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|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by agaba123(m): 6:23pm On Oct 14, 2008|
water is good.
Is it the difference between eba and garri?
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Tgirl4real(f): 6:56pm On Oct 14, 2008|
So u sabi snoop. . . Dat was meant for MissyB and not u . . . Lol
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by agaba123(m): 8:11pm On Oct 14, 2008|
I no be snoop canine, how I go snoop.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Ceeno E vu: 8:49pm On Oct 14, 2008|
ordinarily I don't think I need to respond to this thread but some of the responses here dey fear me plenty o. I hope all the young men that have been bashing the girl really know what consitutes molestation, especially when you step out of Nigeria. Even if the woman slept in your bed/house overnight and allowed you to smooch even when you were both Unclad, it can still be considered that you Molested her if she can prove that she asked you to stop and you refused.
The most gruesome thing I ever heard was the case of a young man that caned a girl (in UK). When the girl was ready to leave, he asked for another round and the girl refused. He eventually went ahead to force her and of course he went to jail for molestation. This was after the court was convinced that they already Were Intimate before the round in dispute.
Of course the poster is absolutely silly, but I just hope you guys won't allow people like these to mess up your life with their stupidity. This is especially important if you are outside your own country.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by RuuDie(m): 11:42pm On Oct 14, 2008|
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Sabuni: 11:52pm On Oct 14, 2008|
Ceeno E vu:
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by TOYOSI20(f): 11:55pm On Oct 14, 2008|
Ceeno E vu:
Best response ever.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by r_o_b_b_y(m): 11:55pm On Oct 14, 2008|
My sister, you have been f**Ked and you just have to accept the fact that you will be F**ked again as long as the f**ker(boyfriend) and the f**kee(you) agree that what happened the first time was a f**k. That is if u continue the relationship.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by stillwater: 12:05am On Oct 15, 2008|
If he truly Molested you, meet the necessary authorities to deal with him (desperately hoping you are not in Nigeria). Rapists should never be condoned.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by affee(f): 12:07am On Oct 15, 2008|
Ceeno E vu:Bless your soul
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by cold(m): 12:08am On Oct 15, 2008|
I think we're on the same page here.Almost ran in2 trouble ova the weeknd when one drunk white chick was pleadin profusely that i shld taq her home wit me.Of course i declined because i knew she was under the influence.What wld happen in the mornin wen she bcomes sober,i cld be cld b sued for molestation.Ordniraliy in Naija i wld hav wasted no tym.Oh i how i miss home!!
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Sabuni: 12:09am On Oct 15, 2008|
You have said it o
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Moyola(f): 12:13am On Oct 15, 2008|
God save yu o!!
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by yomi123nl(m): 12:14am On Oct 15, 2008|
Eeya, sorry sis.
LESSON- someone who doesn't like smoke should not get close to a burning bush.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by savanaha: 12:21am On Oct 15, 2008|
I agree. I am sorry for agreeing as I am female but I hate women that claim molestation because of the gray molestation clause. This crap happens alot with College students. Real molestation victims are very embarrassed and affected by it and will not call their Molester boyfriend. Maybe ex-boyfriend.
The poster did things that had consequences, by laying in a bed with a guy she did not want to Be Intimate, getting well grouped by him and then surprised that he pushed forcefully enough for sex until he got it. By the way all the grouping and tongue kissing while laying in bed is considered pre-intimacy and maybe you turned him on enough that he had to get it from you somehow and force was that some how.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Wessommy(m): 12:24am On Oct 15, 2008|
He didnt molestation u
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Sabuni: 12:26am On Oct 15, 2008|
Wessommy:What did he do then?
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by chamotex(m): 2:52am On Oct 15, 2008|
Sometimes, 'NO' means 'YES'
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by stillwater: 3:24am On Oct 15, 2008|
No is No!!! Stop using that line to justify molestation!!!
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by rickky421(m): 3:59am On Oct 15, 2008|
Oh it is molestation alright. She just put herself in a bad position. I think she even knows that, and is kicking herself for letting this happen.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Joseph6(m): 4:12am On Oct 15, 2008|
cheerylips:i dont see where the problem is here, she let her guard down and i know by now she's probably on cloud99 wit dis guy. question is y? y complain the obo that is if she was a virgin b4 is not complaining na
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by olaremint(m): 4:37am On Oct 15, 2008|
@ poster,molestation is unlawful intimate contact between unconsenting adults,kissing,handling and the rest of them if unsolicited means intimate harrasment,while there must be penetration of the womanliness by the joystick to establish molestation.That being said, how do you prove it, was there any struggle between you both,physical marks, bruises, tearing of clothes nad other violent acts, lady search yourself because simply lying on the bed and saying, stop,stop, may not be molestation,i know you are hurt, you trusted this person to be alone with himto be on the same bed but he was pretending all along,looking for the perfect oppurtunity to strike.try and get over this dont see him for sometime until you can sort out your feelings for him and decide whats best for you, remember he cannot be trusted na dhe can well do it again, this time beyond your imaginations, all the best.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by Moyola(f): 6:17am On Oct 15, 2008|
yeah! unda sekshun.149 intimate Offences Act 1900!!!
