On on a serious note, is it easier for a girl to find a dream husband or for a guy to find a dream wife? Experienced folks in the house, let's hear you.

hmmmmm none of dem r easy.

Nothing comes easy this I know.

Lacomus: Nothing comes easy this I know.

Nothing GOOD comes easy

phabulous88:

Nothing GOOD comes easy

heheheh u no de carry eye see something ?

Both are searching for either which is not easy.

A good wife is harder to find nowadays

Just when u think u ve found the right girl, they often show u their true colours..

'nothing good comes easy'.....says who?? What sort of mentality is that? One may require patience in waiting..there's a price to pay for every good thing

Neither only exist in your imagination. Albeit, you can only be either in reality.

Only God is Good

Good wife is harder

Both are equally hard

Husband

Siddon there. You go tire. Na your dream you wan marry?

teeo:

No joor it's the dream wife.
she's always in my dream but finding her in real life is the problem.

Even finding a dream is hard.

Anything that has dream attached to it is difficult to find...
Dream husband, dream wife, dream shoe, dream car, dream house, dream team, dream size etc..
They are only real in dreams but cannever be so in reality.

Its easy to fine a woman cos dre are so many women looking for husband but so difficult for a woman to fine a man for marriage

None could b found in dreams...mayb when u wake-up and walk down d street

Hmmm... I dnt dream, kinda hard to imagine wat u guys feel... But anyway, anyting worth avin is worth waiting for

C'mon... Not again.

This issue has been on the fore time and time again. The idea that males/females are more deserving of the crown as ready-made "wife or husband materials" is one subject that would continue to spring up a debate whenever one is favoured above the other.

IMHO, I would assert that, as of the days of yore, women were by a long margin more prepared, more primed, more ready in terms of total disposition to marriage, more complete in values and/or family attributes. And at such period, and even stretched to the days of old, men have always been less of husbands materials (as used in the context) than their female counterparts.

The question that lingers at the fore at this present age is; can same be said of the women having more of "wife-materials" than the men having more of "husband-materials"? IMO, No! Same cannot be said of women any longer. You know why? Because they are seemingly competing head-to-head with the men. Need I remind someone that being a wife-material or husband material entails alot of values and attributes? How many people have values they believe in? Core values that they would die for! There are good girls everywhere, and so also good guys. But if you ask me, barring a factor like unfaithfulness which seems more common with men than women albeit women are as much as men in the unfaithful ladder these days, I would say taking a whole lot of things into consideration that men are more of husbands materials than women being wife-materials.

This is just my opinion, and I would gladly back it up if need be with an outline for comparing men and women with their values, attributes and traits.

Yet, it should ne noted that, issues like this can never lay to rest. In other words, it can never be said or agreed that one is easier to find than the other. The society will always be divided whenever issues like this surfaces as it's relative to a very large extent and it depends on a number of factors like geographical locations, religion, race, culture and so on.

So make we no drag. Just believe what you want to believe. But speaking for myself? I am a PERFECT epitome of a husband-material. Take it or leave it.

Peace.

teeo:

No joor it's the dream wife.
she's always in my dream but finding her in real life is the problem.

You think that, cos you are a man....Same goes for women.

Both are easy to find.

jennylove7575: Good wife is harder

Noted




anyway.......... its both ways, but as mah quoted threadmate said..... find a good woman no be beans ooooo

glitest: Husband

mind set of a lady


have stop dreaming about any woman because i know that when i wake up, what i see in the dream are expectations of what the woman should be......... but the real world have never being like and i can't use that dream as a yard-stick to judge the real world

dre11:

mind set of a lady


have stop dreaming about any woman because i know that when i wake up, what i see in the dream are expectations of what the woman should be......... but the real world have never being like and i can't use that dream as a yard-stick to judge the real world

I can't agure with that.

glitest:

I can't agure with that.

hehe
so, all i have is just an idea woman.......
And not a dream woman

dre11:


hehe
so, all i have is just an idea woman.......
And not a dream woman

Hmmm!....Yes...That is very true.

glitest:

Hmmm!....Yes...That is very true.

and aw is ur day pretty
hope i didn't take ur mind of the post ur about to comment on

dre11:




and aw is ur day pretty
hope i didn't take ur mind of the post ur about to comment on

SMH...Nope!!....Not at all.
My day's been great so far; thanks for asking.....yours?.

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