Modified - I am changing the title of the thread to the THE LIFE OF A GOOD NAIJA WIFE because I want to share my experiences with other good Naija wives and hopefully this will be an evenue for us to support one another.

You can also visit my blog - http://theperfectnaijawife dot dot com

Thank You


Hi My fellow Naija sisters in marriage,
I have been coming to Nairaland for almost 6 months now and I can't tell you how wonderful my husband has been about it. Honestly, words can't express how much I love him.

Last night, he gave me 30 mins out of his one hour feet rubbing routine to spend on the internet. He is so impressed by what I am doing here, trying to spread the word, he has even started helping me out a bit. He finds news articles and such for me to post, which makes things easier and faster for me since he normally approves everything I write before I publish them.

Please don't think I am bragging, I am not I just want you to understand that being the perfect Naija wife has its rewards on earth too.

The article I want to post today, given to me by husband, speaks to me in so many ways and I hope it does the same to you also. I'll even recommend you print it out and post somewhere you spend most of your time. . . The kitchen (on the refrigerator)

It's call The Good Wife Guide.

Be Blessed with love and adoration for your husband as you read it

PS
Please pay close attention to the last sentence.

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sisi, when you catch you eh

Perfection is what they will be catching!!

Baby Jinx:

Perfection is what they will be catching!!

this is so so funny. baby jinx, what planet are you from?

tangent:

this is so so funny. baby jinx, what planet are you from?

I am from earth oh my sister. It's hard for people to believe because everyone is so westernized these days. Women today are so into women liberation or what I like to call the devil's tool because of this, families are falling apart, women are talking back to their husbands!! Seriously, When is this Satan-inspired evil going to end? Never. . . if somebody does not take up the cause and that's what I am doing, teaching Naija women about PET

P- Perseverance
E- Endurance
T- Tolerance

I'll advice all good Naija women to join me, let stand our grounds by submitting ourselves.

@ baby jinx,

this cause is dangerous. i have read many feminist topics on nairaland so be prepared to have your head bashed. submission of women is very necessary but there is a fine line between submission and stupidity. i will be submissive but with self dignity.

where can i find such a wife?

The can bash me all they want, I don't care and I don't need them to support me because I will have the support of the people who are more important. . . the MEN.

DavidDylan:

where can i find such a wife?

My dear sir, there women like this everywhere, they are just afraid to show themselves because of the Attilas called women libbers. Slowly, they are gaining the confidence to come out.

your happiness should be more important to  you than what the mis-guided femi-nazis think. keep a great home front nothing is able to defeat you if the home team is one.  

@david. just pray God will give you one of His wonderful daughters but bro make yourself a good son that is worth His daughter. God is fair. He wont give any of His gem to a man that is not worth it. our clever brothers know that and they are living to tell the nightmares.

Baby Jinx:

My dear sir, there women like this everywhere, they are just afraid to show themselves because of the Attilas called women libbers. Slowly, they are gaining the confidence to come out.

absolutely true. God will always have remnant that will not bow and buy into the folly of this world.

JJYOU:

your happiness should be more important to you than what the mis-guided femi-nazis think. keep a great home front nothing is able to defeat you if the home team is one.

@david. just pray God will give you one of His wonderful daughters but bro make yourself a good son that is worth His daughter. God is fair. He wont give any of His gem to a man that is not worth it. our clever brothers know that and they are living to tell the nightmares.

True words bro. It took me a few yrs to come to this realisation myself. Sure i know the Lord is preparing a woman for me, i can bet she wont be a femi-nazi.

Baby Jinx:

The can bash me all they want, I don't care and I don't need them to support me because I will have the support of the people who are more important. . . the MEN.

count me in. i want to be a part of this.

Baby Jinx:

My dear sir, there women like this everywhere, they are just afraid to show themselves because of the Attilas called women libbers. Slowly, they are gaining the confidence to come out.

We love and appreciate them . . . they are our helpers, friends and confidantes not slaves.

Where is the "Naija" aspect here??

all that na oyinbo na

DavidDylan:

True words bro. It took me a few years to come to this realisation myself. Sure i know the Lord is preparing a woman for me, i can bet she wont be a femi-nazi.  

Amen. jazebel and her cousins is not your portion in Jesus name.  check out derek prince "God is a match maker". i think every young person should read that book.  the enemy is ready to push people into wrong relationships because he knows if he succeeds there he has literally destroyed a destiny.

you must go for a marraige God can bless. God finds it joyfull blesing a home that is united

DavidDylan:

We love and appreciate them . . . they are our helpers, friends and confidantes not slaves.

team work dear brother. team work.  by His grace i am building my team Joshua. never slavery. woe to the man that treats Gods child lesser than God wants for her. it is a priviledge for God and a parents to entrust you with their own daughter.  we will all become parents one day. we must treat the mothers the way we want them to be treated. that is not beyond human ability

Gamine:

Where is the "Naija" aspect here??

all that na oyinbo na

where the oyinbo? love and respect is of God not white or black.

tangent:

count me in. i want to be a part of this.

Thank you jare my sister. Please Visit my blog, it's also one of the avenues my husband has given me permission to use for spreading the word.

