Hey y’all, I held a party yesterday and I was kind of taken aback when it occurred to me that 70% of my friends were male and married. I was a bit self conscious because everyone was like, girl why now? I met some of them before they got married and they remained my close friends even after marriage.

So ladies, lets have it. Is it same with you are is it just me? Guys can also comment. And what do you think about it??

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Yes most of my male friends are all married or in long term relationships. In fact only one is still unmarried and i dont think that he will ever get married.

favored09:

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And you had to post this here  

sistawoman:

Yes most of my male friends are all married or in long term relationships. In fact only one is still unmarried and i don't think that he will ever get married.

Yes but you are married aint you I'm not.

about 90% of my friends r male

and about 90% of them r either married or in commintted relationships

many of them i hav knwn long befor, a few of them i even dated myself. . .

i think these kinds of friendships hav strongest bonds as there is so much history behind it

the joke now is that everyone has a plan to marry me off

Ujujoan:

Yes but you are married aint you I'm not.

Yes i am now but not before June.

HR.hotness:

about 90% of my friends r male

and about 90% of them r either married or in commintted relationships

many of them i hav knwn long befor, a few of them i even dated myself. . .  

i think these kinds of friendships hav strongest bonds as there is so much history behind it

the joke now is that everyone has a plan to marry me off  

90% of your friends are male??
It seems most sisters prefer hanging out with the geezers.
Is it because some women can be spiteful n bitchy?

~Sauron~:

90% of your friends are male??
It seems most sisters prefer hanging out with the geezers.
Is it because some women can be spiteful n bitchy?

Not really, its a matter of Choice and chance. I have more opportunities to meet men that women. so . .

HR.hotness:

about 90% of my friends r male

and about 90% of them r either married or in commintted relationships

many of them i hav knwn long befor, a few of them i even dated myself. . .

i think these kinds of friendships hav strongest bonds as there is so much history behind it

the joke now is that everyone has a plan to marry me off

LMAO!!!

Thats true oh. Tell me, do they also come up with this " I'm going to intoduce you to my good friend, you'll like him a lot" stuff

~Sauron~:

90% of your friends are male??
It seems most sisters prefer hanging out with the geezers.
Is it because some women can be spiteful n bitchy?

in some ways. . . yeah! extra emphasis on spiteful!
plus i cant handle all d hating and he-said-she-said business. . .
my boys get me

Ujujoan:

LMAO!!!

Thats true oh. Tell me, do they also come up with this " I'm going to intoduce you to my good friend, you'll like him a lot" stuff

More like, " I Know d perfect guy for u!"

u need to go to your village n appease the juju, cos ur tym is ticking!
JUST KIDDING!

HR.hotness:


in some ways. . . yeah! extra emphasis on spiteful!
plus i can't handle all d hating and he-said-she-said business. . . my boys get me


More like, " I Know d perfect guy for u!"

Girl I know a lot of guys who aint got s**t on girls when it comes to gossiping.

Yes ladies can be petty and spiteful, but thats not my reason for not having them as friends.

walttt:

u need to go to your village n appease the juju, because ur time is ticking!
JUST KIDDING!

You had better!!

@poster

How old are you??/

Then that guy that requires Waec,i dont know their email but their headquarters is in Ogba bus stop,very easy to locate.you wan collect your GCE certificate or thinking of enrolling one because they just concluded it and i believe result is out

You had better!!

but come to think of it, u kinda sound despr8 to hook up, how old r u?!

ifihearam:

@poster

How old are you??/

Then that guy that requires Waec,i don't know their email but their headquarters is in Ogba bus stop,very easy to locate.you wan collect your GCE certificate or thinking of enrolling one because they just concluded it and i believe result is out

Early twenties and I'm hooked . Just not 'official' yet.

Ujujoan:

Girl I know a lot of guys who aint got s**t on girls when it comes to gossiping.

Yes ladies can be petty and spiteful, but thats not my reason for not having them as friends.

Its not really the gossiping but the back-talking. . . i mean, if summin is eatin u, spit it out and quit with the unnecessary drama!

It does not sound too healthy to me single male friends for a single lady sounds a little bit better to ME.

Ujujoan:

Not really, its a matter of Choice and chance. I have more opportunities to meet men that women. so . .

Meet more men than women??
Do u work as a manager of a football team?

HR.hotness:

in some ways. . .  yeah! extra emphasis on spiteful!
plus i can't handle all d hating and he-said-she-said business. . .  
my boys get me  

So u agree women can be spiteful and bitchy?? PRICELESS.
No more question for this witness.

Having married male folks all around you isn’t the best option for a single girl; I mean why not concentrate on a relationship that would lead to marriage? You should also bear in mind that you might get married one day so how would you feel if single girls begin to hand around your husband?

If you notice a guy is married, then please for God’s sake forget about him.

HR.hotness:

Its not really the gossiping but the back-talking. . . i mean, if summin is eatin u, spit it out and quit with the unnecessary drama!

walttt:

but come to think of it, u kind of sound despr8 to hook up, how old r u?!

