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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by kingzic(m): 6:38am On Aug 15, 2014
Liability: we had been dating for 2 years. He was everything i could ever wish for. The kind of man every lady wished to have, that love me, cherish me, make sure not to see tears roll from my eyes.

Samuel was a dream come true to me. But early this year, things started changing for us. I was carried away things of this world. I listened to friends advise and wanted to enjoy life the more.

I reduce the time i i use to visit him and spent it on the company of other guys. He had caught me several times and warned me of this new behaviour i had exhibited. I though i was smart enough. Samuel was truely a good man.

The last time samuel caught me sitting down with a a guy, he smiled and walked away, i knew i had bitten more than i can chew. I ran towards him and pretended i dont know wats happening. I asked him wats wrong, he said i am still doing things he doesnt like. I dont visit him anymore, i dont call him unless he calls. I even prevented him from visiting me. Despite all this samuel was patient enough to stay with me.

On this fateful day, he said what i was doing would lead me to a deep trouble, i thought he was joking. The next day samuel didnt call me. I too didnt call. It lingered till it got to 2 weeks no call from samuel. I said to myself samuel is the man therefore he should contact me. The next week was my birthday, no call from him, i had to send him text late aroud 9pm that my birthday was today.

He called with another number the next day and wished me well, i shed tears and told me he doesnt love me anymore. He just smiled on phone, wished me a happy birthday.

Till date, samuel has not contacted me. Its 3 months now and he is still not back to me. People told me he would come around but its seem unlikelt. His number is no longer going through. He had changed his location. Even his friends doesnt know where he is right now.


I allowed a good man to slip away from my fingers and now am regretting.

I wish i had known i wouldnt have treated him this way.
. Your mistake is allowing oda ppl tell u how to live your life and see where it has lead you to....congrat
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by ailehwise(m): 7:27am On Aug 15, 2014
letter to Samuel on behalf of Liability:
My dear Samuel, am writing to u to let u know that i have wrong u. Pls now av realise u ar d best among them.
Forgive me n come back to me.
I miss, I luv u, n I will con2nue 2 search 4 u thanks.
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by lawbabs: 7:35am On Aug 15, 2014
nikkypearl:

Wicked cheesy cheesy

@nikkypearl, I am only being truthful now cheesy
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Elnino4ladies: 8:24am On Aug 15, 2014
Liability go nd die....nobody giv a fvck about ur fvckin story....
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 8:30am On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay: *wipes tears with mop* I also cried wen I saw d movie ystaday on stv btw wen is d pt2 coming out

cheesy cheesy grin
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by flyingdutchman(m): 8:46am On Aug 15, 2014
"...he just smiled on phone"
Hiiiaaaan! how u see the smile?
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Okijajuju1(m): 8:51am On Aug 15, 2014
Liability: we had been dating for 2 years. He was everything i could ever wish for. The kind of man every lady wished to have, that love me, cherish me, make sure not to see tears roll from my eyes.

Samuel was a dream come true to me. But early this year, things started changing for us. I was carried away things of this world. I listened to friends advise and wanted to enjoy life the more.

I reduce the time i i use to visit him and spent it on the company of other guys. He had caught me several times and warned me of this new behaviour i had exhibited. I though i was smart enough. Samuel was truely a good man.

The last time samuel caught me sitting down with a a guy, he smiled and walked away, i knew i had bitten more than i can chew. I ran towards him and pretended i dont know wats happening. I asked him wats wrong, he said i am still doing things he doesnt like. I dont visit him anymore, i dont call him unless he calls. I even prevented him from visiting me. Despite all this samuel was patient enough to stay with me.

On this fateful day, he said what i was doing would lead me to a deep trouble, i thought he was joking. The next day samuel didnt call me. I too didnt call. It lingered till it got to 2 weeks no call from samuel. I said to myself samuel is the man therefore he should contact me. The next week was my birthday, no call from him, i had to send him text late aroud 9pm that my birthday was today.

He called with another number the next day and wished me well, i shed tears and told me he doesnt love me anymore. He just smiled on phone, wished me a happy birthday.

Till date, samuel has not contacted me. Its 3 months now and he is still not back to me. People told me he would come around but its seem unlikelt. His number is no longer going through. He had changed his location. Even his friends doesnt know where he is right now.


I allowed a good man to slip away from my fingers and now am regretting.

I wish i had known i wouldnt have treated him this way.



Meanwhile, Samuel has been spotted with his new chick..

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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Austyn44(m): 8:53am On Aug 15, 2014
lequatee:

hahahahahaha. my guy, you forgot to add " no pun intended" . so you dated samuel our guy? well, he used the number of times he warned you to play 2- sure with Baba ijebu and the lucky number won. anyways, he just escorted the astronauts to space and will be back in a light year. liabilty that i always writing rubbish...." my bf dumped me after i gave him my money, virginity, liability et al.... aunty carry your punk topic go sleep. this girl wont kill me.


