Am writing this on behalf of my sis who has been longing to
Settle down though having suitors but no sign of seriousness From any of them. Recently a guy showed up, loving n willing to marry her ,then she decided to involve her prophetess to pray along wt her but after The prayer the prophetess said the guy is not the right person for her. She is 33 and ready for marriage and for past 5yrs this guy is the only person that has shown commitment and willingness towards her. What do u advise her to do?

She go soon old for there if nah prophetess advice she go wait for....

Can't she go on her knees and settle all with the LORD
the LORD says young men and women shall see vision and dreams and they would understands it meaning......

To me i don't think she is ready to marry if she is waiting for the prophetess to supply her.. her own husband

@bebek.... that's Turkish for baby.


Did she ask the prophetess why he is not right for her?

only sheep need a shepherd, your sister is a fool @33.
show her this my comment, maybe it will liberate her from the bondage of the deluded witch you call prophetess.

bebek:

Am writing this on behalf of my sis who has been longing to
Settle down though having suitors but no sign of seriousness From any of them. Recently a guy showed up, loving n willing to marry her ,then she decided to involve her prophetess to pray along wt her but after The prayer the prophetess said the guy is not the right person for her. She is 33 and ready for marriage and for past 5yrs this guy is the only person that has shown commitment and willingness towards her. What do u advise her to do?

Tell her to marry her prophetess in a civil ceremony.

Fu......cKing morons

She better tell that prophetess to park well. Not everyone that sees vision is of God. Most are drug addicts, the other big chunk are mental patients. Only .05% have any special gift. Why will the prophetess want her to get married and stop the steady flow of gifts and money? At her age she is not wise at all. She better find a new church and start trusting God alone, instead of any human who is hallucinating or talking to her other 10 personalities

There is no one u would take to a seer that they wont say something negative about, the bible says seek me with all your heart and u will find me, but we would rather let others to seek God for us, what concerns a prophet with a future husband, there is no marriage without challenges, at 33, she should have had her third child and she is still waiting for prophetess. Next time, tell her to go ahead with any guy she loves and stop carrying their names anywhere.

Scyllapatron: only sheep need a shepherd, your sister is a fool @33.
show her this my comment, maybe it will liberate her from the bondage of the deluded witch you call prophetess.

May be harsh but absolutely right. You sister needs her head examined.

What would the prophetess say? These prophets and prophetesses can only be relevant if they come up with these kind of visions. If your sister gets married, her husband will probably take her to his own church and your sister will never see the prophetess again. But if your sister chases this guy away, she has to bring the next one to the prophetess and she will continue the process. The prophetess needs you sister to continue paying offering to her, so she will do anything to ensure your sister does not leave her church; including saying all the men are wrong!

If your sister gets married to this guy, she leaves the prophetess' church and that means less money for the prophetess.

Watch closely, the next person you will be seeing with this guy after your sisters reject him is the prophetes' first daughter.

Nashville:

May be harsh but absolutely right. You sister needs her head examined.

What would the prophetess say? These prophets and prophetesses can only be relevant if they come up with these kind of visions. If your sister gets married, her husband will probably take her to his own church and your sister will never see the prophetess again. But if your sister chases this guy away, she has to bring the next one to the prophetess and she will continue the process. The prophetess needs you sister to continue paying offering to her, so she will do anything to ensure your sister does not leave her church; including saying all the men are wrong!

If your sister gets married to this guy, she leaves the prophetess' church and that means less money for the prophetess.

you 're right, it just beats my imagination how a 33yrs old depends her life-decision on the charisma of a prophetess. nigerian version of spirituality is absurd.

Nashville:

May be harsh but absolutely right. You sister needs her head examined.

What would the prophetess say? These prophets and prophetesses can only be relevant if they come up with these kind of visions. If your sister gets married, her husband will probably take her to his own church and your sister will never see the prophetess again. But if your sister chases this guy away, she has to bring the next one to the prophetess and she will continue the process. The prophetess needs you sister to continue paying offering to her, so she will do anything to ensure your sister does not leave her church; including saying all the men are wrong!

If your sister gets married to this guy, she leaves the prophetess' church and that means less money for the prophetess.

She sought the prophetess by herself so why is involving you? Her best bet is to pray to God herself with an open mind. Alternatively, if she believes the prophetess is a woman of God then she should follow her advise but she should ask to know why he is not. Sometimes, it is better to remain single than force one's self into some marriage because of age.

GboyegaD: She sought the prophetess by herself so why is involving you? Her best bet is to pray to God herself with an open mind. Alternatively, if she believes the prophetess is a woman of God then she should follow her advise but she should ask to know why he is not. Sometimes, it is better to remain single than force one's self into some marriage because of age.

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Hmmm @ GboyegaD. I was really troubled cos the woman didn't give her any reason but only said to her that the right person will come

bebek:

Am writing this on behalf of my sis who has been longing to
Settle down though having suitors but no sign of seriousness From any of them. Recently a guy showed up, loving n willing to marry her ,then she decided to involve her prophetess to pray along wt her but after The prayer the prophetess said the guy is not the right person for her. She is 33 and ready for marriage and for past 5yrs this guy is the only person that has shown commitment and willingness towards her. What do u advise her to do?

Let her marry the prophetess

dre11: She go soon old for there if nah prophetess advice she go wait for....

Can't she go on her knees and settle all with the LORD
the LORD says young men and women shall see vision and dreams and they would understands it meaning......

Seconded!

@Op tell your sister that I am disappointed that at her age she can not make critical decision that will make or mar her life.

What she should do is to do soul searching about what her life partner will be like. The qualities she would want her soul mate to possess. She should tell her self the truth if she had many options to choose, will she still choose this same person.

If the answer to that is true, then she should go ahead and marry.

She should also note that though age ( by African standard) is not by her side. She should not make her choice base on desperation else she would regret it.

I wish her luck in finding her life partner.

bebek: .

Hmmm @ GboyegaD. I was really troubled cos the woman didn't give her any reason but only said to her that the right person will come

If there is no reason then she shouldn't listen to the prophetess. God isn't a God of confusion.

Has she tried to weigh this guy up to see if they r compatible. I am sorry but if @ 33 ur sis reason lik this then she may ve a spirit hubby already n needs deliverance asap. Nonsense

People still seek prophet/prophetess approval for marriage?