jashar: 5

Michyeddy: so you had to quote the whole post just to say your moniker. You kidding me?

freecocoa: I don't think all these really apply in the real world o( not all at least).

Any man who is out to deceive a lady will even go as far as giving her an engagement ring, all to continue shining her Kongo or whatever it is he wants her for besides marriage, one just has to keep hoping/praying not to end up in the wrong hands.

I'm not saying "ignore the signs" no, there are definitely red flags but these articles always make it sound like you can outrightly tell a serious/unserious man by following a guidebook.

Ceasar1:

In Rihanna's voice “I like the way you Lie”.

Kimmo:

Ah ah? I'm the one who sent message that didn't get a reply jor

Yomieluv: Op,you are looking at it from the men's side only,what if the lady doesn't possess marriageable characteristics?

tbagjames:
Stupidity exemplified

I am Mad Cow.. Dafuq were you expecting from me?!




You must feel like a genius right about now.. Okay! Go tell your Mum that you are smarter than a Mad Cow.

Ewu Okigwe..

1stola:
MAD COW INDEED.
I REST MY CASE.

What Case biko nu?! Briefcase abi Court case?!




Una see how crase dey start..

uzoexcel: for once on nairaland i agree with u....



@ op lalasticlala..watz ur own sef...tis topic shouldav beeen created by a lay and not a guy now....wat are u trying to prove?

The Nigga is a snitchass, WomanWrapperAss, cockblocking Mofo..









When next I see him on the streets, ITS ON!!!


Now my Nwababy knows why I havent put a ring on it..

BirdOfParadise: @OP, (1) my ex always discussed marriage, I was the one who avoided the topic. I told him there was no need for a rush.
(2) he had a laid-back attitude and worked as hard as any sane human being should.
(3) all his friends are married and he is still single. They used to call him professional sword-crosser (he is a military officer and has attended more weddings than necessary).
(4) he was good at sex but wasn't particularly emphatic about it. He believed there was time for everything.
(5) due to his profession, he travelled a lot, but never failed in being there for me. I love travelling as well and ithat helped us strike a balance.
(6) he took me to meet his entire family even against my will. His siblings and mum were nice to me.
(7) all his future plans he discussed with me and sought my advice most time.
( he always wanted in on all my plans and even made some plans for us together.
(9) he was never married or divorced.
(10) despite the nature of his job, he told me all the necessary things I needed to know and his superiors were my friends and still are.
All what I have written above might paint a picture of a perfect gentleman and great spouse, but that was not to be the case. Despite his charms and kind ways, he cheated on me with his ex over and over and over. And he confessed it to me. I left him for good and have my peace of mind.
The summary of it all is "humans are unpredictable". Your analysis might only apply to a mere few. Cheers

Eyop:

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BirdOfParadise: @OP, (1) my ex always discussed marriage, I was the one who avoided the topic. I told him there was no need for a rush.
(2) he had a laid-back attitude and worked as hard as any sane human being should.
(3) all his friends are married and he is still single. They used to call him professional sword-crosser (he is a military officer and has attended more weddings than necessary).
(4) he was good at sex but wasn't particularly emphatic about it. He believed there was time for everything.
(5) due to his profession, he travelled a lot, but never failed in being there for me. I love travelling as well and ithat helped us strike a balance.
(6) he took me to meet his entire family even against my will. His siblings and mum were nice to me.
(7) all his future plans he discussed with me and sought my advice most time.
( he always wanted in on all my plans and even made some plans for us together.
(9) he was never married or divorced.
(10) despite the nature of his job, he told me all the necessary things I needed to know and his superiors were my friends and still are.
All what I have written above might paint a picture of a perfect gentleman and great spouse, but that was not to be the case. Despite his charms and kind ways, he cheated on me with his ex over and over and over. And he confessed it to me. I left him for good and have my peace of mind.
The summary of it all is "humans are unpredictable". Your analysis might only apply to a mere few. Cheers

I like your post soooooo darn much I wanna put a ring on it.





I have said it that relationship no get manual..

All these basic bitches are online looking for a million reasons why the Nigga isnt making move.. Let her step aside and watch a supreme biitch make that nigga get on one knee in under 6 Months..


The girls who spend so much time reading up on relationships RARELY ever get married just like the People who spend so much time reading up on How to Get Rich quick motivational books RARELY ever Get Rich..

BirdOfParadise: You are a darling.

That's why it's always good to read and digest post before jumping into conclusion like i almost did before realising there was an impasse. All the points you listed above describes a perfect gentle man as you indicated not until the issue of cheating over and over again was noticed in your post.

Ceasar1:

In Rihanna's voice “I like the way you Lie”.

Goodkidd:
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