Sometimes, a girl is scared to get back into a relationship with someone, Not because she's sick and tired of guys or think
they're all the same, But because she's afraid of many things.
*She's afraid of putting herself in a vulnerable position again.
*She's afraid of opening up to
someone new again.
*She's afraid of getting attached to someone again.
*She's afraid of being lied
to and being betrayed again.
*She's afraid of finding out truths and secrets again.
*She's afraid of having
high expectations just to be
disappointed again.
*She's afraid of feeling
jealousy towards someone again.
*She's afraid of her trust
issues acting up again.
*She's afraid of her insecurities overwhelming her again.
*She's afraid of her
mind assuming the worst again.
*She's afraid of her heart
getting broken again.
*Worst of all, she's afraid
of losing someone again
Because everyone she cares
about, seems to eventually
leave her life. True or False?

OP the truth is She's afraid to live her life

Very true @OP

I think the same could be said of a guy too.

Its not abt a particular gender, its both.

Once bitten na 10times shy oo

True, once bitten twice shy

Because she is yet to figure out how she was played and she knows the next guy might be a player.
With this mentality, she chases away the nice ones coming until another player with a sugar in his mouth and a different style come calling and sweep her away again. The circle continues until she starts waiting on God for a miracle. By then the various guys have taken their dues and remain small for the unfortunate dude called the husband

Fear is a sign of weakness and doubt, get rid of it. Fact is Some of us don't succeed with our 1st love... because of lack certain qualities but does that mean we should not love again?? No way. Aquire the qualities, correct the mistake, learn your lesson and try again. There is no need to be afraid at all, people will disapoint you, your heart will break occasionally but it's all part of life! People have had their hearts broken various times yet they still find someone else to love but these time they will let them do a bit more work to to know if they have true feelings or not.

Tallesty1: Fear is a sign of weakness and doubt, get rid of it. Fact is Some of us don't succeed with our 1st love... because of lack certain qualities but does that mean we should not love again?? No way. Aquire the qualities, correct the mistake, learn your lesson and try again. There is no need to be afraid at all, people will disapoint you, your heart will break occasionally but it's all part of life! People have had their hearts broken various times yet they still find someone else to love but these time they will let them do a bit more work to to know if they have true feelings or not.

You said it all

Despite all d fears and doubts that accompanies a hrtbreak. It's almos always inevitable that you fall in love sometime again.. No matter how long it takes...

And until that ''special one'' is found... There'd probably be more heartbreaks...

....... Such is life.!!!

Tallesty1: Fear is a sign of weakness and doubt, get rid of it. Fact is Some of us don't succeed with our 1st love... because of lack certain qualities but does that mean we should not love again?? No way. Aquire the qualities, correct the mistake, learn your lesson and try again. There is no need to be afraid at all, people will disapoint you, your heart will break occasionally but it's all part of life! People have had their hearts broken various times yet they still find someone else to love but these time they will let them do a bit more work to to know if they have true feelings or not.

Spot on..

ITbomb: Because she is yet to figure out how she was played and she knows the next guy might be a player.
With this mentality, she chases away the nice ones coming until another player with a sugar in his mouth and a different style come calling and sweep her away again. The circle continues until she starts waiting on God for a miracle. By then the various guys have taken their dues and remain small for the unfortunate dude called the husband

That's all!

Hope the girl really playe dher part well

and had no hand in the cause of the heart break!!!

I wonder wat its like to have a heartbreak. Hmm mm

MizMyColi: Personally, I can relate with this post, but I'd also like to add that:


There's no FEAR In LOVE and There's no LOVE In Fear

#GoFigure

Very well said dear

thunderrider: Hope the girl really playe dher part well

and had no hand in the cause of the heart break!!!

That's the big question mark lying around whenever issues of such magnitude surface.

dmcdad: I think the same could be said of a guy too.

FÜCKING true

rozzay: I wonder wat its like to have a heartbreak. Hmm mm

it's a FÜCKING awesome feeling

Romance section sons and daughters don dey get sense

Oh, because they are girls)) They are very emotional and they need more time to recover than guys. My frien met girl from Europe in internet couple of years ago they met on facebook or originclub.com and she seemed to be really hot for him, but she called him her BF only one month ago. She said that she wasn't ready to do it earlier.

ITbomb: Because she is yet to figure out how she was played and she knows the next guy might be a player.
With this mentality, she chases away the nice ones coming until another player with a sugar in his mouth and a different style come calling and sweep her away again. The circle continues until she starts waiting on God for a miracle. By then the various guys have taken their dues and remain small for the unfortunate dude called the husband

lol, wikid

That's why it's good to use ya head...sit pretty in the relationship
Anyway I have never experienced any...maybe because I always take the walk first.
Yeayea, once I see the sign, I save the nigg@ the trouble... (not like av ever seen any sign sha...lol)

fuckshit: it's a FÜCKING awesome feeling

. Ooook. Dis ur name eeeh

Hmmm... SIGH!

rozzay: . Ooook. Dis ur name eeeh

I FÜCKING like it

fuckshit: I FÜCKING like it

. Lol nice style tho

OP are you heartbroken?

rozzay: . Lol nice style tho

FÜCKING thanks

priscaoge: Sometimes, a girl is scared to get back into a relationship with someone, Not because she's sick and tired of guys or think
they're all the same, But because she's afraid of many things.
*She's afraid of putting herself in a vulnerable position again.
*She's afraid of opening up to
someone new again.
*She's afraid of getting attached to someone again.
*She's afraid of being lied
to and being betrayed again.
*She's afraid of finding out truths and secrets again.
*She's afraid of having
high expectations just to be
disappointed again.
*She's afraid of feeling
jealousy towards someone again.
*She's afraid of her trust
issues acting up again.
*She's afraid of her insecurities overwhelming her again.
*She's afraid of her
mind assuming the worst again.
*She's afraid of her heart
getting broken again.
*Worst of all, she's afraid
of losing someone again
Because everyone she cares
about, seems to eventually
leave her life. True or False?

but she ain't afraid of spending a guy's money right

priscaoge: Sometimes, a girl is scared to get back into a relationship with someone, Not because she's sick and tired of guys or think
they're all the same, But because she's afraid of many things.
*She's afraid of putting herself in a vulnerable position again.
*She's afraid of opening up to
someone new again.
*She's afraid of getting attached to someone again.
*She's afraid of being lied
to and being betrayed again.
*She's afraid of finding out truths and secrets again.
*She's afraid of having
high expectations just to be
disappointed again.
*She's afraid of feeling
jealousy towards someone again.
*She's afraid of her trust
issues acting up again.
*She's afraid of her insecurities overwhelming her again.
*She's afraid of her
mind assuming the worst again.
*She's afraid of her heart
getting broken again.
*Worst of all, she's afraid
of losing someone again
Because everyone she cares
about, seems to eventually
leave her life. True or False?

Nigerian girls don't fall in love anymore! ...The ones that get heart-broken are the ones who came into the relationship, thinking that the guy will marry them in the end!

uche16:
but she ain't afraid of spending a guy's money right

Yes naaa...dat one dey