This is a true life story...
Not from/about a friend, a brother or a classmate but about myself and my life.

There is this girl(a Nairalander) I love with everything within, outside and around me. We are from the same State but different Local Government Area. I and her elder sister attended the same school. I met her during the December vacation of 2010/2011 academic session. After much persuasion, persistence and with the help of my good friend who was close to her, she granted me audience. We talked and became casual friends thereafter.
Febuary 2011, I proposed but her reaction though pre-assumed did not go well with me. As a man, i gathered courage and launched yet but another failed attempt same month. March same year saw hat-trick of proposal turned down again. My senior on detecting my mood inquired to know what's up. Wholeheartedly, I told him everything. Contrary to what I assumed would be his reaction he laughed and said, 'kid bro, in life good things comes in a challenging way and don't try to prove a point that to be a man is a day's job'. I agreed within me to make a final attempt. I did, this time 'please talk something else' was the reply. Was that really my final attempt? NO! I called daily for six more months telling her that same old story and receiveing that same old feedback.
October 2011, I found my joy. Anytime my phone beeped, I smiled because she was always the one. My life was never the same again. It was then I confirmed that patience though bitter comes with a sweet fruit. Sincerely, I was uplifted physically, morally, emotionally, academically and health-wise. My life was never the same.
Unfortunately, what I have been seeing in Nollywood movies happened in September 2012. Without any quarrel or attempted quarrel, things fell apart. Though it torn me apart, I remained focused. I considered it a battle I must win or die trying. Why? Because I couldn't imagine myself telling another person other than Mm...n YES I DO in the altar when it's time.
I fought with all available means to refix my ever-valued relationship. People were insulted along the way. I can still remember I kept a very good friend at arm's length for telling me that 'while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available'. I only forgave him in April 2013 when we(I and my Precious) found out that we were made for each other.
Life was worth living again but recently(last week to be precise), I sensed something better imagined than experience may happen. She doesn't call nor text again. I can observe a slight deviation from the way we used to speak on phone. Our latest 2go conversation ended this way:
Latino: Precious, I love u passionately
Mm..n: thanks but i don't have time for love matter now.

I sincerely love her, this she knows. Since our first meeting in 2010, no matter how intelligent, good-looking, nice, caring, loving etc a girl is, my inner man always tell me 'Yours is 100% better'.


Nairaland n Nairalanders, I strongly believe ur kind words, advice and encouragement can save my relationship. She is one of us(an active nairalander). She will certainly see/read this, Please let her see reasons to leave the part-time friends stuff and embrace reality.

Please LET IT BE BECAUSE OF U, LET IT NOT BE BECAUSE OF U.
Let it be because of u my joy is complete.
Let it not be because of u it move from bad to worst.

I believe in the power of your words even as I remain focus in the words of an English author Alan Alexander Milne, 'Rivers know this: there is no hurry, we shall get there some day'

Thanks my fellow ever-caring Nairalanders...

Brb

Chai... Love is sweet ooo

Dude, u can drag a horse to the water, but u can't force it to drink water.

From ur story, u are the one forcing urself on this gal, she really aint into u. The luv seems one-sided. Stop actin like a pu**y who is beggin for luv. Move on, not every r/ship is meant to work.

#seems u just entered that hell place all guys hate

<< FRIENDZONE>>

Okay..
From: Logodwhiz

To: The Nairalander in question

Cc: latino2swt

The above thread topic matter refers.

I saw a thread on Nairaland from a Nairalander called latini2swt, asking us to tell u how much he loves u.

Well, from what the guy has said, he truly loves u despite all your forming, and d hard challenges u deliberately or indelibrately gave him. He was able to overcome it and prove that he loves u. It will be hard for you to find someone like him..

U might be undergoing a hard time, or u feel the relationship is boring maybe he is too soft and he make things go your way. In respect to the former, u have to let him in on it, tell him about it, a problem half shared is half solved. In respect to the latter, u have to set your priorities straight, this guy truly loves u, u may be thinking he is a sisi, but its all for d good. Tell him and make him see things.. I believe u two are good for each other..

Since I don't really know much about the relationship, so I am making this comment based on what I saw and also from similar experiences.. I sincerely wish u resolve this issue quickly and be back together..

Thanks in anticipation for listening to my advice and resolving the issue.. Thanks..

Yours faithfully

Logodwhiz

Ceasar1: The End?

Lol.
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tell us her moniker

LogoDWhiz:
Lol.
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Vote Of Thanks.

Okay. Still though, special thanks to ‘Love’ for making this story possible and to the ‘Girl’ for her continues rejectance. Also special thanks goes to the ‘OP’ for falling for the wrong girl and also to NL and Seuun for providing the platform.

