djbazz:

Nonsense person, nonsense comment. And jobless Drey

mmmmh. wen u r nt a virgin i dnt c anytin special abt wedn night sex. evn wen u r a V trust me aft d hectic day u wil n too tired to tink of sex. 4those dt tink kids spoil d fun in marriage i dnt agree wit u. ok u wait 5yrs 3yrs bf ving kids n wat next? u giv ur kids al d attention n ur marriage becms so dry n boring. well am married wit a child, my life just becm more fun n lively cuz i club wit hubby n visit all d joints n hotels in amuwo. evn if i v 10kids fun wnt pass me by oo. we go remain olingo coupl. bf u ask hw i do it. smtims we hang out wit my.son smtyms we liv him behind depending on whr we r goin to. marriage shud b enoyed nt endured oo

I would have mine after our first child turns 3

Why should I?







I trust myself, I go don f*ck her taya b4 we even think wedding self




So no need to rush myself

nikkyshyne: Easier said than done.

Nope where there is a will there's a way. It all depends on what you really want. With birth control methods and all that, it won't be much of a problem.

sergiozlatan:
Yes that's true but not for 3 years abeg. A year and some months is okay

Lol too long?

Pendora: mmmmh. wen u r nt a virgin i dnt c anytin special abt wedn night sex. evn wen u r a V trust me aft d hectic day u wil n too tired to tink of sex. 4those dt tink kids spoil d fun in marriage i dnt agree wit u. ok u wait 5yrs 3yrs bf ving kids n wat next? u giv ur kids al d attention n ur marriage becms so dry n boring. well am married wit a child, my life just becm more fun n lively cuz i club wit hubby n visit all d joints n hotels in amuwo. evn if i v 10kids fun wnt pass me by oo. we go remain olingo coupl. bf u ask hw i do it. smtims we hang out wit my.son smtyms we liv him behind depending on whr we r goin to. marriage shud b enoyed nt endured oo

Please don't get me wrong I'm not saying you can't have fun when the kids come. If you notice I put the spoil in quote. But you can't pretend like its thesame when its just you too. When a kid comes into the family most of your time is usally spent on the kid and not your spouse, it takes a couple who are really in love with understanding for each other to not drift apart at this stage because children are very demanding. Its something you have to prepare you mindset for. Imagine when you and your hubby want to be intimate and the child starts crying arhhh just when konji is at its peak lol, children need lots of attention, so no matter what if you use to spend 8 hours with your hubby everyday the coming of a child will definitely split that 8 hours. I hope you get where I'm coming from?

Natasha2:
Please don't get me wrong I'm not saying you can't have fun when the kids come. If you notice I put the spoil in quote. But you can't pretend like its thesame when its just you too. When a kid comes into the family most of your time is usally spent on the kid and not your spouse, it takes a couple who are really in love with understanding for each other to not drift apart at this stage because children are very demanding. Its something you have to prepare you mindset for. Imagine when you and your hubby want to be intimate and the child starts crying arhhh just when konji is at its peak lol, children need lots of attention, so no matter what if you use to spend 8 hours with your hubby everyday the coming of a child will definitely split that 8 hours. I hope you get where I'm coming from?

woman i wont advise you to use birth control pills. The pills change the hormones in the body. If you plan on fucking for 5yr with no pikin, i swear when ppl start frustrating you and you need the child, you wont see it.
Talking from experience.

priscaoge:
Can u make love to a lady that is menstruating

Timothy3113: woman i wont advise you to use birth control pills. The pills change the hormones in the body. If you plan on fucking for 5yr with no pikin, i swear when ppl start frustrating you and you need the child, you wont see it.
Talking from experience.

Haba na fight!!
I'm a very strong willed person, I'm not pressurised by what others say. I'm one of those few who understands the huge responsibility that comes with children in marriage and untill I'm ready for that no one can force me, like "na u go take care of my pikin for me?" Lol

Natasha2:

Lol too long?

Yes. It's long. You might consider reducing yours as well.

1) how can a lady, be on her period on her wedding day, what if her gown turns red.... if so i will laugh
2) i dont think it is advisable to do so, and i think they just calculate themselves and then schedule the wedding

sergiozlatan:

Yes. It's long. You might consider reducing yours as well.

I don't think so though. Even my parents waited for 2 years before they started having kids. Anyways let me get married first lol

Natasha2:
I don't think so though. Even my parents waited for 2 years before they started having kids. Anyways let me get married first lol

Alright! Just plan with your husband but don't be too stubborn if he thinks otherwise.

sergiozlatan:

Alright! Just plan with your husband but don't be too stubborn if he thinks otherwise.

He has no choice lol