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| Before And After Marriage by femixyz(m): 3:04pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Who changes after marriage, is it the Husband or the Wife? justify. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Seun(m): 3:09pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Immediately after honeymoon, the husband and wife will both stop pretending, which will make each spouse to think the other spouse changed. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by TV01(m): 3:10pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
femixyz: Who changes after marriage, is it the Husband or the Wife? justify. Both! The key is in managing change. Anticipating it and dealing with it's consequences. TV 1 Like |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by justi4jesu(f): 3:14pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Change is constant in life, You just need to be able to tolerate him or her if and when he/she changes from what you initially knew them to be. But most people pretend until after marriage then you will get to see their actual behaviour. 1 Like |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by shizzle11(m): 3:23pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
whish kain qweshun be dis? Change in marriage isnt a gender thing, it has to do with individuals 2 Likes |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by femixyz(m): 3:30pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
am of the opinion that after marriage, they (man n wife) tend to get use to each other. thereby not actually seeing wat seems to be special back then before marriage not bn special now.. tho my opinion |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by MizMyColi(f): 3:49pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Seun: Immediately after marriage, the husband and wife will both stop pretending, which will make each spouse to think the other spouse has changed.^^^True that. People don't change, they merely reveal themselves. 8 Likes |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by JEITO: 4:17pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
There is no hard and fast rule to that; marriage is not a transformer. Situations may force a couple to change or bend to fit in to the demands of the union... |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by femixyz(m): 4:19pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
agree JEITO: There is no hard and fast rule to that; marriage is not a transformer. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by mcnepow(m): 4:43pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Change is constant in life, You just need to be able to tolerate him or her if and when he/she changes from what you initially knew them to be. But most people pretend until after marriage then you will get to see their actual behaviour.
I dey laff ooooo!  IMO, Behaving differently from how he/she was before marriage is a Scam and should be handled accordingly! I would personally not condone that. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Nobody: 5:10pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Love is a temporary insanity curable by marriage. Marriage is a lasting insanity brought about by a collective paranoid delusion called 'love'. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by femixyz(m): 9:11pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
Like seriously  1stCitizen: Love is a temporary insanity curable by marriage. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Kanwulia: 9:34pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
BOTH change! They become real actors/actresses in the DRAMA of their LIVES! No FAKING!!!  Now. . . THE DRAMA can be a COMEDY or TRAGEDY! Or a combination of BOTH! A sheer battle of WITS. Not for the WITLESS! 1 Like |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Kanwulia: 9:36pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
1stCitizen: Love is a temporary insanity curable by marriage. GBAM!  Source please!  1 Like |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
MizMyColi: ^^^True that. True This is actually someone's personal text |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by MizMyColi(f): 10:09pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
bukatyne:I used it as my Siggy for a bit. |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Nobody: 11:20am On Aug 21, 2014 |
femixyz: Like seriously Yes! Seriously!!! Improvement of the condition can be expected some time after the honeymoon. Absolute remedy may be predicted with the birth of the first child. After that, if the symptoms persist you may have to accept you have a chronic illness |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by simplyOJ(m): 12:18pm On Aug 21, 2014 |
Marriage as an Institution is filled with land mines and the ability of both couples to understand and agree to work together to maneuver these land mines, and even managing the rife that may result from detonating of any of the mines is essential. It is always not an easy situation as married couple, but when you make up you mind to want to make it work, the home would be better off for it.I believe the man has a huge role to play and in most cases are the ones that triggers most of the mines at home. Trust me, a woman that has decided to get married to you and you treat her right; you are guaranteed long life to an extent and a peaceful home. I do know of few instances of craz.y situations of irrespective of what the man does, the woman still look out, that not withstanding, they are few in number. This may not be pleasant to the hearing of some, but women are in most cases loyal and more faithful to their marriages, hence are able to remain steadfast (I dont know of boyfriend/girlfriend, but on married couples). NOTE: This is no battle of the sexes  . |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by justi4jesu(f): 12:44pm On Aug 21, 2014 |
mcnepow: very funny |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by Nmeri17: 6:49am On Aug 23, 2014 |
1stCitizen: Love is a temporary insanity curable by marriage. bro this is a wrong ideology. that u haven't found true love doesn't mean it doesn't exist. have you witnessed happily ever after?? It may be rare But It's there |
| Re: Before And After Marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:38am On Aug 23, 2014 |
simplyOJ: Marriage as an Institution is filled with land mines and the ability of both couples to understand and agree to work together to maneuver these land mines, and even managing the rife that may result from detonating of any of the mines is essential. It is always not an easy situation as married couple, but when you make up you mind to want to make it work, the home would be better off for it.I believe the man has a huge role to play and in most cases are the ones that triggers most of the mines at home. Trust me, a woman that has decided to get married to you and you treat her right; you are guaranteed long life to an extent and a peaceful home. I do know of few instances of craz.y situations of irrespective of what the man does, the woman still look out, that not withstanding, they are few in number. This may not be pleasant to the hearing of some, but women are in most cases loyal and more faithful to their marriages, hence are able to remain steadfast (I dont know of boyfriend/girlfriend, but on married couples). Woaw! Beautifully put. Thank goodness it is coming from a guy. I need to save this. IMO, 70% of problems caused in relationship is caused by the woman; 70% of problems caused in marriage is caused by the man Men work hard to make their relationship work and leave women to take over after marriage |
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