Ladies and gents I came across this question on a friend's blog and I have been pondering on it. My fiance already has a house in fct and works there but am working in another state but plan to transfer to fct after our marriage. And my fiancé's house is closer to our offices. Now should I move in with her or rent another house when we get married and I finally get my transfer . Inputs and suggestions pls

dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$

LOL ... You must be a Typical Nigeria ... I thought we are following western world now ... #Crapaholics #Hypocites #ConfusedSouls ... Please don't tell that to a white man ... Their LOVE for themselves might result in 'them putting a big hole in ur very small brain

stormybucci: dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$

No its not wrong but it musnt be for long cos she will use dat against u later on

I see no issue here at all. Move to FCT as planned and into your fiancee's apartment for your own convenience. If the rent as at when you'll move in is almost due, pay the next rent. Isn't she your wife?

It largely depends on the way your fiancée would interprete it. Some women might see you as miserly, saying you don't wanna spend your money. Also, her father might frown at it. Well, Guy na you sabi your woman. If she will give you drama over a small issue like this, please don't move in with her. Go rent another place.

There is nothing wrong in moving in with your fiancee because she isn't just any lady. All you need to do as a man is to support her by footing most of the bills and not wait for her to pay 'em. It's not about what people think but what makes the two of you happy.

iamSi: LOL ... You must be a Typical Nigeria ... I thought we are following western world now ... #Crapaholics #Hypocites #ConfusedSouls ... Please don't tell that to a white man ... Their LOVE for themselves might result in 'them putting a big hole in ur very small brain

d last tym i checked, there's a big difference btw d whites nd blacks

If you are paying the next rent, there is no issue there.

Tnx ya all for the suggestions , more opinions are still welcome

And please re-check you'll know we are on the same page ... But somethings won't just let u see thru

stormybucci: d last tym i checked, there's a big difference btw d whites nd blacks

Yeye dey smell.She never send you packing before?

Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust.
Amos 3:3 says..... Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
If u cant reason (agree) together, u cant live (walk) together.

Exponental: Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust.
Amos 3:3 says..... Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
If u cant reason (agree) together, u cant live (walk) together.

End of story!

iamSi: And please re-check you'll know we are on the same page ... But somethings won't just let u see thru

yea i get it nw... Na "readographical" error cause am b4

Exponental: Let no pride fool u. Move in and take over d bills. Accomodation is not easy in any city in Nigeria. Adjust.
Amos 3:3 says..... Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
If u cant reason (agree) together, u cant live (walk) together.

EOD!

AND THIS IS WHERE WE COME TO THE END OF THE THREAD! THANK U ALL

You the best bro ... E ba mi so fun Boy yen ki o tepa mose owo e gidi gan ni ooo

stormybucci: yea i get it nw... Na "readographical" error cause am b4

iamSi: You the best bro ... E ba mi so fun Boy yen ki o tepa mose owo e gidi gan ni ooo

i tire 4 d people wae dae give d guy funny advice, even 1 dae quote bible passage 4 d guy..... let me make my last comment "guy don't be a real man by staying in ur wife's apartment nd footing d bills or rent, be a real man by renting ur own apartment nd foot d bills.. asap!!

GBAM !!! ... Let the thread be closed ...

stormybucci: i tire 4 d people wae dae give d guy funny advice, even 1 dae quote bible passage 4 d guy..... let me make my last comment "guy don't be a real man by staying in ur wife's apartment nd footing d bills or rent, be a real man by renting ur own apartment nd foot d bills.. asap!!

stormybucci: dats crappp!!!! back ur ego up with every means possible.even if ur wife own a duplex , try 2 get a apartment 4 urself nd dis would make her respect u more(believe me) nd i anybody come here 2 say it's nt bad, may amadioha chop d persons a$$

I wonder the types of women we have in Nigeria... So if a man stays with his wife in the house he built she wouldn't love nd respect him again?.

buy a house for a woman, give her brand new car, take her shopping to dubai and france.

When her madness come up she will shock you with this question.

''what have you done for me?''

biiitches everywhere.

My brother no enter that house ooo. She go use am control you tire.

I don go.

tommysparks: Ladies and gents I came across this question on a friend's blog and I have been pondering on it. My fiance already has a house in fct and works there but am working in another state but plan to transfer to fct after our marriage. And my fiancé's house is closer to our offices. Now should I move in with her or rent another house when we get married and I finally get my transfer . Inputs and suggestions pls

move in with her.

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Guy, if na bacha, rent and let her move in with you.

The dignity of a man rest in his interpretation of circumstances.

Misinterpret this one, you go HouseboyBucci yourself

passionate88: I wonder the types of women we have in Nigeria... So if a man stays with his wife in the house he built she wouldn't love nd respect him again?.

d respect would be more

just start paying the rent na

whats the ish again

The main thing is the rent. The responsibility should be yours now.

Move into the house with a bigger space...
You shouldn't expect her to leave her spacious room/house to a an uncomfortable place. If you must rent nother place make sure it is better than her house if not humble yourself and move into her house...

Men and unnecessary Ego

Dygeasy: I see no issue here at all. Move to FCT as planned and into your fiancee's apartment for your own convenience. If the rent as at when you'll move in is almost due, pay the next rent. Isn't she your wife?

Thank Ɣ☺ΰ...u just said my mind ooo