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What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 1:50pm On Jul 25, 2014
I wonder why people seem to advise people in trouble better than they will advise themselves if faced with similar situation.

For instance, when you go over to the family section, you will quickly see many unmarried people with zero marriage experience waxing lyrical over the things happening in marriages.

In the romance section, you will read posts and shake your head to each sentence of immaturity that inundate it.

The Religious section needs no hiding. A place where supposed to be the seat of decorum and manners yet people come there to score a "touché" (win arguments) over another instead of winning souls for God. People slandering other denominations is the bane. etc etc.

Why does in:

Relationships; different relationship tips fly around yet too many relationship problems here and there.

Marriage; different marriage councillors on the loose yet divorce cases aplenty.

Religion: (from a christian angle): different lovers of God but yet nobody want to keep his commandment summarised in Love of God and love of man. Instead of modifying their behaviour and acting right as Jesus taught, they say that Jesus has done everything for them and this explains the very many vices in this world.

What is wrong with us??
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by fuckshit: 2:55pm On Jul 25, 2014
What's FÜCKING wrong with us? grin grin
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jul 25, 2014
It happens outside NL too, people just love not minding their biz and forming silly opinions about other people's lives people they have never met before.

ITK is whats wrong with them though.
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by daveP(m): 4:50pm On Jul 25, 2014
The feeling of 'wanting to belong' to feel a few mins of pomp and fame.to garner relevance,and showcase intelligence above others we equally claim as ignorant. undecided
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 8:46pm On Jul 25, 2014
fuckshit: What's FÜCKING wrong with us? grin grin

This man's radar has located this innocent thread.

shocked
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 8:57pm On Jul 25, 2014
daveP: The feeling of 'wanting to belong' to feel a few mins of pomp and fame.to garner relevance,and showcase intelligence above others we equally claim as ignorant. undecided

It's pitiable
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 8:58pm On Jul 25, 2014
IfyAngela: It happens outside NL too, people just love not minding their biz and forming silly opinions about other people's lives people they have never met before.

ITK is whats wrong with them though.

Exactly
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by daveP(m): 12:20am On Jul 26, 2014
jnrbayano:

It's pitiable
lipsrsealed
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by daveP(m): 12:21am On Jul 26, 2014
Attitude,the bad one...
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by fuckshit: 11:15am On Jul 26, 2014
jnrbayano:

This man's radar has located this innocent thread.

shocked
FÜCK!!! No FÜCKING problem. This thread is still FÜCKING innocent grin grin
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 10:31am On Aug 11, 2014
fuckshit: FÜCK!!! No FÜCKING problem. This thread is still FÜCKING innocent grin grin

The "f" word is your food, I have seen.

smiley
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by cococandy(f): 9:49pm On Sep 02, 2014
jnrbayano: I wonder why people seem to advise people in trouble better than they will advise themselves if faced with similar situation.

it's natural. When you're the one in a situation,emotions may not allow you make a rational decision. It's always better for advice to come a neutral person.

For instance, when you go over to the family section, you will quickly see many unmarried people with zero marriage experience waxing lyrical over the things happening in marriages.

every marriage is different.that one is married isn't a proof that they are qualified to advise others. And that one is unmarried doesn't mean they can't offer insight into marital affairs. Marriages are families. Everyone belongs to one family or the other. So invariably,each person has had experiences relating to family issues.
Marriage in itself isn't a ceritificate of wisdom. So singles can have opinions about marriage issues. If they are making sense,why not listen?


In the romance section, you will read posts and shake your head to each sentence of immaturity that inundate it.

we are all learning.

The Religious section needs no hiding. A place where supposed to be the seat of decorum and manners yet people come there to score a "touché" (win arguments) over another instead of winning souls for God. People slandering other denominations is the bane. etc etc.

I concur. Everyone needs to respect others' beliefs. Atheists and believers alike.


Why does in:

Relationships; different relationship tips fly around yet too many relationship problems here and there.

Marriage; different marriage councillors on the loose yet divorce cases aplenty.

Religion: (from a christian angle): different lovers of God but yet nobody want to keep his commandment summarised in Love of God and love of man. Instead of modifying their behaviour and acting right as Jesus taught, they say that Jesus has done everything for them and this explains the very many vices in this world.

What is wrong with us??

becase at some level,we are all hypocrites who don't practise what they preach!

Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by cocoberry(f): 9:46am On Oct 01, 2014
That is a typical Nigerian for u!
Re: What's Wrong With Us?? by jnrbayano(m): 11:31am On Oct 01, 2014
cocoberry: That is a typical Nigerian for u!



I swear!

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