Waspy: Lol @ Op.... your BF is calculatively cynical. that's all. If you made the move out of the blue, he might want to get skeptical/ cynical. This is why ladies shld be more spontaneous and non sterotypic......And pls for the records, erase the notion that all men want is sex, gaddemit, sometimes all we want is to get our acts right and then sex is far from it

Kinkybraids:

lol im not offering

must i open a thread before you say Yes?

Mutuwa:

Well some women do..i remember when i was comin up,i still see the face of the first girl who tried to screw me up,talking about the early 90's.she was older than me tho! Then my secretary some months bk,and an acquaintance I met at ikeja mall last month.funny enuf I fend them all off..

Kinkybraids:

lol yeah it was out of the blue...maybe he thought she was up to something.hmmm gave to ponder of this... So was the correct approach to flirt for days and the let him do the asking? That would take too long...what if she likes taking charge

vizkiz:

must i open a thread before you say Yes?

Waspy: There are better and faster ways to seduction. The best is to try and match him intellectually....it mesmerizes men. Just as you can scare a lion/ dog by roaring/barking louder than it can. Men are more rational than emotional.

Kinkybraids:

I dont understand this... As a woman im taught to believe men always want it.

Kinkybraids:

lol is that a threat? You cant force me

i aren't Threatening swirry...am a gentleman

Do you have dimples by the way?

Kinkybraids:

I dont mean to air her laundry but he is no match for her. As far as I know he doesnt challenge in that way. But ill take this tip...it makes flirting and pre-intimacy interesting

tpia1:

i'd say know your animal.

stick with those who want what you're offering, and leave those who dont.

tpia1:

i'd say know your animal.

stick with those who want what you're offering, and leave those who dont.

Kinkybraids:

The heart wants what the heart wants ... We cant help it

vizkiz:

i aren't Threatening swirry...am a gentleman

Do you have dimples by the way?

Subom1: I think her first mistake was trying to initiate sex with someone who she was not even dating.

If it was her boyfriend I see nothing wrong with it but other than that it's a no no well at least for me.

Some men can be funny. He may be playing his own game too just to rattle her up. You know when you sort of show a lack of interest it may make her want him more, question her attractiveness etc and some men get off of that OR

He may think your friend is cheap and decided to pass

tpia1:

sweety, you can help it when the man is behind bars, not so?

besides, what the bible says is the heart is desperately wicked.

who is "we"? Are you referring to people from your area, because I most certainly do not beg men to ply my wares, if I have any.

Kinkybraids:

I have one deep on on my right cheek...wish i had two

Kinkybraids:

so true maybe he does think shes cheap...which is a shame because she isnt like that. She just chose to be faithful and loyal to the wrong guy. But your points are very valid.

Kinkybraids:

'we' as in any one with a heart... Read again

Dannyxy: some women think they are God's gift to the men

Subom1: like tpia said, she just needs to find her Animal

tpia1:

your heart is different from other people's own, stop generalizing.

there is nothing "heartish" about being a nym.pho who harasses men for sex.

its not something to boast about unless you want to sell some gossip mags.

tpia1:


jeeez!

vizkiz:

i could make that wish come true you know

Dannyxy: some women think they are God's gift to the men, it irritates me to the bone, that's why I like embarrassing them. you think you can use sexx to get just anything from just any man because you look like miss world, you must be mad to try that with me..
I blame some guys for letting girls think that men can not turn down sexx. yes you can say I am not man enough for you, I am not tough enough, yes I agree, after all your talk I will still not do it, no be by force.., my God forbid I commit fornication, mtcheww..

Lolz, I remember one time, a lady told me, "you are not a nice guy at all", another " you are not a gentleman at all, I hate you".. me I no send, funny enough, dey still remained friends with me..

Guys should learn to respect themselves, don't make this girls think we reason our "thing" alone, learn to be discipline.. God bless

Kinkybraids:

how

let's talk about it outside