Just addressed one of the petty things disturbing me.I don't need a response from the lady again.I'm cool!

Good one OP!

Kindly follow back

evegran: Good one OP!

in terms of relationship.....'dont get attached too much because pple wake up with different feelings everyday'........in a nutshell don't love or care too much cos if u do u might b d one feelin d pain more wen d oda partner breaks off d relationship

Unibenstudent: Kindly follow back

. State three reasons!

1)i wanna be able to give u great message for only u
2)because u are polite and friendly u should follow back
3)i will be grateful if u do follow back

evegran: . State three reasons!

Unibenstudent: 1)i wanna be able to give u great message for only u
2)because u are polite and friendly u should follow back
3)i will be grateful if u do follow back

. "Great" message? What could possibly be great about a message? Or are you exaggerating? And yes I am polite. Friendly? Nah! I am not particularly friendly, I don't mix easily- unless I spot my kind in the picture. . Your gratitude? Hmm! Well, I always need a reason for every action that's why questions are being asked.

evegran: . "Great" message? What could possibly be great about a message? Or are you exaggerating? And yes I am polite. Friendly? Nah! I am not particularly friendly, I don't mix easily- unless I spot my kind in the picture. . Your gratitude? Hmm! Well, I always need a reason for every action that's why questions are being asked.

Well thanks though

Unibenstudent: Well thanks though

. You're welcome!

..wat an insightful write up..nice 1 bro

Nice piece. I love that Nelson Mandela's quote on resentment.

I shall be back

evegran: . You're welcome!

insightful!!!

As humans we are deeply flawed when it comes to dealing with hurts.we cud harbour resentments for years and refuse to let go of them.if you hold on to things,u r the prisoner.I'm a mixture of choleric and melancholy.....belive me,I have a lot of temper issues that it saps all my energy to forgive once I feel offended.but once I learned the key,its a lot easier now.the greatest dis-service u can do to yourself is not to tell yourself the truth.we must learn to face life head-on.nobody is responsible for your happiness......it all lies on you and you alone.

Thank you op,you don't know what you just did. and thanks to you AdeniyiA.

Ok

Amazing piece. Dealing with past errors, losses, and hurtful memories could affect how well you'd cope with the present. Not everyone has the mental strength to make it through. Some are ever-regretful, some breakdown, some shove the thoughts aside and move on happily, while some... you know, transact a 'ropy' business with the ceiling. God Help us all.

This is educative and helpful

I'm just going thru all that now because the past. My beloved want to separate from me and is killing. I've done all I could to make her forgive but is so hard for her to do. She's planning to move out with our 3 kids too. I hurt her the past but I've been apologizing for months now with rescind mind from her decision. And also all pastors have talked but to no avail is I'm ripped apart. Guys I need ur advice.

Nice one

Nice write up,but then its hard it takes huge determinatiion to get over it.

I think if you are a believer you won't have issues dealing with hurt. Just ask God to help you deal with the pain. I do it a lot and I get a whole lot of inner strength that I know can only come from God.

mztubsy: As humans we are deeply flawed when it comes to dealing with hurts.we cud harbour resentments for years and refuse to let go of them.if you hold on to things,u r the prisoner.I'm a mixture of choleric and melancholy.....belive me,I have a lot of temper issues that it saps all my energy to forgive once I feel offended.but once I learned the key,its a lot easier now.the greatest dis-service u can do to yourself is not to tell yourself the truth.we must learn to face life head-on.nobody is responsible for your happiness......it all lies on you and you alone.

hmmmmmmm.....ex-squeeze me!!!

Really heart fixing! But easier said than done.

Really heart fixing! But easier said than done.

Nice tips!thanks op,for taking your precious time to write this out for ours,GOD would keep empower your effort to put more like this out,