is nut a mata of using 'no' 2 juztify molestation,
letz phaze it,
some gyals aktuali say
'no, no' but act 'yea yea'
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by cyrusdevir(m): 10:25am On Oct 15, 2008|
the poster show go and grow up, if u don't need a BF don't go for one.
Maybe u r de one dat did the molestation and saying the reverse b/c people will support u( what girls do most of the time, what a flat mentality)
he was turned on and u weren't ( swear with ur life u weren't turned on 2 or didn't wet like hell)
u don't need sex and u were kissing him , kissing is likely to lead into sex u might not know,
Dear my advice is u should know what u want in life and stop pretending. Tanx
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by farotika(m): 10:45am On Oct 15, 2008|
The case be4 us is a very simple one. From my observations, most girls say "no" when they actually mean "yes" and any guy who does not take the clue and do the needful will be termed "EGBE" or "SUEGBE".
The guy did not molestation u but only gave u what u wanted , oh no, what u needed!
Guys, when next you're with a girl alone (for the first time) on your bed and after the whole fissy fussy, if she refuses to let u log on; do more of the pre-intimacy, pretend as if you're angry and leave her alone in the bedroom. Believe me, she will beg you to come back and dig the hole.
They need it more than we do.[s][/s]
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by smooooooth: 10:50am On Oct 15, 2008|
you dont want sex, but u lying in his arms, kissing,touching, licking, swallowing, blowjobbing, haba! if you dont want sex, you shld have done what joseph did in portiphers house. RUN, RUN, RUN!!
your boyfriend no be firewood u know, and as far as i am concerned you helped ignite his feelings, and guys when they are turned on, can molestation even themselves. and belive me the touching got to you too, cos to be frank its not easy Molesting a girl who ''really'' does not wanna play. and another option you shld have shouted, i mean he got neighbours.someone wld have come rescue you.
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by agaba123(m): 11:59am On Oct 15, 2008|
Just last week, we were sleeping in each other's arms and he woke up and starting touching me. i don't mind him touching but its just the sex i don't want for now.
Touching which i am sure includes touching the kitten and bosom is a intimate act. If you want touching without attendant penetration, do it yourself, but if you want it from a man, you will be wicked to deny him access cos he will be raring to go.
We kissed and he got soooo truned onThis means that you were turned on by the touching. You enjoyed it and you sure wanted more and the tuy gave it to you. Why let him get that far if you do not want sex.
Let just say you wanted to delay sex with him till you understand him more and you are feeling bad that you failed. Now you wanna shift the blame to him.
tell us here you never wanted to Bleep him.
Forget about what you wanted and stop blaming the guy cos you led him on.
Do not forget he is not wood. haba
Man no be wood
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by whitelexi(m): 12:11pm On Oct 15, 2008|
I dont know about naija but in UK, as soon as she says "NO", u best stop, even if the tip of your kini was just about to enter the opening, freeze like jordin sparks, and retreat for international obidinma. It doesn't matter if it was practically or automatically or emotionally, just hold your body, get up, dress up and pick your things sharp sharp, and avoid that particular girl for the rest of your life!
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by j.chaguri: 12:20pm On Oct 15, 2008|
dat guy no molestation the babe joh,she did not fight it,i know gals who will cross their legs,no matter what u do u no go enter,if a girl does not want,nothing wen you go do unless u dey beat her,so you are lying
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by EFOSA VAL(f): 12:29pm On Oct 15, 2008|
why do i think u have done this b4
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by origina9ja(f): 1:10pm On Oct 15, 2008|
dis is molestation
peepz saying it nt molestation
bt dey did not agree
WHY CNT MOST GUY CONTROL DEM SELF
|Re: Boyfriend Molests Girlfriend by r_o_b_b_y(m): 1:24pm On Oct 15, 2008|
we can't control ourselves because our girlfriend is under the covers with us allowing us to handle and kiss her and when the thing is as strong as a rock, we try to enter and she says no while chuckling. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
should i go on?
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