DukeNija:

You are short!

Yes and I am very proud of it. I can have tall AND short guys. Many choices for me

carefreewannabe:

Have I ever sent you any emails at all?

This is why you're a chicken.

Don't twist my words.

Untwist them.

Being an orangutan is not a bad thing.

This is not a bad thing?

You need help

Naetochukwu:
Waiting peacock... Be fast so u can finish it off
Frustrated fella

Ehen where were we?

I actually thought I had the power to e-fight today. But it appears I don't. And before I finish what I'm doing this thread fit don cold lol.

Naeto nwanne m nwoke,onwere ihe ndi na adighi mma ka nwoke na eme ha.

(I know you're understanding me)


Anyway let me tell you this.
There are great guys on this section who post great posts and give useful insight into the psyche and minds of men thereby helping readers have a balanced view of both sides and how they work.
I'm not going to name names to avoid disturbing their mentions.
You can chose to be one of them or you can chose to remain a crying reader.
They don't have two heads and aren't better than you.
So why not give it a try?


Another useful tip is that when you know so much about someone who hasn't even noticed you for the first time,it makes you look creepy.
You may think it is a nice way of yabbing or whatever,but it just makes you look like there's no color in your own life therefore your entertainment comes from noting and memorizing facts about other people's lives when they don't even know about your existence to start with.
No matter how popular a poster is,try your best to be indifferent to their personal lives.
Not talking about my person just a general thing.

Erm I think that's all.

crackhaus:
This is why you're a chicken.

Chicken or orangutan?

You seem to be confused today. Has your girl not served you food yet?

Untwist them.

I implied jokingly that I was as dangerous as Rhianna in oneof her videos but never said I looked like her.

This is not a bad thing?

You need help

And I know you are eager to help me but I feel great the way I am.

For me what baffles me is why come to a forum to seek advice? Don't these people have friends/family who know all the facts about their peculiar situation, why come online to seek advice from people you don't know how well they are handling their own affairs. No matter how difficult a person is there is that 1 person he/she listens to.
When you go seeking advise you take what you see. Like I tell my kids, if I ask you to enter fire will you do that? Advices should be properly examined before they are followed.

ephee:

How does post affect u.I belive evryone is entiled to his or her opinion.must u insult people?if u ar not comfortable with peoples opinion then DEACTIVATE or more still #hugawettransformer#

See ya teeth
Suarez

carefreewannabe:

Chicken or orangutan?

You seem to be confused today. Has your girl not served you food yet?




I implied jokingly that I was as dangerous as Rhianna in oneof her videos but never said I looked like her.




And I know you are eager to help me but I feel great the way I am.

Another day, another time...we'll finish this.

Naetochukwu:
See ya teeth
Suarez

Hahaha!u ar just jealous coz urs isn't noticed.at least u noticed mine#wannabefreak#

Ne wa o.

I think the nairaland Tsunami brought back a lot of trolls with it.

ibizgirl: For me what baffles me is why come to a forum to seek advice? Don't these people have friends/family who know all the facts about their peculiar situation, why come online to seek advice from people you don't know how well they are handling their own affairs. No matter how difficult a person is there is that 1 person he/she listens to.
When you go seeking advise you take what you see. Like I tell my kids, if I ask you to enter fire will you do that? Advices should be properly examined before they are followed.

Most times it's good to post here for advice.You want to get neutral views about your situation.It's an anonymous forum so nobody really knows you.
Some of the things you want advice on may not be things you want to share with family members for obvious reasons so it's not a bad thing soliciting for advice from strangers.
You just need to separate the wheat from the chaff.

NaetoC the situation you described is an outlier. I think lots of people give objective advise here because they are detached. There are few foolish counsel and a smart reader should be able to discern the difference. So this is not worth the insults you are reeling out.

jumzzy448:
Honestly, I can't start giving examples right now. But have read so many topics here on family section and when see what some fellow women are advising, I just shake my head. To tell you the truth, some of these topics aren't even about violence.

Very funny thing happened. I was going through an old thread and I found you doing exactly what you accused "fellow women" of doing. https://www.nairaland.com/1514092/wife-ruining-marriage/6#down

aisha2:

Very funny thing happened. I was going through an old thread and I found you doing exactly what you accused "fellow women" of doing. https://www.nairaland.com/1514092/wife-ruining-marriage/6#down

I guess you saw the separate for a while. I never said he should divorce her

jumzzy448:
I guess you saw the separate for a while. I never said he should divorce her

Sister "seperate for a while" not even counseling. Toh, me I have pulled up one of such links the poster was refering to, you can also pull up a link to show the "fellow women" giving seperate or divorce advice.

