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| A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by liberty24: 5:06pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
A wife is a friend first, a lover second, and third and probably most important, a maid.- How true? |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
liberty24: A wife is a friend first, a lover second, and third and probably most important, a maid.- How true? What do you mean by the bolded? From where did you get this trashy statement from? Doesnt it sound ridiculous to your hearing? 6 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by sapiosexual(f): 6:29pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
liberty24: A wife is a friend first, a lover second, and third and probably most important, a maid.- How true? Such foo.lishness!!! 1 Like |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 6:41pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
liberty24: A wife is a friend first, a lover second, and third and probably most important, a maid.- How true?Wish I had an e- sniper rifle! Would just be sniping people that chat poo like this before they can even complete such sentences! Dunce! Your mother must have first been a friend, a lover second and most importantly a maid! 5 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by apolonius(m): 7:03pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Well,for a mad and irredeemable cretin this is true. For a normal man,a wife is a wife;an equal friend who has decided to live permanently with him in love as he has too. 8 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 7:08pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: Well,for a mad and irredeemable cretin this is true.See why I decided to follow you? If majority that is written on nairaland is like this, it says a lot about our society as Nigerians and frankly it's depressing. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by apolonius(m): 7:13pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Thanks. In Nigeria,the distinction between education and enlightenment is well illustrated.It will take a real miracle of proper enlightenment and exposure to the best of values for very many to get full rehab from the culture of destructive patriarchy that most men have been raised to cherish.  6 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 7:17pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:I should probably start avoiding threads like this. It tarnishes the overall image of Nigerian men. 3 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
And some lady will pretend and marry this one with the hope of "changing" him. Sad. Poster since you asked, No a wife is not "most importantly" a maid. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by apolonius(m): 7:18pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Please read on and see the redemption we need!lol Of course,a good number of Naija men are doing great. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Hahahahahahahahahahaha. I think this person created this thread on purpose o. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: Well,for a mad and irredeemable cretin this is true. Hahahahahaha. The bolded cracked me up. 1 Like |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 7:23pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:Then we need your voices to be louder so we can drown out the cacophony from the likes of op and his ilk. But then again, my good friend Sophie who rocks reckons that he might have started this thread with the intention of riling females. I'm starting to think that she is right. Surely, no one in their right minds like you correctly asked would have such thought. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by apolonius(m): 7:29pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: These threads are emerging as reactions to the audacious feminist rants and chants on here I believe. Talking seriously,though largely unexpressed in fora including this,the very idea being discussed is what very many Naija men believe and look for when thinking of 'I do'.Funnily,a large percentage of women have keyed into same as preparations and criteria-meeting wisdom to finding him. For a long time to come,our society must hear this anthem: men and women are distinct but the same! |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius: Well,for a mad and irredeemable cretin this is true. eh, nicely put. alutacontinua made a good choice. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 7:35pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
apolonius:Amen to that! |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: #blushing# Not sure if the person who started this thread is a male or female though. I am shocked such a person would ask if the above statement is true or not. Its ridiculous!!! |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 7:39pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:If the op is female, then I will dash her to tonychristopher who would validate her beliefs!  2 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: Hahahahahahaha. That dude will so much appreciate her as 2nd wife since he is polygamous in nature and loves his women as Dunce. He is everybody's husband. He loves to sow his wild oats around, spewing his sperm aimlessly all over the place. He's a cheerful giver. 1 Like |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by edwife(f): 8:09pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Chillisauce: |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by edwife(f): 8:20pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
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| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by cococandy(f): 8:58pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
OP chew some groundnut Or take a cold shower |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by baby124: 9:02pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
| Funny thread. Maid indeed. No wonder some men expect women to behave like cattle. What a pity. It tells a lot about a man who can write such and how he regards or treats his mother; that is how he will treat other women. Am sure OP sees his mum as a maid for him to come and write such boldly. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by dominique(f): 10:20pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Why do I have this feeling that op started this thread to rustle some feathers. Mission accomplished |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shizzle11(m): 10:39pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
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| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by tonychristopher: 10:57pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Lol majority of women are dounce when a single lady is dating a married. man what do u call that smartness or stupidity. they make it easier for us |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by shaybebaby(f): 11:08pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
tonychristopher:Like I said, if the stupid one that started this thread is female then she is your type. You are welcome to make each other as miserable as possible! 2 Likes |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
tonychristopher: You see! Shaybebaby and I were right. Hahahahahahaha. Wonderful! |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
shaybebaby: They are perfect for each other. |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by lilmax(m): 11:30pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
I think the op is on drugs |
| Re: A Wife Is A Friend First, A Lover Second, And Most Important, A Maid. How True? by pickabeau1: 11:37pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
https://twitter.com/ssanumy/status/491314979195584513/photo/1 I saw this online.. maybe this is what the op had in mind?  |
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