*Drops Mic *

FIN.

Bro be a man love is not one sided. In my father's word my son never u beg for LOVE

aaawww....dos words were just too sweet....babe,pls wereva u r ...try n reconsider our broda....or if u think d relatnship might b headn for d stone,try n make im understnd d reason y u cant b togeda........am evryone will b happy

kids scattered all over NL

If u been don already knack am
no worry too much
she go come back to base one day

LogoDWhiz: Okay..
From: Logodwhiz

To: The Nairalander in question

Cc: latino2swt

The above thread topic matter refers.

I saw a thread on Nairaland from a Nairalander called latini2swt, asking us to tell u how much he loves u

Well, from what the guy has said, he truly loves u despite the forming, and d hard challenges u deliberately or indelibrately gave me, he was able to overcome it and prove that he loves u. It will be hard for you to find someone like him..

U might be undergoing a hard time, or u feel the relationship is boring maybe he is too soft and he make things go your way, in respect to the former, u have to let him in on it, tell him about it, a problem half shared is half solved. In respect to the former, u have to set your priorities straight, this guy truly loves u, u may be thinking he is a sisi, but its all for d good. Tell him and make him see things.. I believe u two are good for each other..

Since I don't really know much about the relationship, so I am making this comment based on what I saw and similar experiences.. I sincerely wish u resolve this issue quickly and be back together..

Thanks in anticipation for listening to my advice and resolving the issue.. Thanks..

Yours faithfully

Logodwhiz

what more can i say than to say thank u... Thanks 4 being part of my soon-to-be success story.

Ceasar1:

special thanks goes to the ‘OP’ for falling for the wrong girl

for a wrong girl? U'l make a good reader, counselor n special adviser so to say. Thanks boss

mascot87: kids scattered all over NL

kpam! Kids everywia... Kids dat don't knw d reasons 4 existence of Nairaland nor d benefit of being a Nairalander... Lol

talk2cj08: Bro be a man love is not one sided. In my father's word my son never u beg for LOVE

hmmmm... Begging is out of it. One sided? Nope... She does but to let it out is a p.

temigracie: aaawww....dos words were just too sweet....babe,pls wereva u r ...try n reconsider our broda....or if u think d relatnship might b headn for d stone,try n make im understnd d reason y u cant b togeda........am evryone will b happy

thanks 4 ur concern.
Prayerfully, d storm wil b over. I'm hers

Ab025: Dude, u can drag a horse to the water, but u can't force it to drink water.

From ur story, u are the one forcing urself on this gal, she really aint into u. The luv seems one-sided. Move on, not every r/ship is meant to work.

#seems u just entered that hell place all guys hate

<< FRIENDZONE>>

but d funny fact is why i've made up my mind 2 live in d hell...

Proverbs 30:18-19

@Op, how heavy is your wallet?



Let's start from there.

drops pot of palm oil rice from the fire.

Op, u are forcing urself on her. Whether she is here or not i will still tell you the truth. Give a break of one month or two. If things doesnt work out then u people are not meant for each other.

ur whinnying because of one girl
na food
have got girls spinning outta my ear
send me a pm and get one for free

Decibel: Brb

make u do come back ooo. Hahahaha

op, ur gal is fvcking another dude's deeek real hard. I go always tell u true.

You do hattrick of propose? U no dey shame? Na only she be woman? Make i tell you something, i left my girlfriend, very beautiful girl with correct yansh wey people dey die for. Why? She think say if she no dey i go die.
For where? I dump her before she know. Now na another chick i dey with. Up till today my babe no believe her eyes.

Make u stop to dey disgrace men jor. Do the right thing. U don try, take break small. If she no miss you, then find your way.

mencade5: make u do come back ooo. Hahahaha

op, ur gal is fvcking another dude's deeek real hard. I go always tell u true.

You do hattrick of propose? U no dey shame? Na only she be woman? Make i tell you something, i left my girlfriend, very beautiful girl with correct yansh wey people dey die for. Why? She think say if she no dey i go die.
For where? I dump her before she know. Now na another chick i dey with. Up till today my babe no believe her eyes.

Make u stop to dey disgrace men jor. Do the right thing. U don try, take break small. If she no miss you, then find your way.

Quit.......honest advise. She will only pity u. Not love u.

Am nt matured enough to reply to this, so am out...

Bbl

valdes00: Am nt matured enough to reply to this, so am out...

U finished urself by urself

runzlord:
U finished urself by urself

Well, dats ur opinion... Oya clap 4 ya self

latino2swt: while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available

I don't know why but this got me laughing real hard
Maybe cos i got a very close friend who is always on like this

KiV!
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#Mencade5 has spoken


*In search of rigarmortis *