...u guys are getting out of hand oo....y is it that u guys always complain and list bad things some girls have done to u and will neva mention abt ur own bad sides too??...y is it always abt girls?...so,u mean guys too don't nag,demand money frm girls,u mean guys too dont do really bad things to their faithful girlfriends??....i ll keep quoting wat a fellow female nairalander has said.....we girls will take u serious if u r serious..n if u r nt d serious one,expect anything from us......

farano:
*hiohiohiohiohio*

zinaLPF:


You have probably been hurt by a female, if so I sympathize. If not, watch that cynicism, it will keep you from finding love and respect.
Truth is the making of this list is itself shallow and ignorant, not to mention hypocritical. Most of the traits on your list cut both ways - men and women both do stupid, self destructive things.

I wish you luck in love!

abbey621:
Can you honestly blame Nigerian women? No I don't think so, they have been spoiled by the society, brainwashed by the media and lost in their own paradise. The real blame is on men, men who encourage such negative behaviors. We keep making women feel like they must depend on us, from recharge cards to monthly allowance, we move from boyfriends to ATM/Fatherly role. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong in spending on your woman once in a while, no there's nothing wrong with it; what's wrong is when it becomes a way of life, when a woman turns into a liability instead of an asset, when she sees herself as a participant instead of a contributor. Before I used to think women were the weaker sex, till I got to this country and saw how women run things, how they can do and undo when given the opportunity. Nigerian women can only be assets when Nigerian men stop acting like mumu.

Xsolutions:
forSpeaking up against MANIPULATION and a BAD ATTITUDE is souless?? ...You NEED to REALLY question YOURSELF in the Light of what is GOOD and what is WRONG!!!

emror4u:
the feeling on that part is mutual

firstEVA:
if you truly love a woman, there will be no point setting unnecessary rules for yourself.

freecocoa:
One bad experience and all girls are the same, smh.

You are only depriving yourself my dear, if you fail, pick up yourself and try again, now this doesn't mean you become a f00l, loving someone doesn't turn you into that, love the right person.

She was loving you 90% and you loved her 10% and when the tables turned, she's the devil? Did you stop for a minute to think about how she must have felt when she was the one taken for granted? Listen my dear, it's trying to play too smart and acting out a script so you don't lose out that makes it harder than it should be.

If someone loves you and you don't love them back, be human and civil enough to tell them the truth and move on, if they happen to fall for you and you think you can feel that way too, then put an effort and make it work, if you both fell for each other, then by all means love yourselves without trying to be the one who doesn't lose out, just do things the way is supposed to be done, simples.

Mettal:
wetin this one mean

firstEVA:
Rigarmortis you sound like a heartless man, no pun intended

freecocoa:
One bad experience and all girls are the same, smh.

You are only depriving yourself my dear, if you fail, pick up yourself and try again, now this doesn't mean you become a f00l, loving someone doesn't turn you into that, love the right person.

She was loving you 90% and you loved her 10% and when the tables turned, she's the devil? Did you stop for a minute to think about how she must have felt when she was the one taken for granted? Listen my dear, it's trying to play too smart and acting out a script so you don't lose out that makes it harder than it should be.

If someone loves you and you don't love them back, be human and civil enough to tell them the truth and move on, if they happen to fall for you and you think you can feel that way too, then put an effort and make it work, if you both fell for each other, then by all means love yourselves without trying to be the one who doesn't lose out, just do things the way is supposed to be done, simples.

Anaskie:
My best thread on Nairaland this month!

Bros abeg tell dem.

Cc.
Urchbarbie
CoColav
Cupidora

rigarmortis:



why don't you tell me how its supposed to be done...my "dear"?....all is fair in love and war, I found out its more fun when nothing is promised, when you are spontaneous, when she knows your call might be the last one she will get from you, when she knows the kiss she is getting might be the last one goodbye.....she kisses you more passionately, look, I am not saying its right or wrong but that's just the way it is, there is no morality in these matters.

commitment tends to make the thing monotonous and dull, stay above the fray and they will be falling over themselves to impress you while you feign nonchalance.

that aside, this post is for educational purposes only, no heart was broken, before or during the writing of the original post.

rigarmortis:



this wasn't borne out of heartbrokenness, but the need to educate, and mind you my cynical nature has gotten me into many a p*nt.

...u guys are getting out of hand oo....y is it that u guys always complain and list bad things some girls have done to u and will neva mention abt ur own bad sides too??...y is it always abt girls?...so,u mean guys too don't nag,demand money frm girls,u mean guys too dont do really bad things to their faithful girlfriends??....i ll keep quoting wat a fellow female nairalander has said.....we girls will take u serious if u r serious..n if u r nt d serious one,expect anything from us......

freecocoa:
One bad experience and all girls are the same, smh.

You are only depriving yourself my dear, if you fail, pick up yourself and try again, now this doesn't mean you become a f00l, loving someone doesn't turn you into that, love the right person.

She was loving you 90% and you loved her 10% and when the tables turned, she's the devil? Did you stop for a minute to think about how she must have felt when she was the one taken for granted? Listen my dear, it's trying to play too smart and acting out a script so you don't lose out that makes it harder than it should be.

If someone loves you and you don't love them back, be human and civil enough to tell them the truth and move on, if they happen to fall for you and you think you can feel that way too, then put an effort and make it work, if you both fell for each other, then by all means love yourselves without trying to be the one who doesn't lose out, just do things the way is supposed to be done, simples.

freecocoa:
Really? No heart was broken? You are only lying to yourself my dear.

I honestly don't want to go back and forth since you say it's for educational purpose, just don't go about spreading falsehood, don't tell men not to commit because your girlfriend broke your heart, this isn't about morality please, somethings just can't be debated, it is what it is.

emror4u:
what if am human and civil enough to tell her, and she still fails to see reasons with me.... When the inevitable happens, will i still be held accountable?. Am asking from experiece

rigarmortis:


I dont know how the post translates to being heartbroken, are you trying to sell me the pill?

freecocoa:
My dear please don't sleep with a woman that wants more than what you can give, just to save yourself the drama, she might say that she is up to just having sex, she may actually be but that's usually rare so to avoid unnecessary headache, don't get intimate.

urchbarbie:
I don see dis thread pass cox I no concern me . Anakie? Bet yyyyyy?

rigarmortis:



why don't you tell me how its supposed to be done...my "dear"?....all is fair in love and war, I found out its more fun when nothing is promised, when you are spontaneous, when she knows your call might be the last one she will get from you, when she knows the kiss she is getting might be the last one goodbye.....she kisses you more passionately, look, I am not saying its right or wrong but that's just the way it is, there is no morality in these matters.

commitment tends to make the thing monotonous and dull, stay above the fray and they will be falling over themselves to impress you while you feign nonchalance.

that aside, this post is for educational purposes only, no heart was broken, before or during the writing of the original post.

farano:
laugh

...u guys are getting out of hand oo....y is it that u guys always complain and list bad things some girls have done to u and will neva mention abt ur own bad sides too??...y is it always abt girls?...so,u mean guys too don't nag,demand money frm girls,u mean guys too dont do really bad things to their faithful girlfriends??....i ll keep quoting wat a fellow female nairalander has said.....we girls will take u serious if u r serious..n if u r nt d serious one,expect anything from us......