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Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 4:35am On Jul 30, 2014 |
you guys must have encountered those girls that will refuse to lamba cause they feel vaginity makes them marriage worthy, and then in your mind you'll be like "watin dey do this one, if you like virgin, if you like virvodka i no fit marry you lailai" whats my point ask guys what their dream girl is you'll be hearing: beauty ukwu Bobby intelligence versatile intresting caring can cook and clean dress sense has her own job ......... the fact is that a guy will have made up his mind say 80% before he gets close enough to know your virginity status. this is the order, a guy likes what he see, he listens to you and likes how your mind works, he starts making up his mind...it could be, make i chop this mumu babe clean mouth, or this girl try small make i consider am, or damn! where have you been all my life? at this stage d issue of virginity never come sef. that guy that has been feeling you wont change his mind because someone else logged in before him. nobody is strict on the virginity aspect , there are even lots of guys (like me) that will say no to deflowering a chick, the pain and the bleed doesnt will kill the mood. what's my point? ladies ,singles, single ladies, stop marketing a single product that the consumers dont really care about, be attractive, make better hairs, wear better outfit, better make up, read read read ,let your mind grow, talk cool , booby and ukwu enlargement (i dey joke o) be more intresting than nairaland, be independent...the list is endless . i decided to add this since the comments shows people misunderstand what the message is. some one just commented that "A lot of men would rather a virgin spouse 20 times over one who has lost hers". ask 10 guys a pretty disflowered girl or an ugly virgin, which appeals more to you? the respose will proove to you the looks matter more than the hymen. virginity is no up there amongt the major attributes oo. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by mstik(f): 4:46am On Jul 30, 2014 |
So, Op, you see women as sex objects whose main goal in life should be to look good for men and at the same time, be interesting and smart enough to please them intellectually and also not to deny them of good sex in the name of being a virgin ? na so 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 5:40am On Jul 30, 2014 |
mstik: So, Op, you see women as sex objects whose main goal in life should be to look good for men and at the same time, be interesting and smart enough to please them intellectually and also not to deny them of good sex in the name of being a virgin ? i wont apologize to you for being a realist and not an idealist, thats the reality, relation the opposite sex is very important to us and it dominates our thoughts. the sexes are obsessed about each other. there now ho you talk about your "main goal" in life and totally ignore the opposite sex. i didnt say u shouldn't be a virgin. i was talking about priorities, an unsealed punnany doesn't value as much as the other attributes i talked about.... is that a lie? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by sCross: 5:58am On Jul 30, 2014 |
If a lady remains a virgin due to choice and not lack of opportunity, i consider it a commendable feat. Yes, being a virgin doesn't guarantee a happy home but it is a step in the right direction. And Ofcourse being a virgin doesn't guarantee she'd make a good wife. Research has shown that People who can delay gratification tend to do better than those who don't. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by tracyfemmmm: 6:05am On Jul 30, 2014 |
You are mostly right in all the thing u have said.There are certainly more important things than virginity.however we should not belittle the merits and advantages of waiting till marriage.It is a special gift and a virtue that we should encourage. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by ShirelleBaby: 6:08am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 6:13am On Jul 30, 2014 |
ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special ohabi oooo,same here too 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by pasqal09: 6:29am On Jul 30, 2014 |
ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh temigracie: abi oooo,same here too 9 Likes
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Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 6:36am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by KingTom(m): 6:41am On Jul 30, 2014 |
ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Tymax(m): 6:59am On Jul 30, 2014 |
temigracie: abi oooo,same here too |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 7:00am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Tymax:....lol....abeg,talk oooo |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by ShirelleBaby: 7:03am On Jul 30, 2014 |
KingTom:y are u opening ur mouth na? |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Danielotuya(m): 7:04am On Jul 30, 2014 |
This OP sat up at abt 4.35am, probably after a frustrating night with a virgin who refused him d kpekus all thru 9t and decided to get back @ all virgins. Pls oh,if u are still a virgin bleep wat dis frustrated nigga is saying, i am nt saying wait til marriage bt at least if u wanna lose it, lose it to somebdy u can look back and say i dnt regret it was u 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Tymax(m): 7:10am On Jul 30, 2014 |
temigracie: ....lol....abeg,talk ooooIf I talk, hmmmm OP virginity is special everywhere in the world. Let's not down play its value. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 7:12am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Tymax:hmmmm,u must speak ur mind ooo... .....first tym am seeing a guy who feels virginity is special..... |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 7:13am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Danielotuya: This OP sat up at abt 4.35am, probably after a frustrating night with a virgin who refused him d kpekus all thru 9t and decided to get back @ all virgins. Pls oh,if u are still a virgin bleep wat dis frustrated nigga is saying, i am nt saying wait til marriage bt at least if u wanna lose it, lose it to somebdy u can look back and say i dnt regret it was u very funny iv been denied by a virgin before, its no biggie. keep your virginity oo, im not against it o. my point is there are other more important attributes. if you've cleared all that and your virginity is important to you, good for you 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by mumu9gerian: 7:16am On Jul 30, 2014 |
