Giel:
@gidjah
I don't understand how an introvert tells another introvert to get over his introverted nature

or did I miss the point?

Apus:




pls don't make me laff... he made it sound like its some kind of disease ... where my cane dey sef.

gidjah:
nope, I didn't make it sound that way , save you have troubles with comprehension. I am an introvert my self, but the more one grows, the better such a one gets over some character traits of an introvert.if the way you display your temperament while you were 18 years old is the same way your introverted ways still shows when you are 25, then it means you didnt grow, you are also socially deficient! so it also means your matter is quite complex and requires a cane too. so check your self, your age if you haven't grown out of some introverted nature lately, then you really should go get checked up . I Have grown out of some intorveted attitudes lately and that has helped strengthened few people around me,I noticed people need to be happy been around me and not sad because I tend to wanna be snobbish, but I also have drawn out sometimes for myself when I need to withdraw and get back my strength, how does that go with touch sir?

gidjah:
nope, I didn't make it sound that way , save you have troubles with comprehension. I am an introvert my self, but the more one grows, the better such a one gets over some character traits of an introvert.if the way you display your temperament while you were 18 years old is the same way your introverted ways still shows when you are 25, then it means you didnt grow, you are also socially deficient! so it also means your matter is quite complex and requires a cane too. so check your self, your age if you haven't grown out of some introverted nature lately, then you really should go get checked up . I Have grown out of some intorveted attitudes lately and that has helped strengthened few people around me,I noticed people need to be happy been around me and not sad because I tend to wanna be snobbish, but I also have drawn out sometimes for myself when I need to withdraw and get back my strength, how does that go with touch sir?

Giel:


Don't be angry,

in my opinion, you're not coming off well, especially when you keep harping on outgrowing some introvert behaviour, (I think this is the bone of contention)
maybe your reasons are good but maybe it's not being properly explained and also your choice of words, especially when you say things like "outgrow" an introvert behaviour,
I think this is what is causing confusion,
let's not fight

again, if I am misunderstanding you. if I'm missing the point let me know,

Akposb:
A pure introvert cannot survive in the world no matter how quiet things may be. As an introvert, you learn to modify as I won't want to use the word 'outgrow'. I hope issues will not drag on @Apus, Giel.

gidjah:
so sorry please, thank u for the various corrections .

Giel:


so who is dragging issues

I made just one comment and gidjàh explained, I took the explanation and didn't say anything else on the issue,
He then seemed annoyed at àpus comment and I just wanted to explain why àpus may not be ok with his comment and also plead with him not to be offended since I myself was also confused before he (gidjah) explained to me

Making a total of 2 comments so far on this issue so how am I "dragging" issues

furthermore if I don't understand, I can always ask more questions, ,

so what do you mean by dragging issues?

gidjah:
sorry sis, don't want you to get angry please, we all learn every day don't we ?

Giel:


I'm not angry with you i don't have any issue with you
the person I quoted is whom I'm referring to.

gidjah:
it's ok sis, have a stress free day .

Akposb:
Giel, sorry for using the word 'dragging'.

Olarewajub:
This place is just too dull, looks like we don't have much introvert here on Nairaland.

realtem:
Hey guys.
Nice work you've been doing gidjah, whether introvert or extrovert, we have to leave our comfort zone at certain times to be better people.

iamnlia:


True but due to some being more introverted than others the "self exposure" thing can be exhausting. For example, I know that I need to make more friends and talk to more people and all that stuff but after sometime the whole thing becomes outright annoying and I just get somewhat angry at people for staying in the same room with me.

realtem:
Very true, it's not like i find it easy talking to people for too long. Infact, i love being alone But being social is a skill that could really be useful depending on the profession one chooses and the way one chooses to live his life.

During the last long christmas hols, i was alone in the house for weeks playing dh5, watching anime, eating and sleep.My only friends at that period were my guildmates in dh5
People where kinda like being sympathetic to me that i was stuck alone at home but they had no idea how i was enjoying it.
Now, i'm longing for that moment again.
I can't wait for next christmas

iamnlia:


Lol, there was a time I once stayed at home like that and totally enjoyed it. People didn't see me for months, my mates thought I had dropped out. From August last year to January I only went out to buy food and credit at night.

Sometimes when you communicate with some guys, they'll tell you they thought you were arrogant, proud, gay or wierd.

realtem:
Hey guys.
Nice work you've been doing gidjah, whether introvert or extrovert, we have to leave our comfort zone at certain times to be better people.

iamnlia:


Lol, there was a time I once stayed at home like that and totally enjoyed it. People didn't see me for months, my mates thought I had dropped out. From August last year to January I only went out to buy food and credit at night.

Sometimes when you communicate with some guys, they'll tell you they thought you were arrogant, proud, gay or wierd.

Apus:




ur matter tire me... u even had to write a long comprehension.
I still insist u lack understanding of what introversion is And can never grow out of it. It's either u weren't introverted in the first place, or have learned to "act" more extroverted when the situation demands it

Apus:




ur matter tire me... u even had to write a long comprehension.
I still insist u lack understanding of what introversion is And can never grow out of it. It's either u weren't introverted in the first place, or have learned to "act" more extroverted when the situation demands it

coveredchic:

No, I absolutely don't agree with you. With increasing age and maturity, you tend to be better able to handle some introvert traits like shyness around people. When I was younger, my shyness was crippling, but with age and of course working on myself, i can address anybody or group of persons now. Take this from someone who is over 90% introverted.

coveredchic:

No, I absolutely don't agree with you. With increasing age and maturity, you tend to be better able to handle some introvert traits like shyness around people. When I was younger, my shyness was crippling, but with age and of course working on myself, i can address anybody or group of persons now. Take this from someone who is over 90% introverted.

gidjah:
thanks sis, that's one of the points I was trying to make(though I might not have nailed it home as much better than u did).May u be well covered by HIM AND HIM ALONE .