latino2swt:

what more can i say than to say thank u... Thanks 4 being part of my soon-to-be success story.

mezebel: i am the gal he is talking about! I don't love him cos he has a chronic mouth and armpit odour . And he has no kobo in his pocket. Tell him to leave me alone o!

RedBenson:

Mzmariah, hope u reading this thread? Btw, where is cdamsel. Been long i saw her. Cdamsel, pls i didnt have ur no. again o. If not, i would have called u.

@op, u are arrested by love just as am going same over one nairalander. She knows herself.

Ishilove:
This guy seems pusssy whipped.

latino2swt: March same year saw hat-trick of proposal turned down again.

mascot87: kids scattered all over NL

MzMariah: Hian, which nairalander? This thread haf tae.

latino2swt: This is a true life story...
Not from/about a friend, a brother or a classmate but about myself and my life.

There is this girl(a Nairalander) I love with everything within, outside and around me. We are from the same State but different Local Government Area. I and her elder sister attended the same school. I met her during the December vacation of 2010/2011 academic session. After much persuasion, persistence and with the help of my good friend who was close to her, she granted me audience. We talked and became casual friends thereafter.
Febuary 2011, I proposed but her reaction though pre-assumed did not go well with me. As a man, i gathered courage and launched yet but another failed attempt same month. March same year saw hat-trick of proposal turned down again. My senior on detecting my mood inquired to know what's up. Wholeheartedly, I told him everything. Contrary to what I assumed would be his reaction he laughed and said, 'kid bro, in life good things comes in a challenging way and don't try to prove a point that to be a man is a day's job'. I agreed within me to make a final attempt. I did, this time 'please talk something else' was the reply. Was that really my final attempt? NO! I called daily for six more months telling her that same old story and receiveing that same old feedback.
October 2011, I found my joy. Anytime my phone beeped, I smiled because she was always the one. My life was never the same again. It was then I confirmed that patience though bitter comes with a sweet fruit. Sincerely, I was uplifted physically, morally, emotionally, academically and health-wise. My life was never the same.
Unfortunately, what I have been seeing in Nollywood movies happened in September 2012. Without any quarrel or attempted quarrel, things fell apart. Though it torn me apart, I remained focused. I considered it a battle I must win or die trying. Why? Because I couldn't imagine myself telling another person other than Mm...n YES I DO in the altar when it's time.
I fought with all available means to refix my ever-valued relationship. People were insulted along the way. I can still remember I kept a very good friend at arm's length for telling me that 'while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available'. I only forgave him in April 2013 when we(I and my Precious) found out that we were made for each other.
Life was worth living again but recently(last week to be precise), I sensed something better imagined than experience may happen. She doesn't call nor text again. I can observe a slight deviation from the way we used to speak on phone. Our latest 2go conversation ended this way:
Latino: Precious, I love u passionately
Mm..n: thanks but i don't have time for love matter now.

I sincerely love her, this she knows. Since our first meeting in 2010, no matter how intelligent, good-looking, nice, caring, loving etc a girl is, my inner man always tell me 'Yours is 100% better'.


Nairaland n Nairalanders, I strongly believe ur kind words, advice and encouragement can save my relationship. She is one of us(an active nairalander). She will certainly see/read this, Please let her see reasons to leave the part-time friends stuff and embrace reality.

Please LET IT BE BECAUSE OF U, LET IT NOT BE BECAUSE OF U.
Let it be because of u my joy is complete.
Let it not be because of u it move from bad to worst.

I believe in the power of your words even as I remain focus in the words of an English author Alan Alexander Milne, 'Rivers know this: there is no hurry, we shall get there some day'

Thanks my fellow ever-caring Nairalanders...

mascot87: kids scattered all over NL

jennylove7575: U and dis girl wahala too long sef. Please try another relationship am available. Provided u are handsome tall and rich.

mencade5: make u do come back ooo. Hahahaha

op, ur gal is fvcking another dude's deeek real hard. I go always tell u true.

You do hattrick of propose? U no dey shame? Na only she be woman? Make i tell you something, i left my girlfriend, very beautiful girl with correct yansh wey people dey die for. Why? She think say if she no dey i go die.
For where? I dump her before she know. Now na another chick i dey with. Up till today my babe no believe her eyes.

Make u stop to dey disgrace men jor. Do the right thing. U don try, take break small. If she no miss you, then find your way.

latino2swt:

but d funny fact is why i've made up my mind 2 live in d hell...

Proverbs 30:18-19

RedBenson:

Oh, u still here? Thought u were already on gear 7 paddling ur sleep. The thread never tay naw.

jennylove7575: U and dis girl wahala too long sef. Please try another relationship am available. Provided u are handsome tall and rich.

MzMariah: You don advice op so? I just wan put me and Miztola pic for my diary after which I go enter gear 20.

myguy01: Just passing by........
Wait o, y do gals luv snubbing guys especially wen dey r still young? My broda, just 4gt abt d gal n move on. I bet by d tym she's 29 n still searching, she'll come bac begging den u can av ur swit revenge
Just an advice tho

RedBenson:

U don put the pix make i rush (like say i dey Russia) go look?

MzMariah: Just one on that derailers thread and j go comot am uin the next 5 min, our face dey show.

DonaldGenes:
Like seriously, Prayer just to........Fornicate?

RedBenson:

Even a small child with the sharpiest sightedness no fit see that pix well left alone an old man like me wey don pass 25yrs. U fit send better one to the other side?

ebamma: If u been don already knack am
no worry too much
she go come back to base one day