you'll be able to tell.
at least most people will be able to tell 'cause your instincts (sp?) will let you know.

You know a man loves you when he gets you that BMW that you want soooo bad. ( am kinda joking) but for real, I need that car by the end of this

month otherwise hmmm we will see,

4 real gal

lol,
now dats sheer materialism!
wht if he really luvs u but cnt afford 2 buy d car?

look if he loves u u'll know, only u really knows this guy not me or anyone else on this forum, so telling u all that crap isnt going ot help u. if he loves u U WILL KNOW, the same way u know u love him too.

not to be a party pooper, but all these things you guys are saying, me thinks a guy can (supposedly) show you how much he loves you before he has gotten any action and all in the bid to get some. if he keeps it up afterwards, then lucky you. ive come across some guys that are so good in disgusing their true intent, they will even take you to see their momma and vice versa all in the bid to get some. dont be fooled. there are some playas out there, girls. you know yourselves!

HE doesn't ask 4 sex
he takes u as u are
He boast of u even when u r not there
Never 4gets his dates with uuu
and.love uuu from d heart

every woman knows when a man loves her.
how does she know?
The man goes gaa gaa over her.

how does he hug u? if he hugs u in a protective manner then he is smitten, bu tin a more sexual manner then he is in lust.

You cant be too sure when a man loves u.
A man can love u and still proof difficult-----
a man can love u and not be very romantic-- thats just him
a man can love u and make u feel insecured
So enjoy every relationship to the fullest and believe that if he is good enough for you then it would be a life long relationship but if not he is not just good enough for you.

katherinae:

how does he hug u? if he hugs u in a protective manner then he is smitten, bu tin a more sexual manner then he is in lust.

hmm i like that

u would know if a man is in love with u after u guys had a big fight and u guys did not sleep on it, he forgives u no matter how much nasty words u have said to him.

I want to get something clear here. Is it knowing if a man loves you when he has not said anything or knowing if the love he confesses is real?

I agree with adunnilaby. A man could love you but come up with some unpredicatable instincts due to character traits or past experiences. If you just started seeing a guy, some of the love signs are:

He listens carefully to what you say and don't say.
Ignoring or offending him makes his heart bleed.
He notices when you put on new cloth, hairstyle, etc.

If you have been seeing him for some time and want to know if he really loves you, there is no rule of thumb. Your instinct should be able to advise you but some of the following might manifest:

He tells you about his past (ugly and pretty)
Keeps no secret.
Allows you go through his phone, etc.
Introduces you to his family and friends.
Patient/learns to be patient with you.
Calls you regularly(if he can afford it)
And others

@ jammin

funny he goes gaa gaaa over her.

*****bumps****

Well,its not that easy.
All you think may be a strategy to at you well.
Just pray to have the right one
And you demonstrate real love
recompensation is likely.

its the little things that he does not really what he says or the huge gestures. but honestly is there really a way of knowing?

Interesting replies so far!!!! i would say what works for one does not for the other. Babes, i personally feel you would know somehow. Your instincts would tell you especially when he respects and treats you good. To get some tips go listen to "WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN" by Michael Bolton

the only tried and tested evidence of a guy's love is if he doesnt mind crying in front of u.

any girl who hasnt seen his boyfriend cry should know the guy doesnt love her.

a simple way to try this out is to tell him u want to break.

no matter how much he beggs, if he doesnt cry then he doesnt love u SIMPLE!!!

otuwe:

the only tried and tested evidence of a guy's love is if he doesnt mind crying in front of u.

any girl who hasnt seen his boyfriend cry should know the guy doesnt love her.
a simple way to try this out is to tell him u want to break.

no matter how much he beggs, if he doesnt cry then he doesnt love u SIMPLE!!!

lmao what if he has nothing to cry about
why will you beg someone that wants out?
na wa o

na these kain girls I dey find when i was in the world, I'll cry crocodile teras, chop and clean mouth and move on

don't be deceived girl, men will do ANYTHING to get laid, including crying, it doesn't mean squat.

debosky:

na these kain girls I dey find when i was in the world, I'll cry crocodile teras, chop and clean mouth and move on

don't be deceived girl, men will do ANYTHING to get laid, including crying, it doesn't mean squat.

u can say that again!

this is very difficult, because a guy can do everything that was mentioned above, but still doesnt give a Damn about you

debosky:

na these kain girls I dey find when i was in the world,

where are you now?

so if man no gree for 10 years of courtship he doesn't love you?

no wonder there are so many broken relationships out there, misplaced ideas and notions are on the increase

after 65 years of marriage and he has not change, he still wanna be wit me, take me out , makelove n all dat. then i'll believe he loves me. simple

when he looks at you then at the next lady and then looks up to the most high and says a big thank you that he did not make a big mistake

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THE MOST DESIRED INSTINCT OF LOVE IS NOT DIAMOND OR ROSES OR CHOCOLATE BUT FOCUSED ATTENTION. [color=#770077][/color]

girls get real, a man can check u up, do all the rubbish and introduce you to his family . obviously to you, he loves you and to a third party out there, you guys are in love . But here comes the big question, To WHAT EXTENT? Extent of making u his sex provider for years untill he thinks its time to upgrade? or extent of spending the rest of his life with you by way of marriage?. Shine your eyes girls, take it one step at a time. A man can naturally love you and start dating you but don't mistake it for something else like being filled with betrayal when he walks or you hear that he is getting married afterall the only way he can have you as long as he desires is to florish you with love if not you may prove had to get and the stress of finding a replacement .Even if you get pregnant 2 hook him up , that is even worse because he can never be there for you. Personally how i know a man loves you is when you share good times together, your problems, no matter how bad , he may criticize you behind closed doors but will always be there for you and can never have rest until its solved, be it sickness, dept , your education, your family's wellbeing, always praying for you both when in difficulty and when everything seems right.,counting on you at all times,thinking of your best interest obviously marries you. its such a huge list if i carry on but its best to advice that a guy shagging you 24-7 and clinging unto you or checking up on you may not love you the way u think because theres more to love than sex and flaunting you all over the city for years only 2 be dumped or compensated in the last minute when he thinks its time to give up on bachelor life. Guys back up my argument