temigracie: hmmmm,u must speak ur mind ooo...are u serious? is it that bad? Virginity is special o,hw come we have gone so so bad |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 7:22am On Jul 30, 2014 |
mumu9gerian:yeah,sure.....naija guys feel its like a barrier to d sexual relatnship with girls...dey feel it will create some kind of spiritual bond btw dem..so,dey dont like it |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 7:23am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: Ladies, virginity makes you special. ride on pastor!!! i don find people trouble today. ladies if una like make una dey answer this kind people. your viginity no be decider, i repeat no be decider!! i dey tell una, make una go rebrand. currect guy go wait for you if you make sense all rounder no be your hymen be d decider! |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by mumu9gerian: 7:25am On Jul 30, 2014 |
temigracie: yeah,sure.....naija guys feel its like a barrier to d sexual relatnship with girls...dey feel it will create some kind of spiritual bond btw dem..so,dey dont like itwell i think u should use most rather than guys in general and @op viginity is special and girls,ladies more qualities added to being a virgin is awesome |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 7:28am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Tymax(m): 7:31am On Jul 30, 2014 |
temigracie: hmmmm,u must speak ur mind ooo... temigracie: .....first tym am seeing a guy who feels virginity is special.....Actually, many Naija guys want to marry virgins. OP is just offering us another angle to it. Virginity doesn't denote moral purity exclusively. A virgin does not make a good wife just because, but she lends a sense of marital fidelity to her home. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 7:43am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: as i said virginity is not a decider i can also say being intelligence which is a very good attribute is also not a decider. i dont see intelligent girl feeling they are the best candidate for marriage because they have brains. but your virgin friends dey carry am for head like gala. and intelligence sef is more important than the hymen. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 7:55am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by Nobody: 8:03am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Naija don spoil finish SMH 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by daryoor(m): 8:05am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Nonso23: u dey ask me dey emphasize. it has nothing to do with intelligence, absolutely nothing. make we do i.q for viginity till marriage vs premarital deflowered. |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by korres00(m): 8:12am On Jul 30, 2014 |
I don't really wish 2 marry a virgin jare, their social life is not too good some how and I seriously hate a boring relationship not to talk of marriage..... Being a virgin is great, but work seriously on urslf esp social life cos over religious, anti social, ugly gals are the virgin one dis days...excepts those omo-get-inside who lacks opportunity to explore.... If u social, jovial and caring, u win any mans heart... 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by MizMyColi(f): 8:22am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Oh, Okay. I was here *Disclaimer* This post is in no way intended to put down the importance of Abstinence and Total purity. As a matter of fact, if I were to come to this world in another skin and personhood, I will never downplay the importance of abstinence. I am a core believer in positive moral values and principles, people who know me well know that, I rarely, if ever, compromise. That said: I think I know where the OP is coming from even though his choice and mannerisms imho, do not convey his message properly. Speaking from a lady’s point of view, I do not condemn nor ill-wish those who have kept their What I’m against is the attendant self-righteousness and subtle high handedness usually associated with people in this category. Ladies, Please know this: Virgin or Not, “You are not a finished good”. Virgin or Not, Your sense of self-worth should not diminish One Bit! Virgin or Not, There are people out there who see you for the queen and rarity that you are. Virgin or Not, You can have a married life that is one of sheer bliss, fidelity and mutual respect. Virgin or Not, doesn’t Define you, for you are an extremely capable, limitless, and infinite being. Virgin or Not, You are special and uniquely you, Do not give anyone the chance you make you feel less. #NuffSaid 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by MizMyColi(f): 8:25am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Tymax:100 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by iHustle(m): 8:28am On Jul 30, 2014 |
I will never marry a non-virgin! Never! No virgin, no party. I can't deal with the mental torture of knowing that other men have ravaged my wife. I just can't. A virgin who kept her virginity because of the fear of God and respect for her future husband should be greatly praised. Such a woman will not be inclined to cheat on her husband Every woman should be with the man that disvirgined her (except she was a raped). That's how it's supposed to be. You cannot be giving leftover to other men. A covenant takes place when a lady loses her virginity to a man. Marrying a woman that has giving out something so special to another man is a complete NO NO for me. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Virginity Doesnt Make You Special by UjSizzle(f): 8:30am On Jul 30, 2014 |
All things being equal, it sure as hell gives you an edge 4 Likes |
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