Why this thing made frontpage beats my imagination

LoveDecay:

I like Yoruba girls .... Very sexy, and beautiful .... If u know what to look for in women.

Ibo' girls are attractive but most 8/10 I have met are Yoruba or have Yoruba connexion ......

Excuse me sir, is you Yoruba??

Tashamania: Why this thing made frontpage beats my imagination

My dear its simple,. Yoruba men are obsessed with Igbo women.. The owner of this site is Yoruba too.. That one is probably masturbatingg off an Igbo woman's dp right now...

zlatansomto: Excuse me sir, is you Yoruba??

Negative. Half SS, Half SE (mum is from Njikoka LGA) daughter of an Ichie if u must know .

zlatansomto: My dear its simple,. Yoruba men are obsessed with Igbo women.. The owner of this site is Yoruba too.. That one is probably masturbatingg off an Igbo woman's dp right now...

LoveDecay:

Negative. Half SS, Half SE (mum is from Njikoka LGA) daughter of an Ichie if u must know .

•

silvoice: pls i need advice on how to go for this my marriage introduction. My wife-to-be is an Ibo girl. i hav some questions which I'd Like my useful NLs to help me, because my parents are late and i don't really know who to ask this question and get an objective answer. 1. should i ask my girl to tell me what is needed 4 first introdution according 2 their tradition or jus go wit cash? 2. if i go with a friend is it ok or must i go with an elder at this 1st stage? pls i need sincere advice, b4 i make mistake

. Apologies 4 commenting late. Pls I ll ask what part of ibo is that? Then despite the part of ibo, just go with a friend or an uncle with a bottle of hot drink and maybe a gallon of palmwine if its an anambra girl. This is inform the parents or guardians of the girl that you are interested in marrying her. With the girl's consent you will be asked to come back for the list cos its not the parents that formulate list but the father will get from the kinsmen. Forget about the fear people are trying to instill in you cos its not always about money. I wish you success in this.

obitobe:
there are something you will need to buy and pay cash for the rest....

U are right, I. bought some things like crates of beer,malts,kola,schnapps, and palm wine. her dad is late so I was asked to buy a goat for the decease but I paid it in cash and other things in the lists.

cultural diversity

obitobe:
the girl is from Imo State.

you see! That's imo tradition, we anambrans don't do such atall.

quote author=siobahn]

Fellow Alor peeps!!! When my sis was getting married, na just wine for introduction. For the list, My brother in law did not bring goat o! I think it depends on the parents. One carton of soap, 5 cartons of drinks, hollandis( or something), there was no gele and blouse, and there were no yams.
Infact i cringe when i hear people's experiences of a rather long unreasonable list given to them in other villages.[/quote]




God bless u.this is the most impressive comment on this topic since 1904 ,wen it comes to unreasonable demands an what not ,the immediate In-laws have a greater say as to how their daughter shud be married,E.g,if the community demands for 5bags of rice,your in-laws have the power to reduce it to 1.bag instead,any one wu disagrees can go an sell his or her own daughter.so liaise an aquint yourself with your in-laws.

LoveDecay:

I like Yoruba girls .... Very sexy, and beautiful .... If u know what to look for in women.

Ibo' girls are attractive but most 8/10 I have met are Yoruba or have Yoruba connexion ......

Stop dissing people, I know ur sad, Nigerian kids are inter-marrying. In a few years all this Muslim Christian Jews north west bull crap will history .

I am product of inter-marriage , and I support inter-marriage so that lowly classed and dysfunctional beings like you are not born. Saying Yoruba women are extinct , Kai naija don suffer

Okay, you had to go back and re-edit your post!! I accorded you great respect and pay me back with disrespect!! Its all good! Peace •

kr0ne:
You don't need advice to marry an Ibo girl as long as ur in love with her. All you need is money. Smh

cn i jst say dat u r wrong dia, cos whn it comes 2 issues of marriage, u dnt do everything in money, esp whn it concerns d old women in d vila.they expect u 2 give dem dia bags of rice instead of money

Dunno abt bende sha;but i do knw at abriba;ohafia;item;ngwa;isuikwato;umuahia etc;the price is high..other cultures dont SELL their daughters like the IGBO smoking people. I think dat d high demand is one of the reasons why rituals, kidnapping, robbery, 419 etc are rampant in the SE. They all want to impress greedy inlaws..After huge bride price what next ? Starvation for the new couple.;

luvprince4real: Heyyyyyyyyy my gal is from abia o.
U just scare me with this ur post, abeg some1 should help check out hw it's been done in Bende local govt. Area of dat state.. Ya,,,, that's her L.G.A. Ntalaku or something is d villa.

silvoice: pls i need advice on how to go for this my marriage introduction. My wife-to-be is an Ibo girl. i hav some questions which I'd Like my useful NLs to help me, because my parents are late and i don't really know who to ask this question and get an objective answer. 1. should i ask my girl to tell me what is needed 4 first introdution according 2 their tradition or jus go wit cash? 2. if i go with a friend is it ok or must i go with an elder at this 1st stage? pls i need sincere advice, b4 i make mistake

Go yourself... If you have a jeep and a lot of money, you are good to go!

People hating igbo since 1800.
Yet they still marry dem every Saturday.

