and just married for 3months in marriage. But then I wonder, how long will I have to cope with that? SUGGESTIONS PLZ

Bear with him. He seem to be new to the game. As in,he is a sex-novice.

As much as possible,help in everyway when you people are having sex. Don't just lie on the bed like a log of dead wood. Suggest different sex styles and patiently help him adapt to them. It may take time and patience,but I tell you it's worth much more that losing your marriage because of the temptation to cheat.

Where is ITbomb? He can give better suggestions.




By the way,I think this thread should be moved to the Family section.

Choi!!

Could that be his flaw? I mean his inability to last longer in bed

Wen a guy demand for more sex ladies will complain if he is a one minute man dey will complain ladies pls wat do u want Women and sex if a guy has more sexual expirience dey will complain & if he a novice dey will talk God wat creature is dis (women)

Well, buy enof best sellers movies (adult version) & watch 2geda wit him....

buy moringa tea or advice him to start taking bitter kola & alomo bitters.

*Tnk me leta*

Danhumprey: Bear with him. He seem to be new to the game. As in,he is a sex-novice.

As much as possible,help in everyway when you people are having sex. Don't just lie on the bed like a log of dead wood. Suggest different sex styles and patiently help him adapt to them. It may take time and patience,but I tell you it's worth much more that losing your marriage because of the temptation to cheat.

I don't even think of cheating on him! Its not an option, its a taboo in his place( he is igbo but am not). If I try working on him , he releases faster, its like that even heightens his excitement. Am willing to be patient.

watch love films. read sex novels/sites/films. educate yourself.

please do not watch porn. it is unrealistic. but if you feel it will help, go ahead

Bunchersstab: Wen a guy demand for more sex ladies will complain if he is a one minute man dey will complain ladies pls wat do u want Women and sex if a guy has more sexual expirience dey will complain & if he a novice dey will talk God wat creature is dis (women)

Well, buy enof best sellers movies (adult version) & watch 2geda wit him....

buy moringa tea or advice him to start taking bitter kola & alomo bitters.

*Tnk me leta*

Porn movies makes people have an unrealistic expectation of sex which maynot be very healthy for marriage but can be tolerated in relationships!! Moringa is a good idea though am yet to read that improved sexual perfomance is one of its benefits. Doesn't kola and Alomo bitters have other grave health dangers?

Please check your heart deep down well if you truly and genuinely love this guy. If u can be able to acknowledge and accept the fact that he is not perfect, why can't u accept his poor bed performances. My dear, it takes two to tango. You can help him to improve in that area. You need to learn to how touch him at the right spots during romance. There are ways u will touch a man, he would want to have sex with u all the time. As a young girl, in marriage u have a lot to learn. There are so many tips but let me give u one...when both of you are together playing Romance ensure that you ain't wearing bra and always place his hands on your nippples...make him play with it...contact me if u want more tips to spice up up your marital sex life.

Danhumprey: Where is ITbomb? He can give better suggestions.




By the way,I think this thread should be moved to the Family section.

Didn't see any family link. The closest to thesection I wanted was this romance section. I wouldn't mind taking it to the family section if that's where I will find married people more. Please where do I find the family link to click on?

Better spike his drink before the deed with something that will help both of you.

BritneyStacy: Didn't see any family link. The closest to thesection I wanted was this romance section. I wouldn't mind taking it to the family section if that's where I will find married people more. Please where do I find the family link to click on?

The moderators should help with that.


Jaybee3,Rockstation,RoyalRoy,you guys should come and help out.

angela98: Please check your heart deep down well if you truly and genuinely love this guy. If u can be able to acknowledge and accept the fact that he is not perfect, why can't u accept his poor bed performances. My dear, it takes two to tango. You can help him to improve in that area. You need to learn to how touch him at the right spots during romance. There are ways u will touch a man, he would want to have sex with u all the time. As a young girl, in marriage u have a lot to learn. There are so many tips but let me give u one...when both of you are together playing Romance ensure that you ain't wearing bra and always place his hands on your nippples...make him play with it...contact me if u want more tips to spice up up your marital sex life.

Chai! Aunty please share with us nau!

angela98: Please check your heart deep down well if you truly and genuinely love this guy. If u can be able to acknowledge and accept the fact that he is not perfect, why can't u accept his poor bed performances. My dear, it takes two to tango. You can help him to improve in that area. You need to learn to how touch him at the right spots during romance. There are ways u will touch a man, he would want to have sex with u all the time. As a young girl, in marriage u have a lot to learn. There are so many tips but let me give u one...when both of you are together playing Romance ensure that you ain't wearing bra and always place his hands on your nippples...make him play with it...contact me if u want more tips to spice up up your marital sex life.

I wouldn't have married him if I didn't love him! Infact, I married him because I could see that even when sex was not a regular feature of our dating/courtship, I still adored and respected him. Please note too, I did not say he doesn't know to how make love or his not usually turned on, I said his problem is that he releases at d slightest thing.

alternatively, indulge in lots of pre-intimacy than penetration

Danhumprey: Chai! Aunty please share with us nau!

ha ha ha ha ha..u funny o..na women affair o

Buy some Viagra pills at a pharmacy or online....Its a blue pill that helps with getting it to stay up .