Hey, I'm the moderator of this thread and I say, no quarelling!!!

So you guys should stop looking for my trouble oh. What's desperate and darmatic in my post now

Ujujoan:

Hey, I'm the moderator of this thread and I say, no quarelling!!!

So you guys should stop looking for my trouble oh. What's desperate and darmatic in my post now

sorry love, wasnt referin to u. .

i simply meant some girls should just say whats on their minds rather than all d drama. . .  i tend to talk in d first person sometimes when i'm discussing issues. . . no quarrels here   

ifyalways:

It does not sound too healthy to me single male friends for a single lady sounds a little bit better to ME.

That sounds better singles will have more choice to choose than married male friends because you will hope till thy kingdom come at the end of the day they will all go back from where they come from. Although mostof them are well matured

crazykid:

Having married male folks all around you isn’t the best option for a single girl; I mean why not concentrate on a relationship that would lead to marriage? You should also bear in mind that you might get married one day so how would you feel if single girls begin to hand around your husband?

If you notice a guy is married, then please for God’s sake forget about him.

I am in a r/ship that could lead to marriage and I'm not talking of dating them. These are my friends. . just friends!!!

crazykid:

Having married male folks all around you isn’t the best option for a single girl; I mean why not concentrate on a relationship that would lead to marriage? You should also bear in mind that you might get married one day so how would you feel if single girls begin to hand around your husband?

If you notice a guy is married, then please for God’s sake forget about him.

My sentiments exactly.
did the male friends come to the party with their wives?No i guess
what wud the wives say if they had found their hubbies with you,partying?lol
Dont you think you might be portraying to the outside world a pic of being a Mistress?
i can understand if my hubby introduces a married lady as a friend but a single lady hmmmn

Friendships should be about sharing mutual interests and just having fun and shdnt hav an ulterior motive. .  .  so whether with single or marrid men should be irrelevant!

All friendships shd be treated d same way, regardless of whether with males or females. . . . why does the issue of relationships always come into it? it is possible to be just friends with a guy u knw?

Ujujoan:

I am in a r/ship that could lead to marriage and I'm not talking of dating them. These are my friends. . just friends!!!

No one but you knows what your intentions are.
am married and i sure know,i wont find it funny if my hubby goes to one single gals party without me
well,if you really dont care about what ppl might think and say,fine and good.

I understand the poster but just be a little care and know where to draw the line because the guys who is interested in you might not see it as just casual friends. You know men think in pictures

@poster
Early twenties and I'm hooked   . Just not 'official' yet

Well all thesame be very careful because the guy might be suspecting a foul play,if i were in his shoes,i think i would stop u from seeing them,if i truly love you cha

ifyalways:

No one but you knows what your intentions are.
am married and i sure know,i wont find it funny if my hubby goes to one single gals party without me
well,if you really don't care about what people might think and say,fine and good.

This is where trust comes into play.  I know my hubby and he knows me.  If he cheats he is out the door.  So if thought so little of our union to sleep w/someone else then so be it.

What is done in the dark will always come to light.  I dont think Ujujoan is going out and seeking married men to be friends with, i think what she is saying is most of her male friends have all gotten married over the years.

She is not sleeping with them so that should be one example right there of how a single woman can be friends with a married man.  i wish my husband would try to tell me i cant be friends with my single male friends.  Please.  I would not step over the boundries and dictate his friends to him and I would hope that he would never try such with me.  We trust each other to honor our vows.

If you trust your spouse i dont see what it matters.  The bitch could walk about butter ball naked and spin on a poll if he is not going to cheat he is not going to cheat.

sistawoman:

This is where trust comes into play. I know my hubby and he knows me. If he cheats he is out the door. So if thought so little of our union to sleep w/someone else then so be it.

What is done in the dark will always come to light. I don't think Ujujoan is going out and seeking married men to be friends with, i think what she is saying is most of her male friends have all gotten married over the years.

She is not sleeping with them so that should be one example right there of how a single woman can be friends with a married man. i wish my husband would try to tell me i can't be friends with my single male friends. Please. I would not step over the boundries and dictate his friends to him and I would hope that he would never try such with me. We trust each other to honor our vows.

If you trust your spouse i don't see what it matters. The bitch could walk about butter ball naked and spin on a poll if he is not going to cheat he is not going to cheat.

lady, i trust my hubby
i never said i would dictate who he should keep as friends.
I only said "i wont find it funny if he goes to single . . . ." lets not spoil this thread abeg.If we want to talk about trust in marriage,a new thread would be better.thanks.

ifyalways:

lady, i trust my hubby
i never said i would dictate who he should keep as friends.
I only said "i wont find it funny if he goes to single . . . ." :-\ lets not spoil this thread abeg.If we want to talk about trust in marriage,a new thread would be better.thanks.

i guess my point is could care less.  I really wouldnt get bothered by that.  I have no need to stand by his side and stake my ground when is around single people. 

Just stating my thoughts.  We can just agree to disagree?  I see if from a different point of view.  Maybe you can share yours with me and we can better understand each other.

OP
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