Bros, for intro, u can just go with friends. For d rites, I advice u to pay cash. Because when they give u list and u buy everything, on that day, they will still either say u omitted somethings or they did and u will still pay cash. Even when u pay cash, that day they will increase it saying inflation this and that.
During mine, my thieving inlaws in ogbaru anambra state told me max 120k. On that day when they found out where I work, they increased it to 250k there and then.

mifavour: it varies though... I'm from Alor in Anambra state...
When my hubby came for my introduction he came with his dad mum and about two uncles... With wines...dint ve to come with cash.. It wasnt needed then...
Then in the list was: one goat, one bag of salt, one carton of soap, a complete set of dress for the brides mum( gele, blouse entorica) then 5cartons of drinks(assorted) thats all..
Ntin like yam n d likes

Thanx my sister. Some ppl here know nothing about the Igbo culture but for d lies they here.
U don't need money for introductionooooooooo! u don't, just wine, maybe a Carlton, garden egg and kola, that's all.
ppl just put up lies. Yam n wrapper for introduction? I'm from Anambra n no village asks for that during intro

siobahn:

Fellow Alor peeps!!! When my sis was getting married, na just wine for introduction. For the list, My brother in law did not bring goat o! I think it depends on the parents. One carton of soap, 5 cartons of drinks, hollandis( or something), there was no gele and blouse, and there were no yams.
Infact i cringe when i hear people's experiences of a rather long unreasonable list given to them in other villages.

the goat stuff depemds on d kindred cos its theirs

[quote author=tsolz84]Better flee dude..Abians are the worse!!esp if d gal is an ada(eldest daughter);wise up dude;else u re gona get bankrupt all in d name of getting married 2d luv of ur lyf..d funny tin is dat d ladies re aware of deir fuvkin traditn bt dey wont tell d guy dey re dating..well;if u re buoyant enuf;carry on..#i wish u well#[/quote)

Quite been a child and grow up.. You are just been bitter. That you encountered that doesnt mean that that is the way things are. Get a life and quit living in the past. Op congrats, you have nothing to fear. Let no low life decieve or discourage you with rumours and insinuations. Go get your girl...

tsolz84: Better flee dude..Abians are the worse!!esp if d gal is an ada(eldest daughter);wise up dude;else u re gona get bankrupt all in d name of getting married 2d luv of ur lyf..d funny tin is dat d ladies re aware of deir fuvkin traditn bt dey wont tell d guy dey re dating..well;if u re buoyant enuf;carry on..#i wish u well#

*picks my fone and send her (my gf) a text msge. "Its over between us"*


But seriously this culture of a tin need to be abolished.
How will the couple survive if the supposed husband to be spend his life savings only on traditional wedding?

I no marry again.

ok

harryfish: . Apologies 4 commenting late. Pls I ll ask what part of ibo is that? Then despite the part of ibo, just go with a friend or an uncle with a bottle of hot drink and maybe a gallon of palmwine if its an anambra girl. This is inform the parents or guardians of the girl that you are interested in marrying her. With the girl's consent you will be asked to come back for the list cos its not the parents that formulate list but the father will get from the kinsmen. Forget about the fear people are trying to instill in you cos its not always about money. I wish you success in this.

Yes, this sums it all.
1, 2 or maybe 3 uncles/elders(maybe 1 woman) to represent your Father/guardian( and mother) would do.
A bottle of good hot Drink.
A little cash to push the drink on the table.

That's all the basic you need.

And you can also get the list from them same day based on prior information.

Humour me more Igbo;like I care about the opinion of never do well wankster overdose on amphetamine from infancy..i av dropped mine;take it or leave it..but d nxt time u quote me;u wont believe wat will hit u..[quote author=Onyinyechi1008][/quote]

zlatansomto: Okay, you had to go back and re-edit your post!! I accorded you great respect and pay me back with disrespect!! Its all good! Peace •

hahaha...so e pain you....mumu

'STUP:ID QUESTION!'. Why didn't you consider some-girl from your own ethnic group. Inter-breeding is siN!!!

zlatansomto: These foolish yoruba men just hate their own women with passion,. All they do is dream and masturbatee off Igbo women.. Yoruba women are now endangered species.. Nobody wants them..

WHAT HAS YORUBA MEN GOT TO DO WITH THIS NOW? IS IT ONLY YORUBA MEN THAT ARE MARRYING IGBO LADIES? I KNOW MANY IGBO MEN THAT GOT MARRIED TO YORUBA LADIES. WHY ARE YOU SO MYOPIC AND TRIBALISTIC? STOP MAKING COMMENTING LIKE AN ILLITERATE. IT TAKES A BIG FOOL TO RECOGNISE A FOOL.

[quote author=Onyinyechi1008][/quote]What nonsense!!!! (Blasphemy)

Good wives are good wives irrespective of their tribe or ethnicity.. Slavery days are over, welcome to civil rights age..I am a man of means by all measuring scale, and I will not pay a dime to get married to anyone. Love is not about money or dowry u pay. It's nothing but extortion. ,Imagine paying all those things demanded by the family then you take the said wife home and she's not up to your expectations... If she'd insisted on the no sex untill after wedding, after the wedding you enter her and discover that she's too wide and it can also accomodate your two stones together with your d*ck!! but dnt be dscouraged bro...who knows?u might be lucky..

Imoy:

*picks my fone and send her (my gf) a text msge. "Its over between us"*


But seriously this culture of a tin need to be abolished.
How will the couple survive if the supposed husband to be spend his life savings only on traditional wedding?

I no marry again.

No mind Ndi ofe mmanu. U want goodthing but. U no wan pay abeg make every1find der own level. Na by force to marry igbo gals? Igbo gals are d sexiest. In 9ja d bride price of a thing is jus to gauge d mans pocket so u won't go an carry our queens to go an suffer