I don't think you'll want to continue describing your husband as "homely"; It has a totally different meaning....Its not what you think it is.

angela98: ha ha ha ha ha..u funny o..na women affair o

Which one be women affair nau? It take two to tango!


Don't be stingy!

BritneyStacy: I wouldn't have married him if I didn't love him! Infact, I married him because I could see that even when sex was not a regular feature of our dating/courtship, I still adored and respected him. Please note too, I did not say he doesn't know to how make love or his not usually turned on, I said his problem is that he releases at d slightest thing.

yeah I understand... There are ways u can still help me...to reduce his excitement. Its over excitement that causes a man to ejaculate quickly..Dont worry as a lovely lady seeking help we are here to give u all the support you need. I shall email good tips to you.. Just hang in there Dont give up on him just yet...

Danhumprey: Which one be women affair nau? It take two to tango!


Don't be stingy!

I don tell u. Na women affair..

@angela, ur suggestion is quite....off d mark(forgive me if my assessment seemed impolite). She z asking for suggestions as to hw her man can last longer in bed(since he z a 3-min man) and nt abt hw she can "satisfy" him in bed
. She seems a lot more experienced(sexually) than her hubby.
@britneyspice,you nid to lovingly and tactfully talk to him and express ur concerns,then go(u and hubby) arrange an appointment with ur doctor or a sex therapist(some medical doctors act in both capacities thou). He/she will give medically sound suggestions as to hw he will last longer in bed(and not d alomo and oda herbal mixture thingy wey pple dey always use indiscriminately without sparing any tot to future health implications)
Happy married life gurl

Danhumprey: Where is ITbomb? He can give better suggestions.

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No dey invoke my spirit anyhow, you already know say I belong to the team #testbeforemarriage
Find my honest opinion here www.nairaland.com/1838042/men-doesnt-love-having-sex#25134207

glitest: Buy some Viagra pills at a pharmacy or online....Its a blue pill that helps with getting it to stay up .



I don't think you'll want to continue describing your husband as "homely"; It has a totally different meaning....Its not what you think it is.

Viagra is like performing surgery on a migraine patient, I think the guy is just disinterested he doesn't see sex as a call to duty to satisfy his partner, come to think of it why is she surprised now? they had sex 3 times and she couldn't rate his sexual performance before walking down the aisle with him, she needs a perfect guy but it ain't possible, low sexual performance is his imperfection so she has to discuss this issue with him and improve on her techniques too introduce fore-play and play dirty afterall you are married.

glitest
Babe how is d weather in your area? its cold here

andromida: Better spike his drink before the deed with something that will help both of you.

You mean something like VEGA 200 or VAKA 200?

Elebiju: Viagra is like performing surgery on a migraine patient, I think the guy is just disinterested he doesn't see sex as a call to duty to satisfy his partner, come to think of it why is she surprised now? they had sex 3 times and she couldn't rate his sexual performance before walking down the aisle with him, she needs a perfect guy but it ain't possible, low sexual performance is his imperfection so she has to discuss this issue with him and improve on her techniques too introduce pre-intimacy and play dirty afterall you are married.

glitest
Babe how is d weather in your area? its cold here

Morning luv!..The whether is Pretty Mild....@68 degrees.
I hope it stays the same; All weekend that is.
Thanks for asking.... Your's?.

glitest:


Morning luv!..The whether is Pretty Mild....@68 degrees.
I hope it stays the same; All weekend that is.
Thanks for asking.... Your's?.

I'm sure you aint in lagos cos its 26° here with mild showers,I pray it changes oooo.

Elebiju: I'm sure you aint in lagos cos its 26° here with mild showers,I pray it changes oooo.

No luv, I'm not in Lagos.

the problem is dat he hasnt had sex b4 so he is not used to:but be patient with him with time he will adjust,dats wat happens wen a first timer begins to av sex. U GUYS SPEND AN HOUR OR MORE ON pre-intimacy,U CAN AS AV HIM SUCK U.

Danhumprey: The moderators should help with that.
Jaybee3,Rockstation,RoyalRoy,you guys should come and help out.

Y u con take d mata 4head naa

Abii?...its wat am thinking

nikkypearl:

Y u con take d mata 4head naa

Abii?...its wat am thinking

And what are you thinking?

Bunchersstab: Wen a guy demand for more sex ladies will complain if he is a one minute man dey will complain ladies pls wat do u want Women and sex if a guy has more sexual expirience dey will complain & if he a novice dey will talk God wat creature is dis (women)

Well, buy enof best sellers movies (adult version) & watch 2geda wit him....

buy moringa tea or advice him to start taking bitter kola & alomo bitters.

*Tnk me leta*

My dearest love, we women are not that complicated, yes some of us play the game of hard to get because that is what we were taught, (depending on culture) but trust me if a real woman can find a real down to earth, loving, respectful man, there will be no game playing, We women need to be loved, just like you do. You have got to give the same thing that you want, Daddy don't be upset with me for expressing my true feeling. I love you!!!!!

Elebiju: You mean something like VEGA 200 or VAKA 200?

I am sure if she does her research she will even come up with natural supplements she can use.