Gamine:

Where is the "Naija" aspect here??

all that na oyinbo na

What is Oyinbo about the bible or don't you know It's all there? The God created MAN in HIS image, demonstrating the high regard He held for the MALE. Eve, on the other hand, was created as an after-thought, a mere plaything for Adam. It was Eve's inherent weakness that allowed her to be tempted by Satan and led to Adam being expelled from the Garden of Eden. Not content with that she was also responsible for the Fall of Man and condemning every man and woman to be born with sin. How these 'feminists' have the nerve to defend their actions and demand equal rights beggers the imagination.

Showing His merciful nature, God merely gave her a mild punishment and we should forever be thankful for that.

Abeg Oyinbo has nothing to do with this ooh!

This post is dripping with sarcasm yet it continues to swoosh over some heads.

Sisi, no make I wring your neck o.

Baby Jinx:

The God created MAN in HIS image, demonstrating the high regard He held for the MALE. Eve, on the other hand, was created as an after-thought, a mere plaything for Adam. It was Eve's inherent weakness that allowed her to be tempted by Satan and led to Adam being expelled from the Garden of Eden. Not content with that she was also responsible for the Fall of Man and condemning every man and woman to be born with sin. How these 'feminists' have the nerve to defend their actions and demand equal rights beggers the imagination.

Showing His merciful nature, God merely gave her a mild punishment and we should forever be thankful for that.

This had better be sarcasm, its the most foolish misrepresentation of the bible i've seen this week.

urgh! and i'm going to throw up the next minute someone comes here whinning about "demanding equal rights".

Why won't you join me? Help me destroy these ridiculous laws, inspired by Satan and designed to destroy family harmony, make it illegal for men to carry out their God given right to rule over their wives?

It's not right now, it's not!

@Josh,

omo na so i see am ooo!

i see naija for post-topic. . . . . .


@Baby Jinx,

No be from Oyinbo u see bible

abeg make we hear word!

Some people need to learn the art of sarcasm.
this is so poor its no surprise no one is laughing.

DavidDylan:

This had better be sarcasm, its the most foolish misrepresentation of the bible i've seen this week.

urgh! and i'm going to throw up the next minute someone comes here whinning about "demanding equal rights".

Mr. David, how can you with your bible name, be opposed to what is written in the bible? It is men like you who give these attila women libbers mouth to talk and then you turn around and request good wives.

Baby Jinx:

Mr. David, how can you with your bible name, be opposed to what is written in the bible? It is men like you who give these attila women libbers mouth to talk and then you turn around and request good wives.

Mr. Dauda pls
I'm not sure you've read the bible at all. It calls Eve a "helpmeet" not a mere afterthought. Perhaps you may want to brush up on your sunday school lessons again.

Oh give me a break! You were all over it until you read Karma's post. I thought I was doing such a shitty job of it, no one would take it seriously but to my surprise, they did. So I had to make it even shittier. . . something YOU still fell for.

Gamine:

@Josh,

omo na so i see am ooo!

i see naija for post-topic. . . . . .

you are an iwions as my sister would say

DavidDylan:

Mr. Dauda please
I'm not sure you've read the bible at all. It calls Eve a "helpmeet" not a mere afterthought. Perhaps you may want to brush up on your sunday school lessons again.

say it again loud and clear.

JJYOU:

you are an iwions as my sister would say say it again loud and clear.

Mr. Sir, I am confused by your posting. Are you for or against Good Naija Wives?

Well Mr Josh, i no know wetin that one be.

But you no seems to understand wetin pesi dey talk

These requirements are too mild for "Naija"

Baby Jinx:

Oh give me a break! You were all over it until you read Karma's post. I thought I was doing such a shitty job of it, no one would take it seriously but to my surprise, they did. So I had to make it even shittier. . . something YOU still fell for.

I wasnt all over it sis, get your facts right. The only thing that sounded relatively funny was the poster itself which was what i made reference to. You pretty much ruined whatever effects you intended when you started dragging the bible irreverently into it.

Even sarcasm has a limit. Telling blatant lies about the bible is a limit even i wont cross.

What utter twaddle, How about he does the

DavidDylan:

I wasnt all over it sis, get your facts right. The only thing that sounded relatively funny was the poster itself which was what i made reference to. You pretty much ruined whatever effects you intended when you started dragging the bible irreverently into it.

Even sarcasm has a limit. Telling blatant lies about the bible is a limit even i wont cross.

Yes sir, whatever you say sir. You are right of course. Thank you for correcting me, please feel free to do so as often as possible. After all you are a man. . . A Bible studying man, that's as close to God as you can get.

Gamine:

Well Mr Josh, i no know wetin that one be.

But you no seems to understand wetin pesi dey talk

These requirements are too mild for "Naija"

Gamine oh Jare, what do you mean mild? Tell me what we can do to make it less mild.

Baby Jinx:

Yes sir, whatever you say sir. You are right of course. Thank you for correcting me, please feel free to do so as often as possible. After all you are a man. . . A Bible studying man, that's as close to God as you can get.

are you only good for lame attempts at come backs?

bridget007:

What utter twaddle, How about he does the dishes, cooks my meal, hoovers the house, collects the children from the childminder and has a kiss ready for me when I arrive home after a hard day at work. I am the breadwinner, I gave birth to 5 children and am pregnant with my 6th and work FT and study, I have a BSc degree, masters and PhD and work FT, what about equality, If a woman can do as a man does, then he can help out around the house and care for the kids too, otherwise he can pay for help!!
Women are much more than a man's servant.
If a husband and wife BOTH work Fulltime then all housework and childcare should be 50/50.

Ask your husband, not us. We didnt marry you.