This is a serious question for both the MATURED Singles and Married people. What's the biggest fear the secretly crops you as a married person.

Was having the discussion with some few friends at a colleague marriage engagement over the weekend after the MC made a statement. Below are some of the fears people secretly nurse in their hearts.

* A cheating partner

* Childless Marriage

* Financially Struggling Home

* Nosy Partner

* Totally Dependent Inlaws

* Emotionally And Physical Bully

* Perpetual Liar

* Lazy Partner

* Unspiritual Partner amongst others.

You all should please share yours (MATURE COMMENTS ONLY).








Mine will be a cheating partner and not capable of giving my family the standard of living I work hard and crave for.





NOTE: This topic is ONLY for people from 25years and above.

Wrong partner

Fear of not being the best wife
Fear of hubby changing from the honey-sugar I married

marrying the wrong man....marryins someone who doesnt love me and my kids....aldo,i knw noone s perfect..i dont expect a perfect man...but i blive God will perfect all our imperfections....

Fear of marrying the wrong person.

Na wa oh! Na so so fear of marrying the wrong person. Can we be more specific in what areas of the being wrong will hurt us the most?

It has to be the fear of marrying the wrong person.
Fear of him changing
Not being the father he should be to the kids
Fear of the unknown
[quote author=acidtalk]
* Nosy Unless??

amieesuccess: It has to be the fear of marrying the wrong person.

Corrected.

No fears, if the kitchen is too hot for you, leave the damn kitchen. Marriage is not by force neither is it a do or die affair.

fear of we getting tired of our union after the romance dies down..fear of not being able to stand each other after a long time of marriage..fear of domestic violence......

INFIDELITY

beeevan: No fears, if the kitchen is too hot for you, leave the damn kitchen. Marriage is not by force neither is it a do or die affair.

Common. What happened to our parent's generation where they believed and practiced the "for for better for worse" and stuck to their partners irrespective of their shortcomings. Not forgetting they were less spiritually going folks like we have today.

Isn't it obvious that we have more hipocrites today than ever.

People should be careful of what they're afraid of, most of the things that scare us often befall us.
All we have to fear is fear itself

AdeniyiA: People should be careful of what they're afraid of, most of the things that scare us often befall us.
All we have to fear is fear itself

No matter how we try to pretend, we all have fears.

Fear of Perfection.

^^^Touching.

Fear that he will lose his stamina in the bedroom

Fear of loosing my freedom&ctrl over my life.

OmoAlata1: Fear that he will lose his stamina in the bedroom

Chineke!!!
Are you for real?

acidtalk:

Chineke!!!
Are you for real?

Yes

All of the above

Fear of financial struggle

Falling totally for the wrong person. And having to wake up everyday to see that face staring at me.

Not up to the age but would contibute anyways. 1)Infidelity 2)Losing my freedom

dahmie2013: Fear of loosing my freedom&ctrl over my life.

Exactly. I share the same sentiments.

Fear of Three minutes husband

I also have the fear of been stuck to the wrong person. Mehn, thats sickening. Gosh, its a life sentence. To death maybe! Thats why im trying soooo hard as not to allow that happen. I can't sentence myself to that kind of life. I am enjoying my singlehood and my marriage must not be the opposite. The rest of my years before i leave this earth must not be spent miserably. Never!! God will help us all. Marriage no be beans.

OmoAlata1: Fear that he will lose his stamina in the bedroom

Omo alata indeed .
Big time olosho

Fear of a ruined body from child bearing
Some women never go back to how they were before pregnancy.
I PRAY I won't be one of them.

And stubborn kids who won't let me have a nap in peace.

cococandy: Fear of a ruined body from child bearing
Some women never go back to how they were before pregnancy.
I PRAY I won't be one of them.

And stubborn kids who won't let me have a nap in peace.

@bolded is not negotiable from 0-5 years esp When I want a nap their daddy takes them out.If you are not settling fight you have to explain "why' a million times.

@post Loss of my spouse at a young age maybe.I try to be an optimist and deal with situations as they arise.

NONE OF THE ABOVE AND SOME CHANGE!
I hold the 4 ACES to my life. . . not ANY MAN or ANY CHILD!
As single or married. . .I FEAR NOTHING.
I was born alone. . .and will die alone.

Fear is for cowards.
Soldier go. . .soldier come. . .BARACK NOR DEY H-EMPTY.
No one is indispensable!
If you want a man or a child that bad. . .USE YOUR MONEY TO BUY SOME!
SHAKARA DON H-END. . . !


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