and wild sense of imagination wink
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by zeb04(f): 5:52pm On Jul 18, 2014
LDR not something I wld be caught dead doing undecided

Op,2weeks is to small to start having such feeling wait for the next 2months that is when the real thing will be felt smiley anyways communication is the key.
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 6:04pm On Jul 18, 2014
enibal: @ sicozone surprise Visiting wen necessary..... gifts nd nd mke comments abt her looks even if you cant see her physically..... like hair or outfit.
. Such a beautiful idea,I wouldn't mind u giving me more hints.....tanx dearie.....u're too much.....
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Sicozone(m): 6:06pm On Jul 18, 2014
enibal: @ sicozone surprise Visiting wen necessary..... gifts nd nd mke comments abt her looks even if you cant see her physically..... like hair or outfit.
Re: How Do I Keep My Long Distance Relationship Sparkling by Tymax(m): 6:08pm On Jul 18, 2014
[size=16pt]Bro, for your peace-of-mind you have two options: Relocation or Dissolution.[/size]

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