mstik: So, Op, you see women as sex objects whose main goal in life should be to look good for men and at the same time, be interesting and smart enough to please them intellectually and also not to deny them of good sex in the name of being a virgin ?
na so

ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh

ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh

temigracie: abi oooo,same here too

ShirelleBaby: Hehehehehehehehehehe-my own makes me special oh

temigracie: abi oooo,same here too

Tymax:

KingTom:

temigracie: ....lol....abeg,talk oooo

Tymax:
If I talk, hmmmm








OP virginity is special everywhere in the world. Let's not down play its value.

Danielotuya: This OP sat up at abt 4.35am, probably after a frustrating night with a virgin who refused him d kpekus all thru 9t and decided to get back @ all virgins. Pls oh,if u are still a virgin bleep wat dis frustrated nigga is saying, i am nt saying wait til marriage bt at least if u wanna lose it, lose it to somebdy u can look back and say i dnt regret it was u

temigracie: hmmmm,u must speak ur mind ooo...




.....first tym am seeing a guy who feels virginity is special.....

mumu9gerian:
are u serious?
is it that bad?
Virginity is special o,hw come we have gone so so bad

Nonso23: Ladies, virginity makes you special.
It shows you:

Are disciplined

Have strong moral principles

Have the ability to see a tough decision through

Are not influenced by peer pressure

Can move against the general notion of the crowd

Are properly trained by your parents

Understand that the safest way to avoid STDs, abortions and unwanted pregnancies is Abstinence.

Are a rare gem.

You wouldn't have anything to hide like "a dirty past" when you finally choose to get married.

Will command respect from your future spouse.

Most importantly, you are a great mother in the making.

But also try as much as possible to develop yourselves in other areas of your lives in order to become to most sought after wife package. These sex-starved men do not care about you or your life in anyway. Their aim is just to 'lamba' you and move on. Thankfully, there are prostitutes to help them cure their pent up sexual frustration. Let them seek these sex workers out and fulfill their erotic fantasies . Refuse to be any man's plaything. Most importantly , don't mind that lie that you wouldn't get married early if you choose the abstinence route. You only wouldn't get married to thoughtless, unreasonable, selfish sex starved monsters and that's a good thing.

BTW, A lot of men would rather a virgin spouse 20 times over one who has lost hers. This is still Africa. Virginity is still considered a 'virtue' and should remain so because indirectly it is.

temigracie: yeah,sure.....naija guys feel its like a barrier to d sexual relatnship with girls...dey feel it will create some kind of spiritual bond btw dem..so,dey dont like it

temigracie: hmmmm,u must speak ur mind ooo...

temigracie: .....first tym am seeing a guy who feels virginity is special.....

Nonso23:



Of course virginity is not a decider.
There are a lot of prostitutes that have big ukwu, can cook, have huge breasts, can take care of a home, etc

Get married to one of them and I'll take you seriously.

After all virginity is NOT decider.

Nonso23:

And I say 'prove it by jumping the broom with a homely prostitute'

Most Virgins are not proud nor haughty. Only men used to having their way with women of easy virtue would say this.
BTW, don't you think someone smart enough to have made the decision to remain chaste could also be classified as intelligent??

And I recall clearly where I asked them to develop other aspects of themselves in my first post.

Tymax:




Actually, many Naija guys want to marry virgins. OP is just offering us another angle to it. Virginity doesn't denote moral purity exclusively. A virgin does not make a good wife just because, but she lends a sense of marital fidelity to her home.

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