Eyop:
You will be fantastic on braids as well even though your kind of face will go well with any type of hair style.

dreyjacs:
Thank you. I can't stand the pain.

ramdris: And then? Shey na one person spend all the money mtcheeew?

HandOfChukwu: 99% of black men around the world are against weave, so who exactly are you African women trying to impress by wearing weave?

Okeikpu: Ths r one of the main reason y some men refused to marry......ds their cosmetics thing don tire person : ( my wife goes to b.saloon everyday to paint her nails..... women r the main cos of economic crisis in the world....

Onegai:

First of all, I've got natural hair. As in, no relaxer (my choice). And I can speak from the perspective of having all 3 in the past.

Black men and Black women are the problem. Yes. You have just said words which would make a black woman race to buy a weave.

You want to run your fingers through a woman's hair, that means you don't appreciate African hair texture. Our hair is thick and full and spirally, so, fingers idly running through it tangles it. Society has deemed, however, that smooth, straight hair is beautiful, and you as a man have declared "I can run my fingers through Asian, Caucasian Middle Eastern women's hair", happily ignoring the fact that your grandma didn't have hair like that (and you thought she was a wonderful woman), your sisters and mum didn't have hair like that (and you love them). You're in denial of your own hair texture (can you run your fingers through your afro?)

It's the same thought process I see with bleaching: men "hate" it but think fair-skinned girls are "prettier than dark skinned ones" or that "their skin looks cleaner than dark-skinned ones".

Hypocrisy is very subtle, isn't it?

Women, please listen to me: if you carry your natural hair from childhood, celebrate it, you won't be complaining how hard it is to maintain. I've lived on 3 continents and had non-blacks love my hair. But it was for a temporary feel (like the way we dream of being taller, having bigger bums etc), none was spending thousands of dollars to ever look like a black woman. South-Eastern women (Bengals and Indians) want to look lighter, Chinese girls wish they had upper eyelid folds that were bigger.


Because Society has conditioned us to believe straight hair and light skin is beautiful.

Now excuse me, I'm off to go find a man who thinks really curly afro hair is beautiful

kalimera101:

You lie. If men complain about weaves at all it's because somewhere along the line the girl will ask them to pay for it.
But in the name of ah dis girl fine or no fine, they don't care. Some even tease girls that wear natural hair.
So? Oga where did your 99% manifest from.

HandOfChukwu: I don't see anyone teasing girls for wearing natural hair...not unless it somehow looks rubbish but that is not because of the fact its natural, i see many more making fun of the weave wearers especially when they have blonde weave, its embarrassing, imagine a black man wearing a white mans blonde hair.....picture that in your mind... yes that is how stup1d you look wearing weave.

kalimera101:

Yeah. And later if she changes somehow, gains weight, complexion changes or anything at all changes from when you were in courtship, you will still be same husband to come Nairaland to announce that "my wife has changed, I feel like looking outside, please house what should I do?"

Abegi Sidon for back.

Okeikpu: Pls what's the meaning of Kalimera....

fayahsoul: Using something fake as a source of self confidence and esteem is the height of self delusion. These self hating black females have an abundance of absurd excuses for their maddness. Just imagine how many lives that much money wasted on fakery could impact positively. Dont you lot have any shame? Where's your dignity? Appreciate and make the best of what you have and quit searching for what neither belongs you nor suit you. You dont have straight hair and never will. Deal with it. Beauty, confidence and esteem are innate. They arent stuff you can just purchase. You already possess them but your self hate keeps you from harnessing them. F*cking clowns. am outta here.

Mondisweets: And how much do nairaland guys alone spend on ashewos self

kalimera101:

Please before you go too far, take this note with you. It's content is your comment quoted above and be sure to read it out loud to any girl you see on fake weaves.

Ngwa bye bye.

kalimera101:

It means Good Morning in Greek.

Okeikpu: Thanks to Google translate.... Abi u dey Greece?

kalimera101:

No. I was learning Greek for a while.

kalimera101:

No. I was learning Greek for a while.

Okeikpu: ΝΑΣΠΩ! ΠΙΟΙΟΣ ΕΙΣΑΙ..? EΙΣΑΙ ΑΝΔΡΑΣ Η ΓΥΝΑΙΚΑ...Just a little lesson... translate it.... don't use Google

kalimera101:

I don't know what you wrote up there. Lol.
I lost interest in Greek so the only thing I remember is Kalimera.
Japanese replaced Greek. Which is what I'm studying recently.

fayahsoul: Using something fake as a source of self confidence and esteem is the height of self delusion. These self hating black females have an abundance of absurd excuses for their maddness. Just imagine how many lives that much money wasted on fakery could impact positively. Dont you lot have any shame? Where's your dignity? Appreciate and make the best of what you have and quit searching for what neither belongs you nor suit you. You dont have straight hair and never will. Deal with it. Beauty, confidence and esteem are innate. They arent stuff you can just purchase. You already possess them but your self hate keeps you from harnessing them. F*cking clowns. am outta here.

Okeikpu: Dats good! It's better than Greek.... I wrote in Greek...: who r you , are u a man or a lady...

kalimera101:

Female.