Please why do some ladies see warning signs in a boyfriend, but expect him to change as a husbands? Wasn't the husband the same man who was lavishing them with money, gifts as an over-protective macho boyfriend and now they expect him to change because they are his wife? Isn't a husband once a boyfriend?

Something tells me that we all see the evil traits in people we date but either choose to look away till we get married then then that evil trait becomes a demon. You knew how and where you got your boyfriend.

Tips:

1. -He dumped his girlfriend (your roommate) and started dating you - a potential cheat
2. -He had no savings but spent half his salary to woo you, and you enjoyed it then - Potential 'free-giver' (person who chases women with money)
3. -He stole from parents and relatives to buy you gifts - potential thief (free-loader)
4. -He spent most of his time with you rather tan going out there to hustle - potential lazy husband
5. -He berates, shouts down and even slaps salesgirls who didn't server you well and you hailed him as being protective - Potential wife-abuser
6. -He didn't like babies and complained he's allergic to baby products and smell of dirty diaper - potential 'baby-daddy'
7. -He lied to people that he was on travel while he was actually with you - Potential liar
8. -He has no known office but always has money and claims he's a contractor or 'Yahoo boy' - Potential robber or ritualist.
9. -Liked all your girlfriends and made passes on most of them but always confess and cry for your forgiveness- Potential 'sugar-daddy' with mistresses.
10.- Could not move along with neighbors, coworkers, family members and was always right- potential divorcee (sorry you may be baby-mama)
11. Had the energy of a bull, loved to make love to you at least 4 times everyday while you could not catch up- potential Ashawao carrier patronizer.

Shine ur eyes. No let sweet money lead you to untimely death in the name of marriage.

You can NEVER know. . .
Quit asking.
PEOPLE CHANGE. . . MEN AND WOMEN!
No condition is permanent. . . . but CHANGE!

Lobatan




I know the people that will avoid this thread like leprosy

SAMBARRY: Lobatan




I know the people that will avoid this thread like leprosy

I no get leprosy

bigheart2013: Please why do some ladies see warning signs in a boyfriend, but expect him to change as a husbands? Wasn't the husband the same man who was lavishing them with money, gifts as an over-protective macho boyfriend and now they expect him to change because they are his wife? Isn't a husband once a boyfriend?
Something tells me that we all see the evil traits in people we date but either choose to look away till we get married then then that evil trait becomes a demon. You knew how and where you got your boyfriend.
Tips:
1. -He dumped his girlfriend (your roommate) and started dating you - a potential cheat
2. -He had no savings but spent half his salary to woo you, and you enjoyed it then - Potential 'free-giver' (person who chases women with money)
3. -He stole from parents and relatives to buy you gifts - potential thief (free-loader)
4. -He spent most of his time with you rather tan going out there to hustle - potential lazy husband
5. -He berates, shouts down and even slaps salesgirls who didn't server you well and you hailed him as being protective - Potential wife-abuser
6. -He didn't like babies and complained he's allergic to baby products and smell of dirty diaper - potential 'baby-daddy'
7. -He lied to people that he was on travel while he was actually with you - Potential liar
8. -He has no known office but always has money and claims he's a contractor or 'Yahoo boy' - Potential robber or ritualist.
9. -Liked all your girlfriends and made passes on most of them but always confess and cry for your forgiveness- Potential 'sugar-daddy' with mistresses.
10.- Could not move along with neighbors, coworkers, family members and was always right- potential divorcee (sorry you may be baby-mama)
11. Had the energy of a bull, loved to make love to you at least 4 times everyday while you could not catch up- potential Ashawao carrier patronizer.
Shine ur eyes. No let sweet money lead you to untimely death in the name of marriage.

Thank You and stay blessed, I am tired of ladies ignoring obvious signs just to hook a husband then later start lamenting.

@OP
i disagree with you:

#1, a man that breaks up with a girl to date her girlfriend may be a lot of things but that not the definition of a cheat.
the cheat will have dated BOTH and not drop one to enjoy being with the other.

#2, is there anything wrong with a generous partner that gives willingly?!

#3, if the gal knew the man was stealing but she accepted the gifts then thats because the gal was a thief herself, so they will get along just fine.

#4, why do you assume that everybody must hustle. so you think that anyone with free time (whether rich or poor) should hustle?

#5, the very important question you should ask is the lady here is: if a man grabs her aasss, for example, what does she expectes her man to do?

#6, how can a man be a potential baby daddy, if he says ALL ALONG that he does not like kids?! the foolish person here is the woman who will still force a child on this man.

#7, we are all liars...some of us say tiny white lies like:"i am busy" when they are not, while others say lies like:"you are the daddy", while you aint. the catch is to understand that not all lies are the same value.

#8, and yet, you were the one who said that men should go hustle instead of spending most of the time with women. hustle is hustle bro.

#11, so if your partner is not as se.xually active as you, the solution is to go visit ashewos?

thank God you wrote potential on all of them.....

Op, oya choose one, which one of these are you?

Mr Brown how have you been. Long time. So pleasant to hear from you

MRbrownJAY: @OP
i disagree with you:

#1, a man that breaks up with a girl to date her girlfriend may be a lot of things but that not the definition of a cheat.
the cheat will have dated BOTH and not drop one to enjoy being with the other.

#2, is there anything wrong with a generous partner that gives willingly?!

#3, if the gal knew the man was stealing but she accepted the gifts then thats because the gal was a thief herself, so they will get along just fine.

#4, why do you assume that everybody must hustle. so you think that anyone with free time (whether rich or poor) should hustle?

#5, the very important question you should ask is the lady here is: if a man grabs her aasss, for example, what does she expectes her man to do?

#6, how can a man be a potential baby daddy, if he says ALL ALONG that he does not like kids?! the foolish person here is the woman who will still force a child on this man.

#7, we are all liars...some of us say tiny white lies like:"i am busy" when they are not, while others say lies like:"you are the daddy", while you aint. the catch is to understand that not all lies are the same value.

#8, and yet, you were the one who said that men should go hustle instead of spending most of the time with women. hustle is hustle bro.

#11, so if your partner is not as se.xually active as you, the solution is to go visit ashewos?

thank God you wrote potential on all of them.....

egopersonified: Op, oya choose one, which one of these are you?

Guess na. U never know you may be right

Smart girls wil observe these signs, wil jst make mugu of dem, dumped dem n never married dem.

SAMBARRY: Mr Brown how have you been. Long time. So pleasant to hear from you

i am good bro, for my sanity i have to sometimes stay away from NL. although i have no idea who you are since you are hiding under this new profile. no worries, i can understand that sometimes NL (or NLers) is getting to you too, lol!

MRbrownJAY:

i am good bro, for my sanity i have to sometimes stay away from NL. although i have no idea who you are since you are hiding under this new profile. no worries, i can understand that sometimes NL (or NLers) is getting to you too, lol!

sambarry you know VERY WELL

SAMBARRY: sambarry you know VERY WELL

ahahahahahahahaha

MRbrownJAY:

ahahahahahahahaha

she's a she though

SAMBARRY: she's a she though

the important question is why do you have to hide?

MRbrownJAY:

the important question is why do you have to hide?

nothing dear