Oboy, Samuel called me yesterday from space, he is now dating one sexy alien.

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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by harffie(m): 9:35am On Aug 15, 2014
defendedvictim: super story..even if its true, wat Shud we do nw?#so, he smiled on phone?
Thought I was the only one who saw that! Samuel must be the great Andyblaze....... Newaiz op!
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by harffie(m): 9:41am On Aug 15, 2014
andromida:

cheesy cheesy grin
Samuel should be shot in the head if he accept you!

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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 10:49am On Aug 15, 2014
harffie:
Samuel should be shot in the head if he accept you!

Wetin me do? How is Samuel the good man my concern?
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Lincoln94(m): 12:30pm On Aug 15, 2014
marieolae: I still believe that u guys will meet again one day
U can think say na Love Film be this

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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by izsmike: 1:59pm On Aug 15, 2014
i am looking for my sammy in yemi alade's voice
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Felixjude(m): 4:07pm On Aug 15, 2014
Unfortunately my dear, you are not the only victim of this kind of situation...a lot of girls make such mistakes of taking a good guy for granted all in the name of seeking for adventure. Well, there is every opportunity of you guys getting back, but you must bury your pride and make a Serious move this time. Its a gamble that may or may not pay off...but it will be more painful if you don't try at all. And if you guys get back, I believe you must have learnt your lessons, if not, you use the experience for the future. Goodluck!

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Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 5:18pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay: *wipes tears with mop* I also cried wen I saw d movie ystaday on stv btw wen is d pt2 coming out
angry
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by AdimGreat(f): 5:20pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay: *wipes tears with mop* I also cried wen I saw d movie ystaday on stv btw wen is d pt2 coming out
rotfl grin
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 6:05pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay: *wipes tears with mop* I also cried wen I saw d movie ystaday on stv btw wen is d pt2 coming out
Mamm! U ma de me roll with laughter.
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Crocz(m): 6:11pm On Aug 15, 2014
He just smiled on phone, wished me a happy birthday.

Ladies and gentlemen, we have been monsterously deceived!...this is a cooked story to attract posts and readers!
Is there nobody smart enough to see this?...how on earth would you know someone smiled on phone?...u be witch?
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 6:23pm On Aug 15, 2014
sameer1212: angry
Baby wats dat
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Mprex(f): 6:42pm On Aug 15, 2014
Singing in wizkid's voice "demma form familiarity yeah yeah yeah yeah"


sister sorry oh! I hope you learn from your mistakes tongue
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Dayjhihannon01(m): 7:09pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay: *wipes tears with mop* I also cried wen I saw d movie ystaday on stv btw wen is d pt2 coming out
thanks... Like aint τђε̣ only one who knws Ops making it up.... No time to comment abeg
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay:
Baby wats dat
r u realy serios dat is a movie? because i taut d gal dey tlk d trut ne?
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 10:34pm On Aug 15, 2014
sameer1212: r u realy serios dat is a movie? because i taut d gal dey tlk d trut ne?
Hehehehe. Y are u still awake
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by defendedvictim(m): 10:35pm On Aug 15, 2014
olashas:
You beat me to it grin
grin
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 10:36pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay:
Hehehehe. Y are u still awake
jst wake up frm sleep sha. dam feeling hungry love.
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 10:47pm On Aug 15, 2014
sameer1212: jst wake up frm sleep sha. dam feeling hungry love.
By dis time baby do u want to eat me
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 11:08pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay:
By dis time baby do u want to eat me
i cant mind if dats wat gona make me feel okey. i promise to do it slowly. cool
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 11:15pm On Aug 15, 2014
sameer1212: i cant mind if dats wat gona make me feel okey. i promise to do it slowly. cool
Ok boo make sure u do it slow nd steady
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 11:22pm On Aug 15, 2014
rozzay:
Ok boo make sure u do it slow nd steady
realy? love jst cant wait for us to be togeda. i realy wana com n c yah soon.jst dat dis ebola sef
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 11:37pm On Aug 15, 2014
sameer1212: realy? love jst cant wait for us to be togeda. i realy wana com n c yah soon.jst dat dis ebola sef
Me 2 baby. Ebola will neva c us IJN
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by harffie(m): 11:51pm On Aug 15, 2014
andromida:

Wetin me do? How is Samuel the good man my concern?
Was referring to the op!
Re: How I Allowed A Good Man To Slip Away From My Grasp. *in Tears* by Nobody: 12:00am On Aug 16, 2014
rozzay:
Me 2 baby. Ebola will neva c us IJN
amen. gud nite love n sleep tiet. kisses to take u true d night.

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