ITbomb: Agybabe take note

For me, unless you have a regular job, it is not good

Agybabe:
Well, I stay alone and I have a job. I pay my bills (a better part of it).

Yes, there's freedom. But messing up or keeping yourself depends on the home training you were given and the people you conform/mix-up with and also your drive in life.

That's why even the bible said, a child should be trained in the way he should go and when he is old, he won't depart from it.

Even at my free estate, there are things I can never do because of the way I was brought up especially under my mum's tutelage.

In my case, I'm the first child of my parents (they stay in Ondo state) and I live in Calabar. I've got younger ones and even my whole family is looking up to me. I dare not fail them else I'll break their hearts especially my mama's heart for she has gone to lengths to see me through to where I am today.

So whatever I do out here, I carry them at the fore of my mind and I'm like "lay good examples young lady and don't dash the hopes they have in you".

@op I don't see a bad thing in it. You just need to know what you're doing.

Afterall, we are adults!

slap1: 18 year olds live and study alone in Ukraine...
Sometimes, staying alone makes you discover yourself, realize your dreams and focus. If these are the aims of your decision, good luck! Do it!

Enoquin:

gbaskiboy: Look for female friend you can both stay together..

Atmmachine: It is very very wrong.
if you live alone you will service your engine whenever you want..

slap1: 18 year olds live and study alone in Ukraine...
Sometimes, staying alone makes you discover yourself, realize your dreams and focus. If these are the aims of your decision, good luck! Do it!

Winneygirl: What is reasonable and practical?
If you have a job that will feed you, pay your rent and pay your bills, then stay and work.
But if the sole reason is that you want privacy, U want to take time to seek a job, you dont want to go back to your parents house after service bla bla bla....these are not practical.

ITbomb:

In case you didn't know
That's Ma Lady speaking
Lovely

joe17: Care less on what people think. You wil knw if u really need to stay alone. But don't forget that guys/gentlemen think/believe that girls that stay with their parents are more responsible compared to those that stay alone(yes u wil enjoy d freedom), especially in marriage consideration except ofcux those who dia parents ar no more. #my two CENTS

milehigh06:


Nigeria is really 3rd world...

kalimera101:

You are sure? how did you know?