Lesson for me is that we all come from different places and have different views and give our advice based on circumstances surrounding the cases. We can only advice and the poster decides at the end of the day, no ones advice is superior or useless except advice that advocates for danger and harm.

Lets live and let live, no need to castigate and insult others because they reason differently.

aisha2:

Sister "seperate for a while" not even counseling. Toh, me I have pulled up one of such links the poster was refering to, you can also pull up a link to show the "fellow women" giving seperate or divorce advice.

Lesson for me is that we all come from different places and have different views and give our advice based on circumstances surrounding the cases. We can only advice and the poster decides at the end of the day, no ones advice is superior or useless except advice that advocates for danger and harm.

Lets live and let live, no need to castigate and insult others because they reason differently.

Taken.

ladygogo: Ne wa o.

I think the nairaland Tsunami brought back a lot of trolls with it.

I pity those taking the OP serious.

He's just a guy that goes about pretending to be a woman. Maybe na gay wey dey find who go yansh am.

fellis:

I pity those taking the OP serious.

He's just a guy that goes about pretending to be a woman. Maybe na gay wey dey find who go yansh am.

You are not making any sense

Naetochukwu:
You are not making any sense

fellis:

I pity those taking the OP serious.

He's just a guy that goes about pretending to be a woman. Maybe na gay wey dey find who go yansh am.

Please stop projecting, women are the Ones parading as men to make a point on this forum

CAMNEWTON4PRES:

Please stop projecting, women are the Ones parading as men to make a point on this forum

Ok, such as which women?

fellis:

Ok, such as which women?

I don't record their names, but one thing is sure they are exposed daily on the FP esp with their pro femininazism agenda
I never knew women could b such cowards till I join NL , what a pity even on a faceless/anonymous forum

CAMNEWTON4PRES:

I don't record their names, but one thing is sure they are exposed daily on the FP esp with their pro femininazism agenda
I never knew women could b such cowards till I join NL , what a pity even on a faceless/anonymous forum

They are exposed daily on front page? Front page of which site biko? Because I'm sure it's not the same Nairaland I visit

Welcome back ooo, Camcam, you were missed.

You and your filthy, retrogressive,disgusting, patriarchal campaign.

fellis:

They are exposed daily on front page? Front page of which site biko? Because I'm sure it's not the same Nairaland I visit

Welcome back ooo, Camcam, you were missed.

You and your filthy, retrogressive,disgusting, patriarchal campaign.

Exposed in their fake threads, not threads to expose

Thank you but did I leave?
Anyway nice to see you again, unfortunately you are still stuck in your feminazism agenda/propaganda and the rants of a powerless and toothless

Why does feminism cause much pains on some persons?
To the Op,give ur advice and allow others give theirs. The poster is at liberty to choose any or even ignore all. Simple

CAMNEWTON4PRES:

Exposed in their fake threads, not threads to expose

Thank you but did I leave?
Anyway nice to see you again, unfortunately you are still stuck in your feminazism agenda/propaganda and the rants of a powerless and toothless

You've got mail

fellis:

You've got mail

Bwahahahahhahah looking for whom to yansh you on a public forum? Some runs women on rampaage
Funny people

@Naetochukwu


i think you r taking it to far
its one thing making references to a mindset but people are free to contact others
Some are friends offline

Are u a hustler also

pickabeau1: @Naetochukwu


i think you r taking it to far
its one thing making references to a mindset but people are free to contact others
Some are friends offline

Are u a hustler also

what are you trying to say? Speak igbo

Majority of Familanders advisers don't have good homes while some were abandoned by their hubby , some married the wrong dudes and have the mentality that no challenging home can be salvaged while some have this extreme western (UK/US) mentality that any slight challenges in marriage - Divorce is the answer !!


Implement their answers @ your own risk !

Naetochukwu:
Bwahahahahhahah looking for whom to yansh you on a public forum? Some runs women on rampaage
Funny people

This is very rude

fellis:

You've got mail

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Most of those ill advicers are teenagers. There are anoda group who doesnt give advice,but only cast blames. NL LOL