pls can someone help me wit how 2 know when a man is in love wit u.the signs i mean.

Rhodalyn!

when he cant get you off his mind

How are U to know he aint able to get U Off his mind Muki??

retro:

Rhodalyn!

YeS Retro babes

you know a guy loves you, when you hang up and he calls riight back

he calls and says " I just called to say I love you"

when he says he can't get you out of his head and that he's crazy about you

when he calls in the middle of the night and has nothing to say but just wants to hear your voice.

I think I'm in love

@rhoddy and aaliyah
what y'all said is true but not all guys do dat.

guys would all that and more if it were an ordinary gamle to get a lady.its pretty hard to know when a guy really sets his hearts out to love one.thing is many have been too broken hearted to believe ladies so they play along too.personally, n in my experience external signs n actions don't show he diggs u for real.so in other words ,be realistic and stp looking for the perfect guy who would love for life, we're imperfect humans naturally

diddy4:

@rhoddy and aaliyah
what y'all said is true but not all guys do that.

diddy4 tell us how u do urs.

well, u just know!

l think the first question to ask is do u love him ?

Nosu:

l think the first question to ask is do u love him ?

true afterall he might love you but u might not feel the same way

looked @ his reactions

If he beats you to a bloody pulp for the smallest mistake, he loves you.
If he "interrogates" you about your whereabouts even when you have yet to leave the house.
If he calls your friends and asks them pop quiz questions about you.
If he accuses you of getting "fat" then proceeds to put you on a water only diet.
If he just has sex with you without asking for permission.
If he throws punches at you like he does to his buddies.
If he demands you go and hide inside the room whenever guests are around.
If he tells you that the beating you just received was for you own good.
If he follows you around in an un-marked car.
If he gets upset whenever you look at or another man looks at you.
If he is suspicious about you having an affair with your 3 month old son.

All of the above are signs of love. Albeit, not the type of love you might want.

gosh afeni

lol @ Hitler
no wonder oga admin put u in this permanent condition that was hella funny

2fine, I treat my girls better than that. Even their mothers say I am too good to their daughters.

At least until they want to be "equal" partners in the relationship. I don't take fondly to that kind of talk.
































Joking lol

@hibans
come for my private lessons.

@diddy4

Sure, where?

i will hit you up on YIM

U know with the way he cares, the way he gives u a call, the way he smile at u, the way he talks to u, cause his gonna talk to u in a soft minded way, the way he raise his eye bow @ u, just know that guy is up to someting.

You know a guy loves you when he marries you. Amen!

when he smiles a lot whenever he's around u

when he tells u everything and neva 4gets 2 remind u u're d best thing that has ever happened to him
wen he calls u at odd hours 2 hear ur voice we u're sleepy
wen he sings to u till u fall asleep
wen he tells every1 about including his parents and siblings
wen he's almost stalkin wen he's not in town wiv his friends keeping an eye on u
when he's alays there for u no matter what

see now thats too much

thats creepy if he does all that

no it's not, it's sweet n luvin n aw so sweet
my personal experience

I think a guy that loves you wouldn't want to hurt your feelings and
if he does (which he most likely would), he would be remorseful.

But as someone else said, it can be very difficult because a man can
act nice (very nice) just to get him some. So beware.

Ask people that know the man very very well. They will tell you things
like:

1. He actually picks you up from work? He usually doesn't do that with girls.
2. He took you to see his mother? He usually doesn't do that

and so on,
You see my point!

If he pays off your bills
If he never gets tired of u after a decade of courtship
If he carries your buderns as his
If he checks on u often ( mind u it is not love but he is just too possessive if he calls or check on your  very step)

@sunnchnn

SuNnChNn:

If he pays off your bills
If he never gets tired of u after a decade of courtship
If he carries your buderns as his
If he checks on u often ( mind u it is not love but he is just too possessive if he calls or check on your very step)

A man can love you without paying your bills and a man may not love you and pay your
bills.

If a man is really rich and wants to have sex with a lady at all cost, he can pay her cell phone
bill. Once he has had enough sex, he can dump her. So don't fall for that gimmick.

There is more to love than money.

I think i know what real love is and i am not talking about cell phone bills. I meant bills bills bills